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Desert Island Discs
Presented by Michael Parkinson
Horse trials rider who won Olympic bronze and silver in 1984, and world and European titles.
Eight records
Moonlight SerenadeFavourite
I always remember my parents playing it, especially in Singapore days when it was just evening and having drinks on the veranda and things. So it's it has good memories for me.
The pony was named Misty after the record. Again, another one that particularly my father enjoyed, and ever since I listened to it as a child it's been a big favourite of mine.
Fred Wise, Ben Weisman, Kay Twomey, Bert Kaempfert
Elvis was a great love of mine and I always thought that he'd definitely wait for me to grow up. ... One of my favourites was Wooden Heart, which um was in the film G.I. Blues. And it was one of the first grown-up films I went to see, so it was very special.
Tony Banks, Phil Collins, Mike Rutherford
I met Mike and Angie Rutherford just after I won Bramham, which was the stepping stone to continuing on in the sport. ... And when we came back we went to my first ever live concert which was Genesis and this was one particular track that they played so it's really because they're good mates and I think they're brilliant
Michael Jackson, Lionel Richie
Firstly I think it's a marvellous song and also I felt very strongly about Bob Giddoff's whole approach to the problem in Africa. I felt very touched by it all and I was quite keen to perhaps drive one of the lorries out there with food.
Very special because he performed on stage at the closing ceremony and when he was singing everybody joined arms and we all sort of swayed to the music and he was quite a sort of favourite of mine anyway and to have him there live on stage was quite something.
It's a very, very good bouncy record and I find sometimes when I'm going to a competition and I'm a bit nervous about it, if I play something like this it gets me really going and I ride cross country a bit more with a bit more flair shall we say.
I Just Called to Say I Love You
When I met Hamish, my husband, this particular record ... was number one. And I think I'm right in saying that it was the first number one hit for Stevie Wonder. And I'm a great fan of Stevie Wonders. I think he's a remarkable man.
The keepsakes
The luxury
never ending supply of smoked salmon
I'd like to take with me a never ending supply of smoked salmon.
In conversation
Presenter asks
What kind of an effect do you think all this travelling around [as a child] had on you?
I really did love the travelling. I mean, as a child, I remember, certainly in Singapore days, of thinking of nothing but going to the swimming pool and eating ice creams, and loved the the sun. ... And also, really meeting different people, different races. And I think ... in a sense, I was fairly well educated in that way.
Presenter asks
How old were you when you first started riding?
Three. ... I think I was rather determined to get on board and I think mummy got so fed up ... that she said, Oh, you better get on then and so I did.
Presenter asks
The recording
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Speaker 2
Hello, I'm Kirsty Young and this is a podcast from the Desert Island Discs archive. For rights reasons we've had to shorten the music.
Speaker 2
The programme was originally broadcast in nineteen eighty six, and the presenter was Michael Parkinson.
Presenter
A castaway today is one of Britain's most successful and popular horse trials riders. In a sport notorious for the technical and physical demands it makes on the participants, she's shown exceptional skill and courage on her way to the top. She's won at world and European level and at the 1984 Olympics won a bronze and a silver medal. She is Virginia Holgate.
Presenter
Virginia, what kind of a family did you come from?
Virginia Holgate
Well, my father was in the Royal Marines and was sort of sent here, there and everywhere abroad. We started off I think I was well definitely born in Malta, but after that we went to Cyprus, Canada, Singapore, the Philippine Islands. So we travelled a a lot. Mummy, who'd always been brought up with horses ever since she was three years old, found it quite difficult really to keep going with the horses in places like Singapore, but she managed it.
Presenter
When when did you first come to England, then?
Virginia Holgate
Well, I suppose we were here for the first time when I was about three years old, and that was in between Canada and Singapore. I was then sort of planted on board, and off we went, then left for Singapore when I was about six, and I spent two years there, and then back to England for quite a long time before we went to the Philippine Islands, which is our final
Virginia Holgate
Trip really, abroad.
Presenter
What kind of an effect do you think all this travelling around, this kind of rather ruthless uh lifestyle you had, had on you?
Virginia Holgate
I really did love the travelling. I mean, as a child, I remember, certainly in Singapore days, of thinking of nothing but going to the swimming pool and eating ice creams, and loved the the sun. The sunshine was really important to me. And also, really meeting different people, different races. And I think.
