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Desert Island Discs
Presented by Michael Parkinson
Actress who won an Oscar for her role opposite Paul Newman in 'Hud'.
Eight records
The keepsakes
The book
collected short stories by various writers
Editor: unspecified; includes stories by Roald Dahl, Estelle Perlman, J.D. Salinger, Truman Capote, and others
I think short stories. I mean, th th that would be much better because then you'd have a lot of writers.
In conversation
Presenter asks
Do you feel that you've suffered more than your fair share?
I sure do. Ha ha. But I mean, I can laugh about it. I've got to laugh about it because, I mean, if I didn't, I'd I would have killed myself some years ago. But you know, it's uh it it's sad, but it happens.
Presenter asks
What was Ronald Reagan like in those days?
Oh he was a very good man he really was. He was very friendly. and a great entertainer. He was a you know, he was a good date. But nothing romantic.
Presenter asks
The recording
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Speaker 1
Hello, I'm Kirsty Young, and this is a podcast from the Desert Island Discs archive. For rights reasons, we've had to shorten the music.
Speaker 1
The programme was originally broadcast in nineteen eighty eight, and the presenter was Sue Lawley.
Presenter
My Castaway this week is an actress whose life has been a mixture of professional success and private tragedy. The success in Hollywood and on Broadway, she appeared in many distinguished roles, including an Oscar winning performance opposite Paul Newman in HUD.
Presenter
In private, however, she's often found her life, despite five children and a long marriage to the author Roald Arle, painful and humiliating.
Presenter
She suffered three near fatal strokes, but she fought back to appear once more in public, to be once more a wife and a mother, only to find finally that her husband wanted to divorce her and to marry a close friend.
Presenter
Now, aged sixty two, she lives in America, where, alone, she has begun to come to terms with her bittersweet memories. She is Patricia
Presenter
Patricia, I know there's been a great deal of joy in your life too, but running through it there is this catalogue of tragedies. Do you feel that you've suffered more than your fair share?
Patricia Neal
I sure do. Ha ha.
Patricia Neal
But I mean, I can laugh about it. I've got to laugh about it because, I mean, if I didn't, I'd I would have killed myself some years ago.
Patricia Neal
But you know, it's uh it it's sad, but it happens.
Presenter
The word gutsy is one that crops up time and again when one reads about you. It's a very American word. Is have you always been gutsy? Were you gutsy as a child? I really think I have been.
Patricia Neal
I mean, it's an extraordinary thing to say, but I really think I was.
Patricia Neal
Everything I wanted I fought for, but I didn't always get it now. Let's not forget that.
Presenter
Well, you'll need to be gutsy on our desert island to combat all of the problems. It's quite a pleasant tropical island, I should say.
Patricia Neal
Say
Presenter
Is it going to pose you any worries, or are you looking forward to being a castaway?
Patricia Neal
Well, uh I the idea of being alone is sort of uh scary, but maybe I'd like it in the end.
Presenter
You're alone now.
Patricia Neal
You did right.
Presenter
Yeah.
Patricia Neal
Uh
Presenter
A
Presenter
So you're at peace now with your own company, are you? Yes, I am.
Patricia Neal
You know, I love to be with people really, but I I don't mind being alone at times.
Presenter
Now is the music going to help you on the island?
Patricia Neal
Oh yes, very muchly so.
Presenter
I learned that.
Patricia Neal
I like Gershwin's Rhapsody in blue.
Presenter
Shall we have that one first? Let's do that.
Patricia Neal
Yeah.
Presenter
Uh
Presenter
Gershwin's Rhapsody in Blue played by the Pittsburgh Symphony Orchestra with Andrei Previn as soloist and conductor.
Presenter
Patricia, one of your early films was one that we hear mentioned quite often these days, and and and not it has to be said because you were in it, but because Ronald Reagan was in it, The Hasty Heart.
Patricia Neal
Do a
Presenter
Jim Richard.
Patricia Neal
Damn right.
