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Desert Island Discs
Presented by Lauren Laverne
Singer, songwriter, and activist known for 1983 debut 'She's So Unusual,' hits like 'Girls Just Wanna Have Fun,' 50 million records, Grammys, Emmy, and Tony-win
Eight records
Prélude à l'après-midi d'un faune
The first music I remember was the music my mother played us. She loved classical music. She would play this music, and I remember this very clearly. She had bought a new stereo. ... Debussy's prelude to The Afternoon of a Fawn. And I remember hearing it. And the melody was stunning. And I even said to myself, Mom, sometimes when you hear this stuff, is it so beautiful that it just makes you cry? And she said, Yes, that's what music can do. And then she always shared with us like that. And this was one of the first things that I remembered.
Louis Armstrong and His All-Stars
My mother loved to sit and talk and be with us, and she would play different music. So there was this wonderful album, Satch Does Fats, and it was uh Louis Armstrong, of course. And we were girls, we had to do chores, so we'd separate all the clothes. But we were all together, and then she'd play this music, and we'd dance wildly. I remember how wildly we would dance and how much fun this was.
Un bel dì vedremo (One Fine Day)Favourite
They love Puccini. And my mother kept playing this stuff, you know, and it was always like, Mom, you know it doesn't work out for her in the end, right? She dies, or it's not good for her. It's always bad for the woman. She loved this aria from Madam Butterfly one fine day. The greatest voice of the century, female to me, one of them. Is Maria Callas? And I think she's extraordinary because of the way she would be loud and then soft and then full and then almost like talking and the control and the beauty and her story, which was so tragic because her life was like an opera, but her voice was incredible.
This is the song that my grandmother heard so many times. And you know, you always think it's the movie star that's doing it, but it isn't. Marni Nixon. And she was the standin' and Deborah Carr got to lip sync to her. These songs were how I learned to sing. I played this album so much, this getting to know you and the king and the album of The King and I, right? So much that my grandmother, who lived upstairs, she just came downstairs, she took, she lifted the needle off my little red record player, picked up the record, didn't say a word, and just walked back upstairs. And that was the end of that record. I never saw that record again because she just couldn't take it.
When the Beatles came over it was mayhem. My cousin Winter gave us for Christmas Meet the Beatles. So when they came to America one of the times I was eleven by that time, so I was old enough, I guess, for her. And me and my sister and her friend Diane. She drove us to a spot where she knew the cars driving from Kennedy Airport would pass. So she dropped us on this island. She said, Do not move from here. I'm going to be there and I'm going to come back in a little while. Here comes the car. I start screaming. I had my eyes closed, and all of a sudden, I opened my eyes and I saw the back of their heads. And I said, What a jerk! What did I do? I missed them. ... It's a funny thing about the Beatles because also my sister and I, you know, like every kid, we were acting out the Beatles. But what I learned as a musician, I learned harmony. And I harmonized with my sister. Ellen always had to be Paul. I had to be George. She was Paul. And that was fine. But I learned the harmonies. And it just trained my ear differently.
Billie Holiday and Her Orchestra
Now when I decided to take this class at the Lenox Tristano School of Jazz, I studied Billie Holiday, but also an assignment was not just Billie, but Billie singing with Lester Young. And if you listen to them singing together, it is so extraordinary. This woman, Billie Holiday, to me wrote modern phrasing. She was extraordinary. ... Billie was the foundation of me never to be afraid of the snare drum again, and to breathe and to hear interior rhythm. And that is very prominent on this. Just have a listen to how wonderful these two are answering each other.
Yeah, we were all rooting for Blondie. We loved I love her still. And I love them. And I think that this is one of my favorite songs. One way or another. And I even play it now before I go on. ... I love this song. I think it's so great. There's a sound. There's an idea, there's a brain, it all works, it's fantastic. Deborah Harry, I love her, and I love Blondie, and we were rooting for them, and when this came out we all went bonkers.
To me, this is rock and roll, the epitome of it. Rock and roll is blues. Rock and Roll has drums. The thing about this is it's a combination of not just blues, but also the Native American drum beat, which to me is what rock and roll is. Listeners may not know that this is the original version of this track. Yes, it is. This is the original version of Hound Dog. And I think Big Mama Thornton isn't just a blues singer, I think she's a rocker. And to me she was the foundation of a lot of stuff that came after.
The keepsakes
The luxury
it'll have everything I need. A piano, I could do my vocals, I could do like I could do whatever. I could write melodies, I could cook.
In conversation
Presenter asks
Tell me more about your mum. It sounds like she was creative and interested in the arts and music.
music. And she was very patient too, because I was a really, really odd kid. In every way. My idea of play was listening to her records. She had musicals. And because there were so many different voices, it's what I did all day. I would listen and imitate them, and then I would listen again and imitate them. And I had it down, you know, but this was how I spent my time. My father also loved books, and he would always have instruments all over the place.
The recording
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BBC Sound
Cyndi Lauper
Music
Speaker 1
Radio podcasts.
Presenter
Hello, I'm Lauren Laverne and this is the Desert Island Discs podcast. Every week I ask my guests to choose the eight tracks, book and luxury they'd want to take with them if they were castaway to a desert island. And, for rights reasons, the music is shorter than the original broadcast. I hope you enjoy listening.
Presenter
My castaway this week is the singer, songwriter, and activist Cindy Lauper. She burst onto the scene in 1983 with her album She's So Unusual, and she really was an explosion of colour and joy with a look and sound that were equal parts spirit and skill. Her dressing-up box aesthetic inspired a million look-alikes. Her own inspirations were more esoteric. She draped herself in thrift store petticoats, pasted Van Gogh's Starry Night to the soles of her high-heeled shoes, recruited Annie Leibovitz to shoot the album cover, and insisted that the instrumentation on the record's centerpiece, Girls Just Wanna Have Fun, should evoke the Coney Island Fairground she'd grown up visiting. The exuberant catchiness of that track and the soaring success of those that followed belied the years she'd spent struggling to become an overnight success.
Presenter
She's sold over fifty million records, won two Grammys, and her debut album was the first by a female artist to spawn four consecutive US top five singles.
Presenter
She also won an Emmy as an actress and then took on Broadway, composing the music and lyrics for the internationally successful and Tony Award-winning musical Kinky Boots. Her activism, inspired by her own experiences of homelessness and misogyny, has seen her testify before Congress and been honoured by the UN. She was unusual. She still is. She says, The truth is, you always have to listen to what's inside. Not the narrative, not the naysayers, not the gatekeepers. There's always a way around the gate. Always. Cindy Lauper, welcome to Desert Island Discs. Hey, how you doing?