Speaker 2
Sun
Virginia Holgate
In a sense, I was fairly well educated in that way. I mean, I never did do a tremendous amount of work at school anyway, so.
Presenter
But what what about in a place like Manila? I mean surely there'd be a language problem there wouldn't they? I mean that must be made you rather isolated from the rest of the children.
Virginia Holgate
Yes, I actually started off at a convent in the Philippines where I think I was the only white girl present, but they all spoke English. The local language was Tagalog, and I cottoned on fairly quickly. I could understand a bit, mainly'cause I had to.
Virginia Holgate
Um but a lot of Americans were out there and I think I really had quite a few American friends and certainly all the Filipinos spoke very good English, so it wasn't too bad, it wasn't too much of a problem.
Presenter
Let's have a first choice of record.
Virginia Holgate
Well, the first one is Glen Miller, Moonlight Serenade.
Virginia Holgate
Very romantic. But mainly because uh I always remember my parents playing it, especially in Singapore days when it was just evening and having drinks on the veranda and things. So it's
Virginia Holgate
It has good memories for me.
Presenter
Virginia, reading about you, I'm amazed that you made it to the studio, because certainly when I read about your early life,
Presenter
You were very much a tomboy, and very much accident-prone, it seemed.
Virginia Holgate
Very much.
Virginia Holgate
Desperate.
Presenter
Could you recount one or two of the uh of the uh incidents that befell you as a child?
Virginia Holgate
Well, I always thought that whatever my brother did, who was four years older,
Virginia Holgate
I could do better, or definitely equal him.
Virginia Holgate
I remember once he said, Right, I'm going to swim fifty lengths of the pool, bet you can't. So in he went and he I watched him, he did fifty, so in I went and I did fifty and I actually passed out when I got out of the pool, I was so determined to do it. He then went in and swam fifty one lengths, which I thought was really cruel.
Presenter
You indulge in fisticuffs too, didn't you?
Virginia Holgate
Oh yes. It was a mixed school in Singapore.
Virginia Holgate
and there was a real school bully.
Virginia Holgate
And he'd really gone too far one particular day. I think one of my friends had been.
Virginia Holgate
clip round the ear or something. And so I I actually got very angry and there was a real fight, I mean a proper fight.
Virginia Holgate
and he pushed me into a pillar, and my front teeth fell out on the floor, at which stage I thought, you know, this is too much and I actually had him pinned to the ground and I spat on him.
Virginia Holgate
which I feel very guilty about now, but um
Virginia Holgate
I remember going home and mummy looking at me, and she just couldn't believe it. I had no teeth at all. So, um.
Presenter
The competitive spirit coming out of you, then. How old were you when you first started riding?
Virginia Holgate
Three.
Presenter
Three. Yes. That's very young, isn't it?
Virginia Holgate
I think I was rather determined to get on board and I think mummy got so fed up.
Virginia Holgate
that she said, Oh, you better get on then and so I did.
Virginia Holgate
I had a super little pony called Misty. You know, it was a smashing little pony. She used to get fed up with me, kicking and sort of shouting and screaming. So she'd trot across the field and drop her shoulder towards a ditch and I would plop off into the ditch and then she'd trot away. That would be the end of the lesson for the day. So I learned at an early age not to ask too much at once.
Presenter
Most have a second charity record.
Virginia Holgate
The next one is Misty, sung by Johnny Mathis, and actually the pony was named Misty after the record. Again, another one that particularly my father enjoyed, and ever since I listened to it as a child it's been a big favourite of mine.
Virginia Holgate
Can say that.
Speaker 4
And you're leading me on But it's just what I want you to do
Speaker 4
Don't you notice how hopelessly I lost? That's why
Presenter
Johnny Matheson Misty, which I didn't know until today was the name of Virginia Holgate's first horse.
Speaker 4
Damn.
Presenter
How determined were you to be a rider? I mean, when you first sat on on board, as you you put it, did you know that this is what you wanted to do as a career?
Virginia Holgate
Well, actually, no. All I remember was that I actually really enjoyed jumping and galloping about and all those things. But it was I mean, lots of children, especially girls, love horses, don't they? Horsey books and posters and things. And when I was at school, I I had this strange idea that I was going to become an actress.
Speaker 2
Horsey box.