Patricia Neal
That was a very interesting time in my life. It really was. You stayed at the Savoy together? We stayed at the Savoy in adjoining rooms. Actually, they were better than the rooms. They were suites. It was really we had a good time. So you you painted the town red together, did you? Well we did occasionally you see because he was uh um I mean Jane Wyman was divorcing him and uh and that was very painful for him. And of course, I mean I had a private life too. So we just went around together. What was Ronald Reagan like in those days?
Patricia Neal
Oh he was a very good man he really was. He was very friendly.
Patricia Neal
and a great entertainer.
Patricia Neal
He was a you know, he was a good date.
Patricia Neal
But nothing romantic.
Presenter
Yeah.
Patricia Neal
I think
Presenter
No, I believe you, I believe you.
Patricia Neal
Believe it
Presenter
Let's go back to to to long before that, to the beginning. Patsy Neal from Tennessee. How did she know she wanted to be an actress?
Patricia Neal
Well, it's just that I was in church one evening in Methodist church and I was
Patricia Neal
In the basement and this dear woman, she gave monologues. My golly, I my heart was pounding, my eyes filled with tears. I could hardly wait to study dramatics. Well, my father's boss's daughter, she'd just come back from New York and she taught dramatic lessons and I began to give monologues and I loved it. You like showing off? Yes, I do. I've had we all have problems and w one of mine is showing off.
Presenter
I wanna mine this sh
Patricia Neal
Yeah.
Presenter
Well, I think you probably chose the right thing to show off about, didn't you? Because by by the age of twenty one you were the toast of Broadway.
Patricia Neal
Well, I was lucky that way.
Presenter
You were put on the front of all the magazines. You were the the brightest newcomer, they said.
Patricia Neal
Well, I wasn't Elizabeth Taylor.
Patricia Neal
But I give them a couple of magazine covers.
Presenter
Let's have your second record.
Patricia Neal
I would like Bach, you know? Uh organ music by Bach. That would be great.
Presenter
Bachstekarter in D minor played by Daniel Chortzempe at the organ of Our Lady's Church, Bredar.
Presenter
So Patricia Neal, it was 1947 and you hit Hollywood. Can you remember how it looked? Can you remember your first impressions?
Presenter
Oh, I was thrilled.
Patricia Neal
Thrilled. I was thrilled and I took a train because I was frightened of planes at that point and I took this great train when it was so
Patricia Neal
Took a long time to get there, and I remember I got off in Pasadena Pasadena, California, and I was met by an agent. He took me to the Bel Air Hotel, and I had my little hat on, and my suit on and my gloves on, and I looked very good. And then um
Patricia Neal
Well, and then a day all of it started to happen, but I didn't really know a lot about films in the beginning and I had to be taught. But in in the end I learned slowly, slowly how to act in films. And you loved it? Yes.
Presenter
It wasn't long, though, before you you met a man who was to turn your life on its head, Gary Cooper.
Patricia Neal
Mm-hmm.
Presenter
How how did you meet him?
Patricia Neal
Uh, well, I met him at a luncheon at W Warner Brothers. Why Jack Warner had a great luncheon with about fifty people.
Patricia Neal
And I saw Gary Cooper then and I
Patricia Neal
Oh I responded to him on on meeting him. And then King Vidor was just in front of the make up department when he passed me on his bicycle and he stopped.
Patricia Neal
And we began to talk.
Patricia Neal
And he talked to me about fifteen minutes, I think, and then he said to me
Patricia Neal
Would you like to test for the fountain head?
Speaker 4
Ah
Patricia Neal
Would I? I had read The Fountainhead at university at Northwestern I went to, and oh, I would love to. So um
Patricia Neal
I tested for it, two scenes and uh I got it, which was very good.
Presenter
It is uh a a classic love story, really, isn't it? Because you you and Gary Cooper were acting together.
Presenter
In a film you were acting out this fictional love, which in fact became a reality.
Patricia Neal
Yes, because I I really adored him and he did me too. We didn't get started while the film was going on. But when the film finished we had
Patricia Neal
Our first night together. And then it it went on for five years. He was quite.
Presenter
He was quite a lot he was quite a lot older than he was.
