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Desert Island Discs
Presented by Lauren Laverne
Multi-award winning broadcaster, best known for BAFTA-winning coverage of the Passchendaele centenary and 12 years as host of this programme.
Eight records
Prelude from Cello Suite No. 1 in G majorFavourite
Prelude from Cello Suite No. 1 in G major, BWV 1007
The keepsakes
The book
Nora Ephron
it is the voices of all the wonderful, smart, funny women I have been lucky enough to know and do know, sort of encapsulated into the works of Nora Efron.
The luxury
a cinema with all the films I've ever watched
that way I'll have company and I'll have memories and I'll have stories and I'll have escapism.
In conversation
Presenter asks
What do you think it is about Desert Island Discs that people love so much all these decades on?
I once described it as a sort of hammock-like quality, just to fit itself around the person who is there. So, therefore, if it is a sort of Premier League footballer or if it is an astrophysicist, their music and the amount of time you spend talking to them, and then also the ways in and the ways out of the music, are sort of beautifully kind of soft and comfy. So, people come into the studio and they're kind of surrounded by their own bits of furniture and the music. So, they've got the comfort of that familiarity, and also whatever they choose gives each programme a unique flavour.
Presenter asks
Tell me about your mother's tenacity during that time when she was on her own with you and your sister.
The recording
Timestamps play the recording from that turn
Speaker 1
BBC Sounds, Music, Radio, Podcast.
Presenter
Hello, I'm Lauren Laverne and this is the Desert Island Discs podcast. Every week I ask my guests to choose the eight tracks, book and luxury they'd want to take with them if they were cast away to a desert island. This is an extended version of the original Radio 4 broadcast and, for rights reasons, the music is shorter than the original broadcast. I hope you enjoy listening.
Presenter
My castaway this week is Kirstie Young. She's a multi-award winning broadcaster who might at first glance require little introduction to Desert Island Disc's listeners, but is that true? After all, her phenomenal professional skill lies in making her subject rather than herself the entire focus of her work. Her ability to reveal the truth of a story, a moment, a person to her audience is nothing short of remarkable.
Presenter
It's a feat she's accomplished again and again throughout her thirty years on air, from the newsroom where she chronicled the horror of 9-11 as it unfolded, to her BAFTA-winning coverage of the centenary of the Battle of Passchendaele, and more recently that moment when she found exactly the right words to express the sombre gratitude of a nation after the state funeral of Her Majesty the Queen.
Presenter
Of course, there were also the twelve unforgettable years she spent as host of this programme. On a personal note, they made her my broadcasting hero and the toughest imaginable act to follow. She sent castaways, including Tom Hanks, Dame Judy Dench and David Beckham to the island. Today, it's her turn. In a Desert Island Discs tradition that goes back to the days of Roy Plumley, who cast himself away twice, she'll make the journey herself and look back on her own story. She says, I never had the nerve to plan, but I've found that if you work hard, you get the breaks. I've always been gung-ho, and that has been my friend. Kirsty Young, welcome back to Desert Island Discs.
Kirsty Young
You are very generous. That was such a lovely introduction. It is such a treat to be here. I honestly, you probably can hear it in my voice. I'm a little bit nervous. It was very strange to sit on the other side of the the table. I mean it's a privilege and also slightly disorientating. I'll do my best to be lucid.
Presenter
I'll do my
Presenter
I can imagine. There's only one letter, isn't there, between interviewee and interviewee for the whole world of difference. Exactly. So Desert Island Discs turned eighty this year. Kirstie, what do you think it is about the programme that people love so much all these decades on?
Kirsty Young
But a whole world of difference.
Kirsty Young
I once described it as a sort of hammock-like quality, just to fit itself around the person who is there. So, therefore, if it is a sort of Premier League footballer or if it is an astrophysicist, their music and the amount of time you spend talking to them, and then also the ways in and the ways out of the music, are sort of beautifully kind of soft and comfy. So, people come into the studio and they're kind of surrounded by their own bits of furniture and the music. So, they've got the comfort of that familiarity, and also whatever they choose gives each programme a unique flavour. They're only meant to be.