Virginia Holgate
Now, where I got that from, I can't think, but I used to love doing the school plays and
Virginia Holgate
absolutely adored being chosen as the sort of the schoolmistress with the powdered wig and the sort of long skirt and the
Virginia Holgate
I love comedies. I loved playing in school comedies.
Virginia Holgate
That's what I wanted to be when I left school. So it wasn't until I went home at the age of sixteen.
Virginia Holgate
that my parents said you're not going to London, you're too young. That I actually started to ride and suddenly thought, well, maybe this is where I ought to be and what I ought to be doing.
Presenter
Let's go back to those school days because in fact you you were very unhappy weren't you at Born in School and you became anorexic, didn't you?
Virginia Holgate
Because in f
Virginia Holgate
Yeah.
Virginia Holgate
Yes. I was very unhappy because I I think I missed my parents so very much, and because they were so far away, it seemed at that age to be years before I'd see them again.
Virginia Holgate
I think the reason I got anorexia was
Virginia Holgate
A great friend of mine and I decided that we were too fat, you know, vain as ever, and we went on a diet and I just didn't stop.
Virginia Holgate
And I used to put sort of bricks in my pockets when I was away and I used to sort of take doggy bags into school meals and drop the food into the doggy bag. I mean, I did everything in order not to eat anything.
Virginia Holgate
And it wasn't until my mother came back actually on leave
Virginia Holgate
That she
Virginia Holgate
Discovered what had happened because I'd obviously got very thin, but with the school uniform, it was difficult to actually notice as far as the teachers were concerned.
Virginia Holgate
And she took me home and she said, Either you eat or you don't ride. And it was the fact that I wanted to ride that actually made me eat again. But I think it was a very good bargaining point and she was very clever the way she went about it.
Presenter
Bye-bye.
Presenter
So your mother, of course, is a very, very strong influence on your life. It seems to me that uh you're a formidable team, aren't you, really, rather than mother and daughter.
Virginia Holgate
Yeah.
Virginia Holgate
Yes, they were very fortunate to get on incredibly well. I'm no sort of spring chicken, I'm quite old now, and you know, we work as a team together. And I think mummy's been very clever.
Virginia Holgate
by encouraging me to do well, but never
Virginia Holgate
Expecting me to win, and I think that's probably the difference. And she's always given me absolute.
Virginia Holgate
Dare say hell when I've done something wrong.
Virginia Holgate
but always encouraged me when I've done something right.
Virginia Holgate
You know, the venting has a certain amount of good and bad luck involved.
Virginia Holgate
And if I had done something particularly stupid, she would say, you know, really
Virginia Holgate
take a grip and and, you know, you're too grown up and
Virginia Holgate
experience to make mistakes like that. And if I've just happened to have a bit of bad luck, she's the first to say, well, never mind better luck next time. So she's handled me very well. I hope I do the same for my children.
Presenter
Let's have another record, Virginia.
Virginia Holgate
Well the next one is Elvis. Now Elvis was a great love of mine and I always thought that he'd definitely wait for me to grow up.
Presenter
How old were you then?
Virginia Holgate
I was about seven, so I had a bit of growing up to do. But one of my favourites was Wooden Heart, which um was in the film G.I. Blues.
Virginia Holgate
And it was one of the first grown-up films I went to see, so it was very special.
Speaker 4
And you see I love you. Please don't break my heart in two.
Speaker 4
That's the hard to do, cause I don't have a mood in God.
Speaker 4
And if you say goodbye, then I know that I will cry.
Speaker 4
Maybe I would die because I don't have a mo
Speaker 4
Mm
Presenter
Virginia, you mentioned that luck plays a a great part in in your sport well, any sport indeed. What was it, therefore, the first breakthrough for you in your in your chosen career?
Virginia Holgate
Well, I think probably when I won the junior European championships with this super horse called Giuboni that was bought for thirty five pounds by my grandfather, I think that really gave me the incentive to want to compete and to go on within the sport.
Virginia Holgate
I then won the mini Olympics on a h another horse called Jason, who was a part bred Russian Arab of all things. And I think probably I got rather conceited and expected things to go right and they started to go very wrong. And we had a period of three years where we lost the use of three advanced horses. I had a bad accident.