Cyndi Lauper
Uh
Presenter
I need an umbrella. It's too hot. You're already too hot on the island with the sun. Don't worry, there's an umbrella available. There you go. There you go.
Cyndi Lauper
Vega.
Presenter
So Cindy, you've recently been back on the road for a farewell world tour. It began in twenty twenty four, almost forty years since your first big arena shows. I wonder how it's been for you saying goodbye to fans. Has it been emotional?
Presenter
I finally got
Cyndi Lauper
What to do?
Cyndi Lauper
This wonderful show with this wonderful artistic director Brian Burke, it's not spinal tap'cause it started to turn into spinal tap.
Presenter
There's a sweet spot, isn't there, that you've got to hit before you
Cyndi Lauper
Before you get there. Well, when I first started, I wanted to fly across the audience, but I wanted a cherry picker. You know, I wanted to be like the Rolling Stones, right? Or Tina Turner. She had a cherry picker. Why can't I
Cyndi Lauper
They said, you know, you can't afford the cherry picker, but, you know, we can do a garbage pail.
Presenter
But but
Cyndi Lauper
Yeah.
Presenter
You're also ahead of your time, Cindy. As you're describing, there's always been this incredibly strong visual element and these esoteric inspirations to the work that you do, and you're still carrying that on in your live shows today. But tell me from your perspective, you know, you create this spectacle for the audience. What's it like looking out? Who's coming to your farewell shows?
Cyndi Lauper
Error.
Cyndi Lauper
My husband came to five of them.
Cyndi Lauper
and he started to take pictures.
Cyndi Lauper
of people coming in.
Cyndi Lauper
Everybody, all different kinds of people, all ages.
Cyndi Lauper
And it's a safe place to come and be together and dance and laugh and cry and feel hopeful and happy when you leave. And that is what I'm trying to do.
Presenter
Yeah.
Presenter
We're going to be listening to your tracks today, Cindy, that you've chosen to take to the island. It must have been difficult narrowing them down to eight. What's your first choice? What have you gone for? Why are you taking it with you?
Cyndi Lauper
Well, the first music that I remember was the music my mother played us.
Cyndi Lauper
And, um, she loved classical music.
Cyndi Lauper
She would play this music, and I remember this very clearly. She had bought a new stereo.
Cyndi Lauper
And in those days, you know, a stereo was like
Cyndi Lauper
It was like a Victrolla. It was like this and it was a portable, so it opened up, and when it opened up, those were the speakers. And this is a record
Cyndi Lauper
Debussy's prelude to The Afternoon of a Fawn. And I remember.
Cyndi Lauper
Hearing it.
Cyndi Lauper
And the melody
Cyndi Lauper
was stunning.
Cyndi Lauper
And I even said to myself,
Cyndi Lauper
Mom, sometimes when you hear this stuff, is it so beautiful that it just makes you cry? And she said, Yes, that's what music can do. And then she always shared with us like that. And this was one of the first things that I remembered.
Presenter
Debussy, prelude to the Afternoon of a Fawn, performed by the Orchestre National de Lyons.
Presenter
Cindy Lauper, you were born the second of three children to Fred and Katrine in nineteen fifty three, and initially you grew up in Brooklyn. What are your memories of that neighborhood?
Presenter
To me it was
Cyndi Lauper
Well, yeah, it was a strange kid. It was very magical. It was a little like Shakespeare.'Cause, you know, she kept taking us to the Shakespeare festivals'cause they were free. And museums. She loved all of that, didn't she? Yeah, yeah. I mean, sometimes, like, when I was five, you know, you'd be walking on that hard floor and be like, Oh, I wanna go home
Presenter
And she loved all of that, didn't she?
Cyndi Lauper
No, you should look at these pictures.
Presenter
Yeah.
Cyndi Lauper
Yeah.
Presenter
So you was saying bro
Cyndi Lauper
Sam you were seeing bro
Cyndi Lauper
Wasn't like Romeo and Juliet.
Cyndi Lauper
They're very blue collar. They're women pulling wash in.
Cyndi Lauper
The sheets looked like sails.
Cyndi Lauper
I was blown away by the women's version of Glam. They would also copy the
Presenter
Stars. So what were they wearing? Are we talking like the heels and the bouffants and the eyeliner and everything? Red lipstick dot
Cyndi Lauper
White hair
Cyndi Lauper
And a cigarette dangling sometimes, you know, and they'd be cha-cha and over there to the and you know, and and then
Presenter
You know, and they
Presenter
Yeah.
Speaker 2
Yeah.
Cyndi Lauper
There was the big church.
Cyndi Lauper
You know, everybody had to go to church, you know. St. Mary Gates of Heaven, but sometimes it it felt like the gates of hell, but you know, what can you do? And they used to have flags like by the grocery store. So it was always to me like a little celebration. You had the women that were all dressed up coming out of the beauty parlour and you had the flags, all different colors, and it was a colorful pl
Presenter
Cindy, I want to ask about your mum, because I feel like I've already been introduced to her via your videos. I've seen her and your aunts on screen in several of them, but I know she was a huge influence on you, so tell me more about her. It sounds like she was creative and interested in the arts and music.
Cyndi Lauper
music. And she was very patient too, because I was a really, really odd
Cyndi Lauper
Kid.
Presenter
Then what would
Cyndi Lauper
Wait.
Presenter
Yeah.
Cyndi Lauper
In every way.
Cyndi Lauper
My idea of play was listening to her records. She had musicals.
Cyndi Lauper
And because there were so many different voices,
Cyndi Lauper
It's what I did all day.
Cyndi Lauper
I would listen and imitate them, and then I would listen again and imitate them. And I had it down, you know, but this was how I spent my time. My father also loved books, and he would always have instruments all over the place. What kind of instruments? Like he wanted to play xylophone, so there'd be a xylophone in the porch, you know.
Presenter
What kind of instrument?
Speaker 1
Like he wants to
Cyndi Lauper
and he would play harmonica. Unfortunately for my dad, you know, they lived through a strange time. They lived through depression. and wars.
Presenter
Did you have a sense of that as a little girl that you were seeing parents who maybe hadn't fulfilled their ambitions, their dreams?