Patricia Neal
Yes, he was twenty five years older than me, but that was nothing in those days. When you're young, you don't know what you shouldn't have.
Patricia Neal
And happily I didn't have it really.
Presenter
What was it that you loved about him?
Patricia Neal
He was so witty he really had great wit.
Patricia Neal
And his movements were fantastic and he had fabulous eyes and he to me he was the beauty of the world.
Presenter
But he also had a wife.
Patricia Neal
Well yeah he sure did.
Patricia Neal
And I did not have sense enough to know it, and I'm sorry that I made all those mistakes in life.
Patricia Neal
But you make'em, you make'em.
Presenter
For a long time you managed to keep your affair very secret, didn't you? But eventually it came out.
Patricia Neal
Yeah.
Patricia Neal
Like they all do in time.
Presenter
And then finally you decided it had to end.
Patricia Neal
Yes, I did. He'd gone to New York.
Patricia Neal
And I spoke to a friend and he told me that he was in the hospital.
Patricia Neal
from ulcers which he got from all the torture that we had been going through.
Patricia Neal
Then I made the mistake of calling his mother, who I knew, and we'd gone by and seen her quite often, and she did not know about us, but now she knew. And she was um
Patricia Neal
She was not polite to me. She said, uh
Patricia Neal
You know, you're a terrible woman, the fact that you have done this to my son. And and I don't blame him. So she made me know that I had to end it.
Presenter
And finally you made the call to him and you ended it.
Patricia Neal
I did. I did. And
Patricia Neal
When I hung up that phone it was like love
Patricia Neal
A hundred years in a second.
Presenter
Was he the only man you ever loved?
Patricia Neal
Well, yes, in the begin b for b for some years, but then I I also loved Ruel Dahl, who I married.
Patricia Neal
We were married many years.
Presenter
As we shall hear. Let's have your third record.
Patricia Neal
Ah You know who I like. I like cold porter. You kn do you remember Begin the Begin? Oh, that was lovely.
Patricia Neal
And Ella Fitzgerald on
Speaker 4
Oh I I love that. To live it again is past all endeavour Except when that too
Speaker 4
Clutches my heart And there we are, swearing to love forever
Speaker 4
And promising never, never to fly.
Presenter
Cole Porter's Begin the Begin, sung by Who Else But Ella Fitzgerald.
Presenter
Patricia Neal.
Presenter
After the affair with Gary Cooper, you with a broken heart went off back to uh Broadway, and almost really on the rebound you met a a young man called Roald Arle.
Patricia Neal
Yes, I met him at uh Lillian Hellman's house because I obviously had to get a job because I was not a rich woman and I had spent my money that I'd made almost all of it. But I read in the paper that Lillian, who was in another part of the forest I'd been in,
Patricia Neal
And Kermit Bloomgarden was the producer, and I noticed from from the paper that they were going to do her The Children's Hour, which was her first play. And I called Kermit and he s I said, May I come and read? Yeah, you can come, you know, not thinking he would employ me.
Patricia Neal
And I came and I read
Patricia Neal
Fearlessly. I don't know what a miracle happened, and so I could choose my part. Lillian invited me to supper at her house, and I went there. I knew that a couple of other people would be there. Well, it turned out to be a fabulous party, and and I met Royaldahl that night, and um
Patricia Neal
I thought he was very handsome, and I said to Lillian,
Patricia Neal
Who's that tall man? and she shouted, Roaldal at the top of her voice and and um but I didn't like him. I sat beside him at supper. I mean, that was her seating and he just didn't even talk to me. He really talked to Leonard Bernstein across the table and so when I went home I didn't want to ever see him again.
Patricia Neal
But I had to.
Patricia Neal
Because he called me?
Patricia Neal
And uh
Patricia Neal
He invited me out and I di I didn't want to go, not for one minute, so I said, Oh, I'm sorry, I can't go Then I made made the mistake of saying thank you for calling.
Patricia Neal
So he called back again, and I couldn't think of an excuse, so I went out, and that's how it started.
Presenter
So if all this is true, how come you ended up marrying him?