Virginia Holgate
And
Virginia Holgate
Basically nothing went right and I actually did think somebody is trying to tell me that this is not the sport for me and I ought to try and uh learn to be a secretary or do something completely different. On the other hand, something kept telling me not to stop.
Virginia Holgate
So it was a a little bit of a battle between going on and actually choosing a completely different way of life. Then suddenly out of the blue came a fantastic little horse called Priselis and his half brother Nightcap, as baby horses we would call them at that age.
Virginia Holgate
And as five-year-olds they seem to be quite talented, and Price has then won a three-day event at Bramham in Yorkshire.
Virginia Holgate
And that was really the turning point.
Virginia Holgate
of me saying to myself, Well, maybe I should go on. This horse is obviously very good, so is the other one. Let's see how far we can go with them.
Presenter
Let's go back, though, to the darkest moment. I suppose the darkest moment for you must have been when you had that very bad accident.
Presenter
What happened exactly?
Virginia Holgate
Well, I'd been long listed for the Olympic Games on Jason, and the final trial was at Babington, and I was doing an event just prior to Babington as a warm-up.
Virginia Holgate
And entirely my fault. I came up a long, steep hill the horse was quite tired.
Virginia Holgate
and there was a a combination at the top of the hill.
Virginia Holgate
And he
Virginia Holgate
for some reason hesitated over the first part of the fence, whether it be he was tired or I didn't ride him properly, whatever reason.
Virginia Holgate
He actually left one foreleg down and somersaulted.
Virginia Holgate
over the fence and I went hairing in towards the road head first literally and I thought, yikes So I put my left arm out and I forgot to bend it, which wasn't very clever. And so I ended up smashing the wrist and the elbow sort of went shooting out in the wrong direction.
Virginia Holgate
And I looked at my arm and I thought, oh, whoops, there's definitely a bit of a problem here because it was upside down at that stage. So off to hospital we went. And there was a bit of a sort of um discussion going on after the first operation as to whether it was actually worth keeping the arm because it wasn't a bit of a mess. And a marvellous chap called Commander Bertram decided to have another crack at it.
Virginia Holgate
And he did a super job and it works beautifully. So I was very lucky indeed.
Presenter
I mean you had two operations on it.
Virginia Holgate
I think it was a total of six for me for the day.
Presenter
Six operations.
Virginia Holgate
Yes, and
Presenter
and useless.
Virginia Holgate
Yeah.
Presenter
Must have shown great determination to
Virginia Holgate
I think stubbornness. Because Commander Bertram said, right, he said, I'm not going to send you to a physiotherapist. If you want to ride, you'll do it. So just carry on. So I thought, oh, right. So
Virginia Holgate
First we
Virginia Holgate
I would try and pick up a pencil.
Virginia Holgate
And the second week I would try and pick up a mug and so it went on because the nerves were crushed, but eventually it came back.
Virginia Holgate
And then I had to try and straighten my elbow, which was a problem, and I couldn't seem to do it.
Virginia Holgate
So our vet, Don Attenborough, came out one afternoon and said, Right, let's have a look at these X rays and I showed him and he said, Right, no problem and he got hold of it and he went yank and it went crack and it straightened, so that was that. But um I'm terribly lucky'cause a lot of people in the sport do have bad accidents and
Virginia Holgate
I feel very fortunate that my particular accident was actually not too bad at the end of the day.
Presenter
Another choice of record.
Virginia Holgate
Well, this is rather a special one because at the Genesis record, I met Mike and Angie Rutherford just after I won Bramham, which was the stepping stone to continuing on in the sport.
Presenter
Mike Rutherford, I should tell people, is part of Genesis.
Virginia Holgate
That's right, yes. And they took me off on holiday.
Virginia Holgate
And when we came back we went to
Virginia Holgate
My first ever live concert which was Genesis and this was one particular track that they played so
Virginia Holgate
It's really because they're good mates and I think they're brilliant by
Presenter
Virginia, when you've taken that a bad tumble like you had there, and you had that awful accident, how long does it take you to get your confidence back?
Virginia Holgate
Altogether it took me eighteen months. I was never frightened of hurting myself, but I was concerned that I couldn't ride, and I felt that my riding had gone completely downhill, and I'd lost that certain rhythm and balance and
Virginia Holgate
Confidence in order to compete.
Virginia Holgate
properly in the sport. So The first thing I did was to ride my old horse Gibonet.