Cyndi Lauper
He loved tinkering and playing this and playing that and his idea was when he retired he wanted a he had an organ and he was gonna play in a bar. What did he do for a living? What what was he doing instead?
Presenter
What did he do for
Presenter
Uh
Cyndi Lauper
He was a shipping clerk at Bul of a Watch, which is where he met my mom.
Presenter
I want to make room for your second choice today. Tell us about this next track.
Cyndi Lauper
They tell us.
Cyndi Lauper
My mother loved to sit and talk and be with us, and
Cyndi Lauper
She would play different music. So there was this wonderful album, Satch Does Fats, and it was uh Louis Armstrong, of course. And
Cyndi Lauper
We were girls, we had to do chores, so we'd separate all the clothes. But we were all together, and then she'd play this music, and we'd dance wildly.
Cyndi Lauper
I remember how wildly we would dance and how much fun this was. And this.
Cyndi Lauper
kind of
Cyndi Lauper
banter. But like when I did the Frank Sinatra thing with, um, Santa Claus coming to town.
Presenter
Yes, you collaborated and it was
Cyndi Lauper
Well, I was in the studio.
Presenter
You work together.
Cyndi Lauper
In the studio.
Cyndi Lauper
If it's already sung and it was sung, you do more than you need. So I did a lot of the banter stuff that I learned listening from Satchma when I was little. So that's why when he says he sees you when you're sun w really? You know, because
Cyndi Lauper
And how did that go down?
Presenter
Damn.
Cyndi Lauper
Nice.
Presenter
Tana
Cyndi Lauper
I mean that saves mixing.
Presenter
That takes Lexington.
Cyndi Lauper
He thought I was so disrespectful, but what I didn't think to say what it really was now I know should have been a little letter to him say
Cyndi Lauper
Dear mister Snadra, in no way was I being disrespectful. When you go in the studio you do more than what you need.
Cyndi Lauper
I didn't know what you were gonna choose, so I did more, so you could choose the best things that you like to put on the record. And that kind of banter was just an influence that I learned as a young kid listening to Louis Armstrong. But of course I didn't say that.
Cyndi Lauper
I just got oh my god.
Cyndi Lauper
He hates you now, you know. But I don't care. They knew what they signed up for. Well, I don't know. I guess so. Anyway, this song is fun, and he had such spirit. And this was before I knew anything about anything.
Cyndi Lauper
Hey Pops, what's wrong, Daddy? You look like something's bothering you. Say nothing bothering me, honey. That a piece of roast beef can't fix up. Well, I'll tell you one thing, Pops. A man works hard, then comes on home. Expects to find stew with that fine ham bone. He opens the door, then starts to look in.
Speaker 1
Say, woman, what's this stuff you cooking?
Speaker 2
Same.
Speaker 2
Now then And no, potatoes are just seen right, they're like a green tomato.
Speaker 1
Damn.
Speaker 2
Here I'm waiting, half potato, with all that meat and no potato.
Presenter
Louis Armstrong and his all-stars. All that meat and no potatoes. Cindy Lauper, your mum had a a beautiful singing voice. She actually was offered a scholarship to go to school and study music and sing.
Cyndi Lauper
And
Cyndi Lauper
Yeah, well.
Cyndi Lauper
That didn't go along with my grandfather's plans. I mean, he literally told her only whores go to school.
Cyndi Lauper
in Manhattan.
Cyndi Lauper
I actually found her eighth grade picture, her graduation.
Speaker 1
A graduate.
Cyndi Lauper
And all the kids have a look on their face but hers?
Cyndi Lauper
Those eyes
Cyndi Lauper
They were heartbroken.
Cyndi Lauper
And grown-up
Cyndi Lauper
Always heard these stories about
Cyndi Lauper
Her friends went to California. They found a job for her and sent a letter back. My grandfather found the letter, tore it up every turn.
Cyndi Lauper
The women were disenfranchised and cut off from any kind of life, but being around the family and, you know, free domestic help, taking care of your parents when they get old, which is a nice thing, but not if they have talent and maybe they should have an opportunity to actually enjoy life.
Presenter
Cindy, let me ask you more about your mum's story. You mentioned the dynamics with your grandfather. Sadly, they played out in her marriages as well because your parents' marriage was unhappy and they divorced when you were just five.
Cyndi Lauper
Uh
Cyndi Lauper
They fought a lot. Okay. And I used to watch and I think what happened was, you know, remember in the late forties and the early fifties, it was very you'd go to movies and you see these women throwing dishes and breaking dishes and that was like, oh, look at that
Cyndi Lauper
She used to throw dishes against the wall, and I was watching, and I think a shard went in my head.
Cyndi Lauper
When they were fighting.
Cyndi Lauper
and they rushed me to the hospital and I had a little score.
Cyndi Lauper
But they felt it was not good for them to be together. It wasn't safe. And with if they couldn't control their tempers,
Presenter
But
Cyndi Lauper
They shouldn't do this.
Presenter
So they split. She remarried, and that wasn't a happy marriage either. She was a woman.
Cyndi Lauper
Love and we wanted her to be happy.
Cyndi Lauper
But unfortunately
Cyndi Lauper
You know, he had a great sense of humor, but he was also very disturbed.
Cyndi Lauper
It's kinda like living with Don Nichols and Freddy Krueger, kinda all together. Frightening for you?
Cyndi Lauper
Well
Cyndi Lauper
Then you would go to school with the nuns, and they were pretty scared.
Presenter
Rejo.
Presenter
So, your mum sent you away to school, you and your sister Ellen, because she was scared for you. She was trying to keep you away from your stepfather. Yeah. Why?
Cyndi Lauper
Because
Cyndi Lauper
Yeah.
Cyndi Lauper
Well, he threatened threatened a lot of bad things.
Cyndi Lauper
So he threatens to beat up her parents, rape her children. I was like, oh yeah, he's he's a keeper.
Cyndi Lauper
No matter what
Cyndi Lauper
If the police came, they would come domestic violence leave. They don't care.
Presenter
This must have meant for you though, because you started, I think, writing songs when you were about twelve or so, getting it te so even younger.
Cyndi Lauper
So even you
Presenter
Music must have felt even more of an escape if home is difficult and school is really challenging. That must have been so vivid, such a bright spot.
Cyndi Lauper
That must have been silver
Cyndi Lauper
It was well, you my dad, he got Ellen a guitar.
Cyndi Lauper
And then when she graduated eighth grade,
Cyndi Lauper
He got her an electric guitar like a baby strat and a twin amp.