Patricia Neal
I was in his room, his great well, when I say room, I mean his apartment. He had a sitting room, a bathroom, a kitchen and a bedroom.
Presenter
Uh
Speaker 1
But
Presenter
Uh
Patricia Neal
And um
Patricia Neal
He had picture of his nephew and his twin.
Patricia Neal
nieces and well, I just adored their looks. I mean they were the children I wanted.
Patricia Neal
And I thought, well, now if he can give me children like that, I will marry him.
Patricia Neal
And that's why you
Presenter
Did it?
Patricia Neal
Yeah, that's why I did it originally.
Presenter
You've written Patricia about your life with Roll in the most devastatingly frank detail.
Presenter
Why did you want to do that? Why why did you want to make public all those private moments?
Patricia Neal
You mean I should be ashamed of myself for doing this?
Patricia Neal
No, it's just that I was...
Patricia Neal
At a nunnery?
Patricia Neal
And uh uh Lady Abbas she said, You must talk and and talk about it, write about it, just because it was torturing me what had happened to my marriage.
Patricia Neal
Actually we live very well for about oh.
Patricia Neal
Was it seven years when I had uh my uh children? I didn't I have two years for me to have my Olivia, and then another two years to have Tessa, and then three years to have my son.
Patricia Neal
and life was just glorious and then
Patricia Neal
then tragedy started to happen.
Presenter
Let's have your fourth record.
Patricia Neal
I would love Edith Pief.
Presenter
Edith Piaf singing La Vien Rose.
Presenter
Well, as you said, um, tragedy eventually struck in your life. It was in december nineteen sixty, wasn't it, that your third child, Theo, who was four months old, was being pushed out in his pram in New York by a nanny.
Patricia Neal
Yes.
Patricia Neal
She had walked uh to the school to get Tessa, for kindergarten it was, and
Patricia Neal
They were on their way home, and I was in the A and P, which was the grocer store.
Patricia Neal
and I heard a siren go by, and I thought, Oh, what is it? and I looked and I saw a police car whizzing by.
Patricia Neal
And I thought, thank God, for some reason. And then when I got to the the corner with great groceries in my hand, I I our daily woman was there and she said, Oh, Mrs. Dahl, I'm so sorry to tell you, but your son was hit by a taxi and he's been rushed to the hospital. And we rushed to the the hospital and we were told that Theo would die.
Patricia Neal
And th the fact that that he didn't after all those years and all those operations and
Patricia Neal
is a miracle, really.
Presenter
But then, two years later, a child of yours did die.
Patricia Neal
Yes. We were living in England.
Patricia Neal
and my daughter, who was seven, and measles, started at school.
Patricia Neal
And I know that Olivia she handed me a note saying so when I was in the car with her, and I read it and a strange feeling came over me.
Patricia Neal
And uh but we could not get any injections to see that she would not get it.
Patricia Neal
Uh and my Olivia died from it.
Presenter
You must have been devastated.
Patricia Neal
I mean, it was just terrible and and
Patricia Neal
Ruala, I mean, he was uh he was j just tortured. As was I, you know. Never get over it, really. But, you know, c it gets better, better after all these years, you know, it's got to.
Patricia Neal
It's twenties.
Patricia Neal
Twenty some years now and and it's
Presenter
Let's have another record.
Patricia Neal
All right, let us have Frank Sinatra singing a one for my baby.
Speaker 4
We're drinking my friend
Patricia Neal
Right.
Speaker 4
To the end.
Speaker 4
Of a brief episode.
Speaker 4
Make it one.
Speaker 4
For my baby
Speaker 4
And one more
Speaker 4
For the roof.
Presenter
Frank Sinatra singing One for My Baby
Presenter
Well, things happened to you quite quickly after Olivia's death. First of all, a wonderful thing. You won an Oscar.
Patricia Neal
Yes, that was lovely, wasn't it? dear Martin Ridd.
Patricia Neal
He sent me a script.