Presenter
So
Kirsty Young
Was it six or twelve? You know, I've seen the original letter that Roy Plumley wrote in front of his three-bar sort of electric fire because he was trying to get a commission. You know, he was a freelancer. So it had very modest beginnings, and I also think that's great. I think something that has sort of, you know, this tiny little seed that was planted that's grown into this great oak tree that we all revere. It's a tribute to him. It's a great idea.
Speaker 1
Yeah.
Speaker 1
Two.
Speaker 1
Mm-hmm.
Presenter
Yeah.
Presenter
And your contribution to it, enormous. You met 496 castaways while presenting the programme. Yeah, 496.
Kirsty Young
Did I?
Kirsty Young
Yeah.
Presenter
And obviously many of them said that taking part in the programme had a hugely profound effect on them, but I know from experience that it will have been the same for you. These conversations where people open up, that they change your perspective every single week. I'm sure that's an experience you had many times.
Kirsty Young
It absolutely is. And it's a funny thing to think that about something that is in essence just a little 43-minute radio programme.
Kirsty Young
It did. Made me a more knowledgeable person. That was good. The research took me to lots of places I wouldn't naturally ever have gone. you know, reading about sort of mural plasticity or trying to understand what Carlo Rovelli actually does for a living. You know, those it takes you to places uh that that are unfamiliar, and that's great because that kind of was my education for all of those hundreds of guests.
Speaker 1
Yeah.
Speaker 2
Don't
Speaker 1
We have
Presenter
And
Presenter
Well, I think we'd better get started with your first disc with that in mind, Kirstie. What's it going to be and why are you taking it with you?
Kirsty Young
So this is the opening from Bach's Cello's Suite, number one in G major. It's played here by Stephen Isserlis, who was one of my early guests. I had not heard this piece of music before, I wasn't at all familiar with it. I can still remember sitting at my desk and doing the research for the programme, and I put it on. It was one of those moments where I just stopped in my tracks. The other reason I've chosen it is when I was interviewing Stephen Isserlis, who is a remarkable cerebral extraordinary musician, obviously.
Kirsty Young
I asked him the question: When you recorded it, because it's the pinnacle for a cellist to record this piece of music. And I said to him, So when you listen back to it.
Kirsty Young
He said it and I've never listened back to it.
Kirsty Young
And I said, why is that? And she said, well, a dog doesn't go back and inspect its own mess.
Kirsty Young
And I thought, for somebody as accomplished as him, and this happened a lot actually for actors and people that I interviewed.
Kirsty Young
People who, for us, are serving us up the most profound sort of cultural gems.
Kirsty Young
They're of course human too, and they hear the mistakes and they see the mistakes. And I learned something from that from him, which is, you know, we are all usually our own worst critics, and it's not a bad thing to be, because you end up with good work. I think it's utterly beautiful. Stephen's never heard it, but I've heard it so many times, and this is something I listen to a lot.
Speaker 1
Yeah.
Speaker 2
Yeah.
Speaker 2
Yeah.
Presenter
Prelude from Bach's Cello Suite number one in G major, played by Stephen Isselis. So Kirsty, you were born in 1968 in Glasgow, the younger sister to Laura. For a little while it was just your mum Catherine and you and your sister. I know that you've marvelled at your your mother's tenacity during that time. Tell me a little bit about it.
Speaker 1
In class
Kirsty Young
Yeah.
Kirsty Young
There are lots of single parents in the world, aren't they? And they all deserve us to toast them for the work they do. I was really tiny, a baby when she was on her own. My sister was three, and she is the very definition of a self-starter. I can't imagine how difficult that would be. I mean, I remember when my first daughter was a few weeks old, lying in the bath.
Kirsty Young
And it really hit me forcefully. It was the first time actually I'd ever got upset about it. And I thought, imagine, you know, you feel as vulnerable as a person can feel. You feel raw as a mother when your your baby is in those first sort of few weeks and months.
Speaker 1
Your b
Kirsty Young
And my mum was in uh an unhappy marriage and decided up with it she would not put, and uh there was a lot of of pain and unreasonable behaviour, and she decided she wanted out of it, and good for her. And yet she did that having a, you know, a very, very uh young baby, and my sister, as I say, was only three and a half.