Cyndi Lauper
which then we had a group.
Cyndi Lauper
And I saying
Presenter
So this is two of you? Was you was your little brother in it?
Cyndi Lauper
Me no, me, my sister and her friend Diane Andromeda.
Cyndi Lauper
was one of the girls from Howard Beach.
Presenter
Well, on that note, Cindy Lawbra, I think we should have some more music. Your third choice today, what's it gonna be? Okay, well. Italians
Cyndi Lauper
They love Puccini. And my mother kept playing this stuff, you know, and it was always like, Mom, you know it doesn't work out for her in the end, right? She dies, or it's not good for her. It's always bad for the woman. She loved this aria from Madam Butterfly one fine day. The greatest voice of the century, female to me, one of them.
Cyndi Lauper
Is Maria Collis?
Cyndi Lauper
And I think she's extraordinary because of the way she would be loud and then soft and then full and then almost like talking and the control and the beauty and her story, which was so tragic because her life was like an opera, but her voice was incredible.
Speaker 2
We must be afraid before.
Speaker 2
God brace the mail, God feed them all.
Cyndi Lauper
Uh
Presenter
One fine day we shall see from Pacini's Madame Butterfly sung by Baria Callas with the Orchestra del Teatro alla Scala de Milano conducted by Herbert von Carrion. Cindy Lope, you left home at 17 moving in with your sister Ellen. She wasn't much older than you and you didn't have any money but it does sound like she created a really nurturing environment between her and her friends who I think lived.
Cyndi Lauper
Wait.
Speaker 1
Mm-hmm.
Cyndi Lauper
And they were there.
Presenter
Yeah.
Cyndi Lauper
Very kind to us. I just kept failing and failing and failing and failing and then Ellen, when Ellen graduated and left, I just was like.
Cyndi Lauper
lost and
Presenter
Well, it must have been hard being because, you know, she she left home and you were left behind in the house.
Cyndi Lauper
At one point
Cyndi Lauper
She said, Get your stuff and come here right now'cause it wasn't safe anymore. I just remember that school was it was hard. I was talented in art, but it it didn't work out and there was a lot of stoners and whatever and they were just in this class and I I just felt like great. I woke up in hell.
Cyndi Lauper
you know, finally I did leave school, but they said
Cyndi Lauper
I was most likely to die or become an artist. They had no idea what was going to become of me.
Presenter
There was something in the yearbook where they'd said you were the most likely to fail. That they would even vote on that uploading in the year book.
Cyndi Lauper
No, no, no, no, no, no. That was a joke. That was a joke. That I was most likely to die. But still, what's his the head of the art department said.
Presenter
That was a joke.
Presenter
But still.
Cyndi Lauper
She's either gonna be an artist or she's she's gonna die. One or the other. She's gotta pull it together. Yeah.
Presenter
So I mean obviously glad that it worked out and you became an artist, but at the time, what did it feel like hearing that?
Cyndi Lauper
I didn't care. I kinda liked the fact that people thought I was a little craygray. What was the dream for you?
Presenter
What was the dream for you back then? Did you want to be an artist yourself? Did you think that was a possibility?
Cyndi Lauper
Yeah.
Cyndi Lauper
But I gave up.
Cyndi Lauper
And I tried really hard to fit into the world and get a job.
Cyndi Lauper
And, you know, I just got fired a lot, you know. What were you doing? What kind of thing? Well, you know, the whole office thing. I was a gal Friday the thirteenth and I was awful, even though I tried, but I I sucked.
Presenter
Yeah.
Cyndi Lauper
So and
Presenter
Your career was almost over before it began because you also lost your voice for a year after you just started out as a singer. What happened exactly and and how did you get it back?
Cyndi Lauper
You sing in these bands. You have to learn how to perform and stuff. So I would be singing, and they'd have the 200-watt martial amps right by me, and the cymbal where the guy would be hitting it right by your head. So you're singing like singing in this little fart box that was supposed to be the monitor. So basically.
Presenter
So you're singing Loud and
Cyndi Lauper
And they're like And I remember at one point I asked one of the guitar players in the second band to please turn down and he just ignored me'cause I had to sing over him. So I was playing cow belt, you know, with the broken drumstick. So I jabbed him. And then he got really upset. And he stopped playing. And I said, Thank you.
Cyndi Lauper
I'd love to hear some more music before
Presenter
Our fourth choice to do.
Cyndi Lauper
Okay, well this is the song.
Presenter
Okay, but this
Cyndi Lauper
that my grandmother heard so many times. And you know, you always think it's the movie star that's doing it, but it isn't. Monnie Nixon. And she was the standin' and Deborah Carr got to lip sync to her. These songs
Cyndi Lauper
were how I learned to sing. I played this album so much, this getting to know you and the king and the album of The King and I, right?
Cyndi Lauper
So much that my grandmother, who lived upstairs, she just came downstairs, she took, she lifted the needle off my little red record player, picked up the record, didn't say a word, and just walked back upstairs. And that was the end of that record. I never saw that record again because she just couldn't take it. And my mom, God bless her, everything was like okay, you know, with her.
Cyndi Lauper
Getting to know you, getting to know all about you, getting to like you. Getting to hope you like me
Presenter
Yeah.
Cyndi Lauper
Uh
Presenter
Getting to know you, putting it my way, but nicely you are precisely
Presenter
Getting to Know You from the film soundtrack To The King and I sung by Marnie Nixon.
Presenter
Cindy, you eventually left the band Blue Angel and started working as a solo artist. Your first album, She's So Unusual, was a huge hit. You'd spent your twenties grafting to get musical success. Once you got it, how was it? How did you find fame?
Presenter
Where
Cyndi Lauper
So I still think there needs to be that book, How to Be Famous for Dummies, because
Cyndi Lauper
You really it's a shocker.
Presenter
Look back then. I mean, obviously your aesthetic is still central to your art today, but that was one of the first things that made such a big impression on everyone. This colourful hair shaved at the side, you know, corsets and petticoats, copied a million times. These days, any star, any artist will be working with it. You know, stylists, makeup artists. Was it like that back then, or was it more DIY?
Presenter
You know
Cyndi Lauper
I worked at a a vintage clothing store.
Cyndi Lauper
And I work there because I shop there.
Cyndi Lauper
And I figured.
Cyndi Lauper
Why not work where you love the clothes?
Cyndi Lauper
And of course I put a lot of stuff on layaway and after a while it was too much. I wasn't allowed to layaway the clothes anymore.