Patricia Neal
And I read it and I would uh liked very much to have done it, but
Patricia Neal
Doing the fact that our daughter died and my son was very damaged, I mean, it was impossible for me to go off for weeks and weeks and weeks.
Patricia Neal
So he said, uh, well, would you like to go home in the middle of it?
Patricia Neal
And would that help? And I said, oh yes, that would. So he said, well, you can.
Patricia Neal
And that was gorgeous. And this was with Paul Newman. That was Paul Newman, Melvin Douglas and uh Brandon DeWilder.
Presenter
HUD, it was called. Then you had another baby.
Patricia Neal
Hunt.
Patricia Neal
Yeah.
Presenter
Ophelia, and then you were pregnant with a fifth child, and you were working very hard, as you described.
Patricia Neal
No one knew I was pregnant. No one knew it. Uh, except Ruaul and me. And you were thirty eight years old by this stage? I was thirty nine, I think.
Presenter
And you was
Patricia Neal
Mhm. I'd gone to work that day and I'd just come home and I was bathing my daughter Tessa.
Patricia Neal
And Ruel he had come up with a drink for me.
Patricia Neal
And I was wandering about in the bedroom. I mean
Patricia Neal
obviously in agony, and I was holding my head.
Patricia Neal
And he said to me, What is it? And I said, I have it I'm in in great pain in my head. And and he I lay down on the bed and he knew at once what had happened to me. And he called exactly the right doctor. The surgeon who operated on me was Dr. Charles Cotton, and he is a brain doctor.
Patricia Neal
And um and he
Patricia Neal
operated only that night.
Patricia Neal
And they expected me to die for about oh, I was unconscious for twenty one days.
Presenter
And when fine you've had three strokes altogether, just
Patricia Neal
I had one stroke uh when I was bathing Tessa.
Patricia Neal
Then I was taken to the hospital.
Patricia Neal
And then I had one in the room and then they began to X ray me and I had one on the X ray table and that's the one that really killed me because I saw double and, you know, it was
Presenter
Why you? Why did it suddenly happen to you?
Patricia Neal
I don't know just lucky I guess.
Patricia Neal
I think it runs in the family.
Presenter
So when you eventually regained a kind of consciousness after twenty-one days.
Presenter
How badly damaged were you?
Patricia Neal
I can't even remember. I mean I I was
Patricia Neal
thoroughly paralyzed. Could you speak? No, not a word. Not a word. And I know that uh I had a nurse and her name was Jean Alexander and she was uh she was singing to me when I was in my great wheelchair and I just and she was watching me and singing and I began singing with her and that thrilled her so much. She went all over the hospital get bringing nurses back to and to have me sing with her.
Presenter
So you could hear, you could understand what people were doing around you and what they were saying to you.
Patricia Neal
Well, I could vaguely, but you you you ha I have no id you have no idea what happens to your brain. I mean, it it leaves you. But you did come back and uh and and you
Presenter
You you did fight?
Patricia Neal
Yes?
Presenter
Yes, you couldn't have done it without him, without
Patricia Neal
Oh no, absolutely not.
Presenter
Absolutely.
Patricia Neal
Uh He bullied you. Yes, he did. He's a bully.
Presenter
He pulled it.
Patricia Neal
Uh
Patricia Neal
Yes, he did.
Presenter
But he made you do it, he made you walk again, he made you talk again.
Patricia Neal
But he made you do.
Patricia Neal
He is
Patricia Neal
And it made me uh read again. I mean, everything, you know, I I owe to him for doing that to me. Even though I desperately wanted to die for a long time I wanted to die.
Patricia Neal
But uh seeing as how he uh wouldn't let me and G. O. D. wouldn't let me, uh, I now I'm I'm very happy, you see.
Patricia Neal
Uh
Presenter
I know that uh that You've given many talks to people who've had to cope in a similar way over the years. What do you think the single most important message is for those people?
Presenter
Yeah.
Patricia Neal
You can't give up. You just can't give up. Even though you want to, you've got to fight your way through it.
Speaker 1
Let's have another record.
Patricia Neal
True Love from High Society. I love that song. I think that would be good.