Virginia Holgate
who at this stage was about twelve years old, and was a real campaigner, you know, he knew exactly what he was doing. And I made quite a few mistakes on him, but he got me out of trouble, which then actually gave me the confidence to say, right, now I feel ready to ride the young horses again.
Virginia Holgate
But it's surprising how long it takes for you to get that
Virginia Holgate
feeling that you can do it and you are riding properly back again.
Presenter
How do you describe the relationship you have with a horse?
Virginia Holgate
Well, it's a sort of
Virginia Holgate
I think probably a harmony between horse and rider.
Virginia Holgate
Very much like, shall we say, skating, where you have, say, Torville and Dean.
Virginia Holgate
And they are absolutely as one. They know exactly what the armor is going to do. They're confident in each other. That when, say, Dean pushes Torville away,
Virginia Holgate
He's going to do it just at the right time, just at the right speed, that she's going to do a fantastic turn and he'd catch her in three point five seconds, whatever. And I think that's really the best example I can see to compare between horse and rider. When you're coming into a fence, the horse, let's face it, has never seen the course before, we have, and you have a sort of
Virginia Holgate
Code. A certain speed, a certain stride means a certain type of fence. And certainly with my horses, if it's a very, very, very difficult fence coming up, I'll just give them literally a tap on the shoulder. It's like a code. I'll say, Now come on. And you can see their ears going ding ding ding ding ding as if they know that there is a problem coming up and they can associate with the way you're riding them coming into a fence as to how difficult it will be.
Virginia Holgate
It is a marvellous rapport that one can have and I think you have perhaps half a dozen brilliant rounds with that particular horse in your life because it's so rare and so special.
Presenter
What about the two horses you've got now? I mean, how do you characterize them as individuals?
Virginia Holgate
Uh
Virginia Holgate
Well
Virginia Holgate
Nightcap's a real gentleman. I think if he was a human, he'd be uh probably a city gent and very, very good looking and dark and handsome and charming and really one for the girls. And he'd sort of enjoy going out for dinner and having cocktails and sort of a brandy after dinner and be very, very charming, very nice.
Virginia Holgate
And Prices would definitely be a bit of a lad.
Virginia Holgate
Um, he'd probably either be in the army or
Virginia Holgate
be in the coal mines or somewhere somewhere real tough, rugged type of job and he'd go down the pubs with his mate and have a quick few beers and he'd probably have a few tattoos on him. He'd be a muscle powered Rambo, I think.
Presenter
Muscle
Presenter
Let's have another choice of record, Virginia.
Virginia Holgate
Well the next one, We Are the World, firstly I think it's a marvellous song and also I felt very strongly about Bob Giddoff's whole approach to the problem in Africa. I felt very touched by it all and I was quite keen to perhaps drive one of the lorries out there with food. I wasn't quite sure how I was going to go about it, but if you know of anybody who wants a truck driver, here I am.
Virginia Holgate
Put it in chat.
Virginia Holgate
Uh
Speaker 4
There's nothing we can fall.
Speaker 4
The real life
Speaker 4
Oh, that a change can occur when we stand together as one.
Speaker 4
Yeah.
Speaker 4
So let's start.
Presenter
But you know, l let's look now at some of the highlights of your career. I mean, you've won just about everything, haven't you, in your sport?
Presenter
Well you've won at most levels. You won at world level, you won at European level and you've got two medals from the Olympic Games.
Presenter
Just talk me through two or three of those moments. Which will be the the the most magic moment for you?
Virginia Holgate
I think probably the Olympics because
Virginia Holgate
I think not only is it a tremendous honour to be chosen from your country to compete in the Olympic Games.
Virginia Holgate
and then to actually get there and compete.
Virginia Holgate
Was what sort of one thing, but to actually come away with a medal, which was highly I mean, we thought as a team we do
Virginia Holgate
very well. And we did, we got the silver medal. I mean it was absolutely
Virginia Holgate
Mind blowing it really was.
Virginia Holgate
Then to by some chance get an individual medal as well was beyond my wildest dreams.
Virginia Holgate
the whole sort of atmosphere.
Virginia Holgate
the sort of opening and closing ceremonies was something that I don't think I'll ever experience again.
Virginia Holgate
And it was so emotional having all those countries together, being really friendly.