Cyndi Lauper
But
Cyndi Lauper
I used to love to dress people when they came in.
Cyndi Lauper
And
Cyndi Lauper
the owner of the store when I got
Cyndi Lauper
You know,'cause a lot of other stars would come in and they'd ask for something and she'd put something together for them and bag it.
Cyndi Lauper
and then they'd go and use it and they would be the stylist.
Cyndi Lauper
And I I said to her one time, I said, You know, don't worry.
Cyndi Lauper
When I do my album cover you'll be my stylist. And was she? Yeah, of course she was. For years we worked together.
Presenter
Yeah.
Presenter
So, you were adapting clothing to make it your own, you were, you know, changing styles, and you did that with your music too, and you know, the instrumentation. That's a hugely successful album. You know, single after single hit big, and of course, girls just want to have fun was the centerpiece. But originally, this was a track that you weren't keen to do. You had to adapt it and make it your own, make it fit you. How did you do it?
Cyndi Lauper
When I was in Blue Angel I learned a lot from John Torrey, who helped me.
Cyndi Lauper
Understand that different keys would make your voice sound completely different.
Cyndi Lauper
And then you would take on a different personality, different spirit, whatever. I started doing that, and I also realized my grandmother and my mother, they were tailors. So they could take clothing that were hand-me-downs, pull them apart, put them back together on you, and it looked perfect like it was made for you. So I started to feel like that.
Cyndi Lauper
kind of mentality.
Cyndi Lauper
Is the same for songs, isn't it? And so.
Cyndi Lauper
You take it apart and put it back together so that it sounded like
Cyndi Lauper
It's you. But you also, Cindy, changed the lyric. Yeah, absolutely, and edited some things that didn't make sense. They wanted me to make a female anthem. They just didn't realize that they talked to somebody who burnt a training bra at the first demonstration at the Alice in Wonderland statue in the sixties. So originally the f
Presenter
The original track, I think, you know, it's a son singing to his father. Yeah, how lovely.
Cyndi Lauper
Yeah, the idea, nudge, nudge. We are the fortunate ones'cause girls they want to have fun with us. Why not? You know, and why not? That makes sense. But it didn't make sense
Cyndi Lauper
As a woman, to sing that, like, what am I singing about?
Cyndi Lauper
It needed
Cyndi Lauper
A new spirit
Cyndi Lauper
and a new arrangement
Cyndi Lauper
We did it and it
Presenter
Worked. Cindy, your mum was also in the video for Girls Just Wanna Have Fun. In fact, she was in several of your pop videos.
Cyndi Lauper
There was something so.
Cyndi Lauper
fantastic about her on film. Something so vulnerable that I didn't realize, you know. And I put her on film and she's photogenic and she's doing this thing. And she's never done anything in the video. Well, she just did it because she wanted spend more time with
Presenter
And she's never just green in the video.
Cyndi Lauper
Yeah.
Presenter
What was it like for her to be able to share in your success like that?
Cyndi Lauper
Well, she actually was really shy, and I realized I was pushing her to do things she didn't want to do.
Cyndi Lauper
She just wanted to spend time with me and play.
Cyndi Lauper
And to her being in the videos was just playin'.
Cyndi Lauper
I want to hear some more music. Cindy, it's time for your fifth choice today. What have we got? Well, when the Beatles came over.
Cyndi Lauper
It was mayhem my cousin Winter. She gave us for Christmas Meet the Beatles. So when they came to America one of the times I was eleven by that time, so I was old enough, I guess, for her.
Cyndi Lauper
and me and my sister and her friend Diane.
Cyndi Lauper
She drove us'cause she worked at the airport too, as a waitress. So she drove us to a spot
Cyndi Lauper
where she knew the cars driving from Kennedy Airport would pass. So she dropped us on this island. She said, Do not move from here
Cyndi Lauper
I'm going to be there and I'm going to come back in a little while.
Cyndi Lauper
Here comes the car. I start screaming. I had my eyes closed, and all of a sudden, I opened my eyes and I saw the back of their heads. And I said, What a jerk! What did I do? I missed them. And the only time I really got to see them really close up was one time I was at my dentist, like recently.
Cyndi Lauper
I turn around and there's Paul McCartney right behind me. What did you say to him? Well, I was at the dentist. I didn't know what to say, so I said, Nice teeth. I didn't know what to say. You know, I'm thinking your teeth look great.
Cyndi Lauper
I don't know. And then he said, oh, let's hug it out. So I figured he was used to people.
Cyndi Lauper
Getting Pull McCartney around him. Can't be happy. You know, but he.
Presenter
Yeah, yeah, whatever.
Speaker 1
Yeah.
Presenter
You know.
Cyndi Lauper
Very gracious.
Cyndi Lauper
It's a funny thing about the Beatles because also my sister and I, you know, like every kid, we were acting out the Beatles. But what I learned
Cyndi Lauper
as a a a musician.
Cyndi Lauper
I learned harmony.
Cyndi Lauper
And I harmonized with my sister. Ellen always had to be Paul. I had to be George. She was Paul.
Presenter
She's a good idea.
Cyndi Lauper
And that was fine.
Cyndi Lauper
But I learned the harmonies.
Cyndi Lauper
And
Cyndi Lauper
It just trained my ear differently.
Speaker 2
No.
Cyndi Lauper
Oh yeah!
Speaker 2
Tell you something.
Speaker 2
I think you'll understand.
Speaker 2
Can I say that something?
Speaker 2
I wanna hold a hand
Speaker 2
I wanna hold your hand.
Speaker 2
I wanna hold your hand. Oh, please say to me.
Presenter
The Beatles and I Wanna Hold Your Hand. Cindy, your second album was another success. The stand out single True Colours resonated with many people, but found a particular connection with the LGBTQ community. Why did that song resonate so deeply with people?
Cyndi Lauper
Pooh.
Cyndi Lauper
There are certain songs that are healing songs.
Cyndi Lauper
And I in my life had the privilege of being part of two songs.
Cyndi Lauper
that have helped communities over the years.
Cyndi Lauper
And
Cyndi Lauper
The one
Cyndi Lauper
thing was at the time.
Cyndi Lauper
In America they were not talking about AIDS.
Cyndi Lauper
and AIDS was very prevalent and people were dying.
Cyndi Lauper
And as for the
Presenter
You lost friends, I know, during the friend
Cyndi Lauper
And I had a friend who, if people were more educated and they understood about the disease more,
Cyndi Lauper
They would not have treated these people this way.