Speaker 4
What to give to you
Speaker 4
Wonderful gift to me.
Speaker 4
Love for
Speaker 4
What?
Presenter
Bing Crosbie and Grace Kelly with true love from High Society.
Presenter
Well, Patricia, you made a a a complete recovery, in fact, and you went back into acting again and you started getting a few parts.
Presenter
But your husband in the meantime had taken over the reins of the household, hadn't he?
Patricia Neal
Over without question.
Presenter
What was the children's attitude to you?
Patricia Neal
Well, they they really I mean, they as far as they were concerned, that you know, I was just uh not uh really a m a m mother. And uh they they were just, you know, it's uh they put up with me. That was about all really.
Patricia Neal
Uh and you see, I mean, Ruel, he's he just did everything for them.
Patricia Neal
Ah, and I could do so little.
Patricia Neal
Uh, I know that, um
Patricia Neal
I I remember when when Tessa, when she went away to school, she went to Rodine and we we would b take we took her to Brighton, you see. And uh I know Tessa would be in the back seat, I would be in the front seat with Roel. Uh and Tessa would say, um,
Patricia Neal
Daddy Uh Daddy.
Patricia Neal
Daddy, and and never me, never me, and I would get so frustrated by it and I said, Me, me, talk to me Uh ye oh, it was j you know, it was just so and she'd say, Daddy and Daddy would say, Speak to mamma, you know, speak to speak to mother and and they just tolerated me, really.
Presenter
You're a bit of a nuisance.
Patricia Neal
Yes, I was a bit nuisant and I was, I mean
Presenter
So that was how family life went on in in in the Dahl household. But eventually you believe that he, Roll, grew tired of you?
Patricia Neal
Oh, I'm sure he did. I'm sure he did.
Presenter
Do you blame him for that?
Patricia Neal
I don't blame him at all. But no.
Patricia Neal
I think it is sad to realize that other women came into our lives and uh
Patricia Neal
Makes me sad that they did.
Presenter
Yeah.
Presenter
In the early eighties your marriage finally ended.
Presenter
And I think that was very painful, wasn't it?
Patricia Neal
Oh very.
Patricia Neal
I was
Patricia Neal
heartbroken. I really was. I I
Patricia Neal
Uh the fact that someone could take Rua Dahl away from me after all these years.
Patricia Neal
It it really, you know, it it broke my heart because I was so close to Ruaul and his family for years. I mean, it was like like they were mine.
Patricia Neal
There was thirty years we were married and all, and that's a lot of years to have to begin your life all over again.
Patricia Neal
But you've done that. Yes, I've done it, and I'm very happy now.
Presenter
Your seventh record, please.
Patricia Neal
Oh, let's have down in the valley.
Patricia Neal
It it's so so good. I'd love that to be played.
Speaker 4
Be your land.
Speaker 4
Send it by Mail.
Presenter
Birmingham Jail sung by the famous Nashville artists. You know that, that.
Patricia Neal
That is from my home or near about. I'm I am from the South of America and uh Nashville and Knoxville and all those towns, they mean a lot to me.
Presenter
Patricia near it is, as we said at the beginning, a a long and and very tragic story.
Presenter
Where has God been in all of this? Have you found comfort in Him?
Patricia Neal
I was very angry with God when I woke up.
Patricia Neal
I I wasn't bright enough to know what I was angry with, but as time went by I began to know that I really I did not believe in him, I loathed him and and that sort of thing. But
Patricia Neal
As time passed, I do think, you know, I think there must be one. There must be one. And the world we live in is just staggering.
Patricia Neal
I mean, and the flowers. When you think of the flowers and and and the trees and the fish and the everything in the world, it's a staggering world we live in.
Presenter
So you'll find you'll find yourself now able to be philosophical about everything that happened.
Patricia Neal
Oh yes.
Presenter
Yeah.
Patricia Neal
Yeah.
Presenter
Yeah.
Patricia Neal
Yeah.
Presenter
Still a spark of anger in the
Patricia Neal
There's a little spark left, you know.
Presenter
Ah
Presenter
Uh
Presenter
And the future? You're going to get married again? Oh, please never.