Virginia Holgate
Supportive. It was just like one huge family. It was just quite incredible.
Virginia Holgate
I mean, grown men crying their eyes out. I mean, I certainly cried my eyes out more than one occasion. It was just fantastic.
Virginia Holgate
I think that's probably the most emotional competition I've ever been to. But each time one is lucky enough to succeed.
Virginia Holgate
has its own special moments for me, certainly, because
Virginia Holgate
You know, you are very, very lucky to succeed. A lot of people work equally as hard as I do, probably harder, and never get the chance. But, um, I consider myself incredibly fortunate.
Presenter
Let us then have another choice of record.
Virginia Holgate
Well, the song All Night Long by Lionel Ritchie is very special because he performed on stage at the closing ceremony and when he was singing everybody joined arms and we all sort of swayed to the music and he was quite a sort of favourite of mine anyway and to have him there live on stage was quite something.
Virginia Holgate
And we had fireworks, so the whole evening was fantastic, so that's very special for me.
Speaker 4
Well my friends, the time has come.
Speaker 4
Raise the roof and have some food
Speaker 4
Throw away the work to be done.
Speaker 4
Let the music play on
Speaker 4
Everybody sing, everybody dance.
Speaker 4
Lose yourself in wild romance, we're going to
Speaker 4
Party, karama, fiesta.
Presenter
Our cast away this week is Virginia Holgate. Virginia, for someone like myself who's fairly ignorant about the ways of your sport, I mean I see it on television and I enjoy it and that sort of thing.
Presenter
Uh I always imagine he sort of just jumped on the horse and away he went round the arena. Of course it's not like that, is it? How long does it take to prepare for a big event?
Virginia Holgate
Well, it's about three months. But to prepare a horse to that level takes between three and four years, so it's quite a long process.
Presenter
What about yourself too? Because I mean you have to keep fit. Yes. Do do you have a routine?
Virginia Holgate
Yeah.
Virginia Holgate
I do. I find that although I may ride four, possibly five hours a day, it's not really enough. So I either run or skip, and running is not my favourite occupation. So I tend to skip rather than run, because I can watch the T V.
Virginia Holgate
And I suddenly look at my skipping rope, which has a little counter on it. And if it's a really good movie, I've done three hundred and I think I've only done three, so it gets very enthusiastic.
Virginia Holgate
So um that's really how I keep fit.
Presenter
What about superstitions? Are you superstitious before you have a ritual before every uh
Virginia Holgate
No, I'm not. The only thing that were two things, actually.
Presenter
Yeah.
Virginia Holgate
One is I will always wear odd socks. Now, whether that's because I can never find a pair.
Speaker 2
Uh
Virginia Holgate
Or I did wear one day because I had old socks on, that's obviously why I did well. I don't know, but I always wear old socks. And the other is my mother always gives me a leg up.
Virginia Holgate
before I do the cross country.
Virginia Holgate
I think she's always done it and I feel a bit nervous if somebody else does. But those are the only two sort of things that stick in my mind, I think.
Presenter
Another choice of record.
Virginia Holgate
The next one is Walk of Life by Dar Straits.
Virginia Holgate
It's a very, very good bouncy record and I find sometimes when I'm going to a competition and I'm a bit nervous about it, if I play something like this it gets me really going and I ride cross country a bit more with a bit more flair shall we say.
Speaker 4
Johnny's ringing, oh he's going Bobby Looney baby, what I say.
Speaker 4
Come John and sing it, I got a moment Down in the tunnel tryna make it play He got the action, he got the motion Well yeah yeah, the boy can play
Speaker 4
Dedication
Speaker 4
Oh shoot, turning on a night time into the game Shooters all about see the moon
Speaker 4
Yeah.
Presenter
That was dire straight. So what what does the future have for Virginia Holgate now then? What are the plans for the future?
Virginia Holgate
Well, I've got a nice young horse called Murphy himself. You can gather where he might have come from.
Virginia Holgate
I hoped that he might be talented enough to go
Virginia Holgate
towards the next Olympic Games. If that's the case and if my poor husband can cope, I'd like to continue certainly until then, which is in two years' time. And then I would obviously like to have children, so that has to be thought about. And
Virginia Holgate
really see how things go from there because I think once you're married and you have a family, your family has absolute priority over anything else. But if I'm lucky enough to be able to have the family and compete with the horses, that would be marvellous. I think that would be perfection itself.