Cyndi Lauper
And I was always worried about my friend. I was worried if I came to see my friend, am I going to kill him with my germs? Is he going to kill me? Am I going somewhere else? What am I doing? Nobody's telling us about this thing.
Cyndi Lauper
And then she wants me to
Cyndi Lauper
to write a song for him the same way that Deion Warwick and Elton John, they sang That's What Friends Are For. So I wrote Boy Blue, but I also sang True Colors. I sang True Colors for us who survived him.
Cyndi Lauper
for him because he was really a good, good kid and a young adult.
Cyndi Lauper
And he
Cyndi Lauper
He never felt good about himself because you're made to feel horrible about yourself, and that's what makes these youth more vulnerable.
Cyndi Lauper
And how was he
Presenter
How old was he when he died?
Cyndi Lauper
24.
Presenter
20
Cyndi Lauper
I was so saddened by it, but at one point I was singing True Colors and some guy came up to me from the crowd with a flag, like the new rainbow flag. Did you know what it was then? That would have been
Presenter
Yeah, I knew it was a flat.
Cyndi Lauper
And he said, You know, I designed this because I was inspired by your song.
Cyndi Lauper
So that was the pride thing.
Cyndi Lauper
put it on, and after that moment I knew that Gregory got his wish.
Cyndi Lauper
There was the song.
Cyndi Lauper
that I sang for him.
Cyndi Lauper
And then we started doing things like
Cyndi Lauper
Creating a fund, helping.
Cyndi Lauper
And she
Presenter
And trying to create change. And what does it mean to you, Cindy, to see other activists take up your song, your lyrics, your your music, and to kind of literally put them on a banner? You know, to see those banners at the women's march saying girls just want to have fundamental rights.
Cyndi Lauper
When I saw that, I cried a little because I used to get in a lot of trouble for talking about women's rights. When I saw that, I called up my friends that I started the True Colors Fund with and I said, let's start the Girls Just Want to Have Fundamental Rights Fund. Come on, which helps women's health, safe and legal abortion, prenatal care, postnatal care, cancer screenings, and everything having to do with women's health.
Cyndi Lauper
promotion of women. So we do that in we raise money and fund organizations all over the world.
Presenter
Cindy, alongside your singing career, you've also worked as an actor. You won an Emmy for Outstanding Guest Actress when you appeared in the TV sitcom Mad About You, and you actually met your husband David, who's an actor on the set of a movie. The two of you were married by the architect of rock and roll himself, Little Richard. He officiated your wedding. Wasn't it great here? Please tell me everything.
Cyndi Lauper
Please tell me everything. And we were planning the wedding and I was trying to do the album and I got two licenses that year. I was so excited. I learned how to drive and
Cyndi Lauper
I got a wedding license. I had two licenses. And, um
Cyndi Lauper
I was thinking, David is very thoughtful, was walking around and he said, How about we get married in the friends' meeting house?'Cause we're going to bring our friends together, right? I said, That's a great idea. I said, How about we have the greatest singer ever?
Cyndi Lauper
'Cause I come from the school
Cyndi Lauper
And of course David's father didn't believe we were really married, that it was legal, but it was. And we just had a wonderful time. We got married there. We rented a double-decker bus to take everybody to the restaurant. Of course, a Sicilian restaurant. And we ate Sicilian food. And I actually ate at my wedding. My mother was shocked, but I had the black ink sauce.
Presenter
How did bringing all those friends together go? You know, David said you were bringing your friends together. I'm imagining your mum, your aunts, little Richard, Patty LaBelle. What was the reception like?
Cyndi Lauper
Little red.
Cyndi Lauper
Well, you know, Will Richard's shy and with a lot of Italian people.
Cyndi Lauper
So they were learning.
Speaker 1
Yeah.
Presenter
Yeah.
Speaker 1
But
Cyndi Lauper
I love Patty and her uh keyboard player.
Cyndi Lauper
and my family, and the people that were close to me.
Presenter
Cindy, let's have some more music. Your sixth choice today. What are you taking to the island next and why?
Cyndi Lauper
Send it.
Cyndi Lauper
Okay, this is an important thing.
Cyndi Lauper
Now when I
Cyndi Lauper
Decided to take these this class at in the Leni Tristana School of Jazz.
Cyndi Lauper
I studied Billie Holiday, but also an assignment was not just Billy, but Billy singing with Lester Young.
Cyndi Lauper
And if you listen,
Cyndi Lauper
to them singing together.
Cyndi Lauper
It is so extraordinary. This woman, Billie Holliday, to me
Cyndi Lauper
Rote modern phrasing.
Cyndi Lauper
She was extraordinary. Now, I know that I don't have Joni Mitchell on here.
Cyndi Lauper
But that'll be
Cyndi Lauper
Another time, but obviously she was a big influence. But Billy
Cyndi Lauper
was the foundation.
Cyndi Lauper
of me never to be afraid.
Cyndi Lauper
of the snare drum again.
Cyndi Lauper
and to breathe and to hear interior rhythm.
Cyndi Lauper
And that is very prominent on this. Just have a listen to how wonderful these two are answering each other.
Cyndi Lauper
And both in the moonlight and you
Cyndi Lauper
Wouldn't that be heaven or heaven just for you?
Speaker 2
Oh yeah.
Cyndi Lauper
A soft breeze on a June night and new
Speaker 2
Uh
Cyndi Lauper
What a perfect sentence
Cyndi Lauper
For letting dreams come true.
Presenter
A sailboat in the moonlight Billie Holiday and her orchestra.
Presenter
Cindy Loper, you put your songwriting skills to the test in twenty twelve when you undertook the job of composing music and lyrics for a new show, Kinky Boots. So this was new territory for you. What was it about the project that made you want to get involved?
Cyndi Lauper
He wrote the book and Jerry Mitchell.
Cyndi Lauper
Did the choreography
Presenter
For me. How confident did you feel starting work on the project though? Kinky Boots doing something completely new?
Cyndi Lauper
It's kind of
Presenter
Yeah.
Cyndi Lauper
Pissy about the tour I was on. And I said, sure. He said, Sin, how about you watch the movie first? So I said, Okay, okay. So I watched the movie.
Cyndi Lauper
And it was shoes.
Presenter
Again, shoes. They've been a running theme for you since art school when you used to paint shoes instead of canvases. Yeah, well, I was in trouble for that all the time.