Patricia Neal
Never, never, never. I think thirty years is a long time being married. I think that's enough for me. And you're happy on your own? Oh yes, I'm very happy on my own.
Patricia Neal
Yeah.
Presenter
What about professionally, though? What's the ambition there? Another Oscar?
Patricia Neal
Oh, I would love another one. Uh but I think I'd better act to get one, don't you? I would love to to have some one uh send me a script.
Patricia Neal
And I would love to read it and say, What a fabulous part You know. I I I adore acting.
Presenter
Right, let's have your last record. Yeah.
Patricia Neal
Ah, yes.
Patricia Neal
You know what I love is black is the colour of my true love's hair.
Speaker 4
Here's the colour.
Speaker 4
Oh, my true loves.
Presenter
Black is the colour of my true love's hair sung by Joan Byers.
Presenter
So Patricia Neal, this is the moment of decision. Which of all of those eight records would you like to have more than any of the others?
Patricia Neal
I like the last one. Black is the colour of my true lover's hair. I think to me it's a fabulous song.
Presenter
Now you've got to choose a book, and we give you on the island the complete works of Shakespeare and the Bible. What else can we give you?
Patricia Neal
Well, you know what I think would be very good. I think short stories. I mean, th th that would be much better because then you'd have a lot of writers.
Speaker 4
See ya.
Patricia Neal
And I would include Roald Orr for one short story. And then there's Estelle Perlman, there's J D Salinger, there's Truman Capote, and there's
Presenter
Right, we shall collect them up for you and uh put them in a specially bound volume collected short stories for Patricia Neale.
Patricia Neal
Collected short.
Presenter
And finally, your luxury.
Presenter
I think
Patricia Neal
I think it would be a toothbrush and toothpaste.
Presenter
Yeah.
Patricia Neal
Because I hate filthy teeth. And I would hate to lose them.
Presenter
Thank you very much indeed, Patricia Neal, for letting us hear your Desert Island discs.
Speaker 1
You've been listening to a podcast from the Desert Islandists archive. For more podcasts, please visit bbc.co.uk slash radio four.
What was it that you loved about him [Gary Cooper]?
He was so witty he really had great wit. And his movements were fantastic and he had fabulous eyes and he to me he was the beauty of the world.
Presenter asks
How come you ended up marrying him [Roald Dahl]?
I was in his room, his great well, when I say room, I mean his apartment. He had a sitting room, a bathroom, a kitchen and a bedroom. ... He had picture of his nephew and his twin nieces and well, I just adored their looks. I mean they were the children I wanted. And I thought, well, now if he can give me children like that, I will marry him.
Presenter asks
Why did you want to write about your life with Roald in such devasting frank detail?
At a nunnery? And uh uh Lady Abbas she said, You must talk and and talk about it, write about it, just because it was torturing me what had happened to my marriage.
Presenter asks
What do you think the single most important message is for those people [who've had to cope with similar tragedies]?
You can't give up. You just can't give up. Even though you want to, you've got to fight your way through it.
“I sure do. Ha ha. But I mean, I can laugh about it. I've got to laugh about it because, I mean, if I didn't, I'd I would have killed myself some years ago. But you know, it's uh it it's sad, but it happens.”
“When I hung up that phone it was like love a hundred years in a second.”
“I was in his room, his great well, when I say room, I mean his apartment. He had a sitting room, a bathroom, a kitchen and a bedroom. ... He had picture of his nephew and his twin nieces and well, I just adored their looks. I mean they were the children I wanted. And I thought, well, now if he can give me children like that, I will marry him.”
“I desperately wanted to die for a long time I wanted to die. But uh seeing as how he uh wouldn't let me and G. O. D. wouldn't let me, uh, I now I'm I'm very happy, you see.”
“You can't give up. You just can't give up. Even though you want to, you've got to fight your way through it.”
“the fact that someone could take Rua Dahl away from me after all these years. It it really, you know, it it broke my heart because I was so close to Ruaul and his family for years. I mean, it was like like they were mine.”