Presenter
Right, let's have a final choice of record Imagine.
Virginia Holgate
Well, this is a slightly romantic bit because um when I met Hamish, my husband, this particular record I just called Saya Lavi was number one. And I think I'm right in saying that it was the first number one hit for Stevie Wonder.
Virginia Holgate
And I'm a great fan of Stevie Wonders. I think he's a remarkable man. So two reasons really why this one is rather special for me.
Speaker 4
I just called
Speaker 4
The same
Speaker 4
I love you.
Speaker 4
I just go.
Speaker 4
To say how much I care
Speaker 4
I just got
Speaker 4
To say
Speaker 4
I love you.
Speaker 4
And I mean it from the bottom.
Presenter
Rap Virginia, now on your desert island, do you think you might try and escape?
Virginia Holgate
I would pretty well certainly have a go. I would probably get cold feet'cause if I saw a shark's fin I would immediately stay put.
Presenter
But are you self sufficient, I mean, could you look after yourself?
Virginia Holgate
I think I'd probably die of starvation.
Virginia Holgate
No, I don't know. I think probably if I was stuck there and I had to get on with it.
Virginia Holgate
You'd learn to cope and sort of suss things out and learn how to fish and all those sort of things. Like the heat and sunbathing.
Presenter
Alright.
Presenter
So you're allowed then one record of the eight you've chosen, you're allowed on the island because the you have to imagine the other seven are swept away or something. So which one record would it be?
Virginia Holgate
Price
Virginia Holgate
Would I choose Glenn Miller?
Presenter
Why?
Virginia Holgate
It's the sort of record that I don't think I could get tired of.
Virginia Holgate
Because I've always loved it and I've always listened to it.
Presenter
What about the book?
Virginia Holgate
Well, the book I'd probably have to go for do it yourself.
Virginia Holgate
Or Robinson Crusoe, perhaps, to learn a few tips from him.
Presenter
Which would it be, Robinson Crusoe or do it yourself?
Virginia Holgate
I think do-it-yourself manual would be very useful.
Presenter
And what's the luxury object, the one luxury object you're allowed, what's that to be?
Virginia Holgate
Well, I'd like to take my husband with me, but I don't suppose we're allowed to
Presenter
But I don't suppose we're allowed to inanimate.
Virginia Holgate
So I'd like to take with me a never ending supply of smoked salmon.
Presenter
The smoke.
Virginia Holgate
Yeah.
Presenter
Virginia Holgert, thank you very much indeed.
Virginia Holgate
Thank you.
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You were very unhappy at boarding school and you became anorexic, didn't you?
Yes. I was very unhappy because I I think I missed my parents so very much, and because they were so far away, it seemed at that age to be years before I'd see them again. I think the reason I got anorexia was a great friend of mine and I decided that we were too fat, you know, vain as ever, and we went on a diet and I just didn't stop.
Presenter asks
What was the first breakthrough for you in your chosen career?
Well, I think probably when I won the junior European championships with this super horse called Giuboni that was bought for thirty five pounds by my grandfather, I think that really gave me the incentive to want to compete and to go on within the sport.
Presenter asks
What happened exactly [in your bad accident]?
I came up a long, steep hill the horse was quite tired ... and he for some reason hesitated over the first part of the fence ... He actually left one foreleg down and somersaulted over the fence and I went hairing in towards the road head first literally ... So I put my left arm out and I forgot to bend it ... And so I ended up smashing the wrist and the elbow sort of went shooting out in the wrong direction.
Presenter asks
How do you describe the relationship you have with a horse?
Well, it's a sort of I think probably a harmony between horse and rider. Very much like, shall we say, skating, where you have, say, Torville and Dean. And they are absolutely as one. ... When you're coming into a fence, the horse, let's face it, has never seen the course before, we have, and you have a sort of code.
“I always thought that whatever my brother did, who was four years older, I could do better, or definitely equal him.”
“She took me home and she said, Either you eat or you don't ride. And it was the fact that I wanted to ride that actually made me eat again.”
“I was never frightened of hurting myself, but I was concerned that I couldn't ride, and I felt that my riding had gone completely downhill, and I'd lost that certain rhythm and balance and confidence in order to compete.”