Cyndi Lauper
Yeah, yeah.
Cyndi Lauper
Um
Cyndi Lauper
But he said, uh, yeah.
Cyndi Lauper
I said, Amen And I just figured
Cyndi Lauper
They wanted me to write catchy songs. That's what I thought. I thought, Oh, you want catchy songs. I could do that.
Presenter
And your creative efforts were richly rewarded. The show is a huge hit. Won six Tony's, including one for Best Original Score. And we won in Olivia. And in Olivia, too. But you were the first woman to win in the Best Original Score category at the Tony's on your own, by yourself. That was incredible.
Cyndi Lauper
I think we
Cyndi Lauper
That was important.
Presenter
Button to everyone. Yeah, how did it feel when your name was called out?
Cyndi Lauper
Like I always feel if I win and everybody else doesn't.
Cyndi Lauper
I felt like Carvey should have won something.
Cyndi Lauper
because he was the one that w was under his tutelage.
Cyndi Lauper
I was able to do that.
Cyndi Lauper
And, um,
Cyndi Lauper
I learned so much. And to me, honestly, comedy, the reason I love comedy is because it's like music.
Presenter
And it's a
Cyndi Lauper
And there's a rhythm to it.
Presenter
Yeah.
Cyndi Lauper
Everything
Presenter
Cindy, it's time for your next piece of music, if you wouldn't mind. Disc number seven. I think this is a band and an artist that you said you were rooting for.
Presenter
Yeah.
Cyndi Lauper
Yeah, we were all roading for Blondie. We loved I loved I love her still.
Cyndi Lauper
And I love them. And um, I think that
Cyndi Lauper
This is one of my favorite songs.
Cyndi Lauper
one way or another.
Cyndi Lauper
And
Cyndi Lauper
I even play it now before I go on.
Presenter
Oh, I can imagine this is just right for getting you in the zone because there's self-determination.
Cyndi Lauper
Self-determination.
Presenter
Yeah.
Cyndi Lauper
I love this song. I think it's so great. There's a sound.
Cyndi Lauper
There's an idea, there's a brain, it all works, it's fantastic.
Cyndi Lauper
Deborah Harry, I love her, and I love Blondie, and we were rooting for them, and when this came out we all went bonkers.
Presenter
Like a new york.
Cyndi Lauper
York thing. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. They were ours. They were from New York.
Presenter
Yeah.
Cyndi Lauper
One way or another, I'm gonna find ya, I'm gonna get ya, getcha, getcha, get ya One way or another, I'm gonna hit ya I'm gonna get you, get you, get you, get you
Presenter
Blondie and one way or another. Cindy, you've been in the music industry for many years now. How much do you think things have changed for women in that sector?
Cyndi Lauper
Well
Cyndi Lauper
They change and they don't.
Cyndi Lauper
The fact that
Cyndi Lauper
Taylor Swift had to justify herself.
Cyndi Lauper
I was like, are you kidding? I'm freaking so proud of that young woman. What a good example.
Cyndi Lauper
I'm happy watching all these young women.
Cyndi Lauper
And I know that there'll always be struggles.
Cyndi Lauper
But you just always got to take a step back, and there's always going to be gatekeepers, and just figure out how to get around them. Find like minded people doing similar things that you wo aspire to do.
Cyndi Lauper
and know that there are still artists' collectives.
Cyndi Lauper
that you could join and achieve what it is you want.
Presenter
When you look out at the music scene now and look at the younger artists making music, where do you see your influence, your DNA?
Presenter
Right.
Cyndi Lauper
DNA is just like
Cyndi Lauper
Everyone
Cyndi Lauper
that I learned from. We stand on the shoulders of the people that came before us.
Cyndi Lauper
and the people that come after us will be standing on ours.
Presenter
Thinking about, you know, the generations and what comes after, and obviously you're on this farewell tour at the moment. Have you given much thought to what you like your legacy to be? Is that something that you're interested in?
Presenter
I think
Cyndi Lauper
I think about trying to do the right thing and I think about the music that I make
Cyndi Lauper
That I don't just like I was told one time by a very prominent, very important.
Cyndi Lauper
male figure of the industry.
Cyndi Lauper
That said that we were making disposable music.
Cyndi Lauper
And I took issue with that because I did not make disposable music and I don't do that because the
Cyndi Lauper
You just do the best you can and don't make disposable music or make music that makes people happy.
Cyndi Lauper
Find some songs that help people, and you can leave that behind and do some great work.
Presenter
Cindy, it's almost time to cast you away to the desert islands. How will you cope, do you think, with total isolation?
Presenter
Mm.
Cyndi Lauper
I have no idea.
Presenter
Uh
Cyndi Lauper
Are you good on your own? Are you often on your own? I like to think you are.
Cyndi Lauper
You're on an island.
Cyndi Lauper
There's water.
Cyndi Lauper
There are creatures.
Presenter
Yeah.
Cyndi Lauper
Uh
Presenter
Uh
Cyndi Lauper
Uh
Presenter
Not alone. What sort of island are you imagining? What what you picture when you think of your desert island? What's the first thing you'll do when you get there?
Cyndi Lauper
Hmm.
Cyndi Lauper
See if they're making any of those like piña coladas, probably with an umbrella. I like umbrellas.
Presenter
See? Well, you'll have to knock it up yourself, but you never know what materials might be around when you get there. Oh, there you go. Cindy, we'd love one more track before we cast you away to the desert island. The piniculadas are on hold for now.
Cyndi Lauper
To me, this is rock and roll, the epitome of it. Rock and roll is blues.
Cyndi Lauper
Rock and Roll has drums. The thing about this is it's a combination of not just blues, but also the Native American drum beat, which to me is what rock and roll is. Listeners may not know that this is the original version of this track. Yes, it is. This is the original version of Hound Dog.
Cyndi Lauper
And um I think Big Mama Thornton isn't just a blues singer, I think she's a rocker.
Cyndi Lauper
And to me she was the foundation of a lot of stuff that came after.
Cyndi Lauper
Uh
Speaker 2
Uh
Cyndi Lauper
Right.
Cyndi Lauper
No
Cyndi Lauper
Which loopin' on my door?
Cyndi Lauper
You not gotta
Speaker 2
Ah
Cyndi Lauper
Oh no.
Cyndi Lauper
Where's loving on my door?
Cyndi Lauper
You can wag your tail, but I ain't gonna beat you no more. You told me you were high class, but I can see the land.
Presenter
Big Mama Thornton and Hound Dog. So, Cindy, I'm going to cast you away to the island now. I'll give you the books to take with you, of course. You can have the Bible, the complete works of Shakespeare, and one other book. What would you like?
Cyndi Lauper
Yeah.
Cyndi Lauper
I can read the Bible.
Cyndi Lauper
Um, and I'll take the David Sederis me talk pretty
Presenter
One day
Presenter
It's yours. You can also have a luxury item to make life a little bit more bearable on the desert island. I need.
Speaker 1
On the desert island.
Presenter
A luxury hotel. Just one. Ooh, okay. You know it'll be completely unstaffed because you are buttons.
Cyndi Lauper
But it'll have
Presenter
It's an interesting choice. People have taken buildings in the past, they've taken their favorite museums, concert halls. On that basis, as long as it's unstaffed, I can give it to you.
Cyndi Lauper
On that basis.
Cyndi Lauper
See, and I think I could go with that because it'll have everything I need. A piano, I could do my vocals, I could do like I could do whatever. I could write melodies, I could cook.
Cyndi Lauper
I'd have to, you know, go fish.
Cyndi Lauper
You'd have to catch a fish first. I tell you, I can't do it without a luxury hotel, though.
Presenter
Gotta have a luxury Oto. I think it's a clever choice, and it's all yours. And finally, which one track of the eight that you've shared with us today would you rush to save from the waves?
Cyndi Lauper
Oh my gosh.
Cyndi Lauper
I think that Maria Collis tracked because I don't think
Cyndi Lauper
you could ever get tired of listening to all the colors in her voice.
Cyndi Lauper
Although
Cyndi Lauper
They were all great singers.
Cyndi Lauper
And I love them all for different reasons, but
Cyndi Lauper
Yeah.
Presenter
Such a beautiful way of putting it. Cindy Lauper, thank you very much for letting us hear your desert island discs. Thank you.
Presenter
Hello, it was lovely to chat to Cindy and hope she's very happy on the island alone in her luxury hotel. What brilliant idea! We've cast away many musicians over the years and there are more than 2,000 programmes in our archive that you can listen to, including Cher, Adele, Debbie Harry and Sir Paul McCartney. You can hear those programmes if you search through BBC Sounds or on our own Desert Island Disc's website. The studio manager for today's programme was Jackie Marjoram. The executive production coordinator was Susie Roylence. The assistant producer was Christine Pavlovsky and the producer was Sarah Taylor. Join me next time when my guest will be the conservation biologist Professor Carl Jones.
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Presenter asks
Did you have a sense of that as a little girl that you were seeing parents who maybe hadn't fulfilled their ambitions, their dreams?
He loved tinkering and playing this and playing that and his idea was when he retired he wanted a he had an organ and he was gonna play in a bar. What did he do for a living? He was a shipping clerk at Bul of a Watch, which is where he met my mom.
Presenter asks
So I mean obviously glad that it worked out and you became an artist, but at the time, what did it feel like hearing that? [that you were most likely to die or become an artist]
I didn't care. I kinda liked the fact that people thought I was a little craygray.
Presenter asks
Your career was almost over before it began because you also lost your voice for a year after you just started out as a singer. What happened exactly and how did you get it back?
You sing in these bands. You have to learn how to perform and stuff. So I would be singing, and they'd have the 200-watt martial amps right by me, and the cymbal where the guy would be hitting it right by your head. So you're singing like singing in this little fart box that was supposed to be the monitor. So basically. ... And I remember at one point I asked one of the guitar players in the second band to please turn down and he just ignored me 'cause I had to sing over him. So I was playing cow belt, you know, with the broken drumstick. So I jabbed him. And then he got really upset. And he stopped playing. And I said, Thank you.
Presenter asks
But originally, this was a track that you weren't keen to do. You had to adapt it and make it your own, make it fit you. How did you do it?
When I was in Blue Angel I learned a lot from John Torrey, who helped me understand that different keys would make your voice sound completely different. And then you would take on a different personality, different spirit, whatever. I started doing that, and I also realized my grandmother and my mother, they were tailors. So they could take clothing that were hand-me-downs, pull them apart, put them back together on you, and it looked perfect like it was made for you. So I started to feel like that kind of mentality. Is the same for songs, isn't it? And so. You take it apart and put it back together so that it sounded like it's you. But you also, Cindy, changed the lyric. Yeah, absolutely, and edited some things that didn't make sense. They wanted me to make a female anthem. They just didn't realize that they talked to somebody who burnt a training bra at the first demonstration at the Alice in Wonderland statue in the sixties. ... The original track, I think, you know, it's a son singing to his father. Yeah, how lovely. Yeah, the idea, nudge, nudge. We are the fortunate ones 'cause girls they want to have fun with us. Why not? You know, and why not? That makes sense. But it didn't make sense as a woman, to sing that, like, what am I singing about? It needed a new spirit and a new arrangement. We did it and it worked.
Presenter asks
Why did that song [True Colors] resonate so deeply with people?
There are certain songs that are healing songs. And I in my life had the privilege of being part of two songs that have helped communities over the years. And the one thing was at the time. In America they were not talking about AIDS. and AIDS was very prevalent and people were dying. ... And I had a friend who, if people were more educated and they understood about the disease more, they would not have treated these people this way. And I was always worried about my friend. I was worried if I came to see my friend, am I going to kill him with my germs? Is he going to kill me? Am I going somewhere else? What am I doing? Nobody's telling us about this thing. ... I sang True Colors for us who survived him. for him because he was really a good, good kid and a young adult. And he never felt good about himself because you're made to feel horrible about yourself, and that's what makes these youth more vulnerable. ... at one point I was singing True Colors and some guy came up to me from the crowd with a flag, like the new rainbow flag. ... And he said, You know, I designed this because I was inspired by your song. So that was the pride thing. put it on, and after that moment I knew that Gregory got his wish. There was the song that I sang for him.
“Mom, sometimes when you hear this stuff, is it so beautiful that it just makes you cry? And she said, Yes, that's what music can do.”
“I was most likely to die or become an artist. They had no idea what was going to become of me.”
“I didn't care. I kinda liked the fact that people thought I was a little craygray.”
“There are certain songs that are healing songs.”
“I did not make disposable music and I don't do that because the you just do the best you can and don't make disposable music or make music that makes people happy. Find some songs that help people, and you can leave that behind and do some great work.”