Kirsty Young
So m my mum always made us feel that we were the best things that had ever happened to her, and still does, and thinks of that pain only in a glass half full way, which is, well, look what I got.
Speaker 2
Yeah.
Kirsty Young
Yeah.
Kirsty Young
So that inevitably transmits itself to your children. So w there was never this sense in which I'm on my own, this is impossible, no, I don't remember any of that in my childhood.
Presenter
I can see the emotion in the middle of the middle of the house.
Kirsty Young
I know, I know, well I do feel emotional when I talk about it actually.
Kirsty Young
You know, she got herself a full-time job, and I went to a childminder and she made sure it was a job with a car. You know, she completely.
Kirsty Young
looked at what she'd got and made the very, very best of it. And she didn't have she had very loving parents, but she had no financial security from her family background. And so she did that by herself. And my admiration for that is unending.
Presenter
And it sounds like she insulated you from the emotional impact of what she was experiencing until you were much later.
Kirsty Young
She really did. I mean, I think obviously, you know, as as I've become older and I understand more about myself and I I think more about those things when you have your own family inevitably you do. You understand
Kirsty Young
That those things
Kirsty Young
necessarily have an impact on who you are.
Speaker 1
Door.
Kirsty Young
My mum
Kirsty Young
Gave us enough love for everybody. She definitely did that. And that, you know, that is, that's no small feat, I think.
Presenter
Time for some more music, Kirsty. Your second disc today. What are we going to hear?
Kirsty Young
We are going to hear something by Nina Simone. I mean, all eight tracks virtually could have been by Nina Simone. I love her so much. I love her voice. I love the breadth of her catalogue. I love the pain that is writ across much of the stuff that she portrays. This is a very light one, and it's really glorious. And I do listen to it regularly, and I love it. And I'm a real words person, so I love the lyrics of this. I'm very fortunate in that my sister Laura and my brother Ian really properly make me laugh, probably like no other people. And Laura was in a charity fashion show when she was a teenager, and I was three years younger, and always in awe of her, still sort of am. She is my best friend, and sometimes I still persuade her to do the funny dance. It was a kind of parody of the fashion show dance that she originally did to this track when I was a teenager. It's My Baby Just Cares for Me.
Speaker 2
My baby don't care for sure
Speaker 2
Ma B
Speaker 2
Hello?
Speaker 2
Bamboo images cares for me
Speaker 2
My baby we don't care for
Speaker 2
Cars and races
Speaker 2
But we will care for
Speaker 2
Hi, don't please.
Presenter
Nina Simone and My Baby Just Cares for Me. So Kirsty Young. Your mum married John Young, who you call Dad. He brought you up. He was your dad. When you were three. Your brother Ian came along too, so there were three kids and I think John ran a news agent and sweet shop. I did, that's right. Did you have free reign of the Sweetly Jaws?
Kirsty Young
Yeah.
Kirsty Young
I did, that's right.
Kirsty Young
Did we hell?
Kirsty Young
My mum ruled with a rod of iron. I was sometimes allowed to spend my five P pocket money on the penny tray occasionally, but we weren't no, we were not allowed sweets. We did my mum was one of those mums, I mean, good honour, you know, we didn't have fizzy drinks in the house. That was what she was like, and he's always been a very hard grafter, my dad, John. And it was, you know, up to get the papers at 6am and all all that sort of stuff.
Presenter
Occasionally.
Speaker 1
People
Presenter
So you saw that drive and that work effort.
Kirsty Young
My dad has got an incredible work ethic and even now in his you know, he's he's in his early eighties. Even now, you know, if if you wanted him to build you a staircase or a kitchen, he'd be the first one to go in. He's a he's a trained joiner and he's very, very skilled and and later on in his life he he worked restoring old buildings in Scotland and you know he's a real craftsman. He and my mum had Ian.
Speaker 1
Okay.
Kirsty Young
And so then we had this little brother. I can still remember him being brought back from the hospital. And we were very much brought up as a family unit. I didn't have any contact with my biological father, and John has always been
Presenter
And join.
Kirsty Young
My dad and a and a and a brilliant dad.
Presenter
You relocated to to Sterling in from East Kilbride when you were eight. I did. Did that feel like a very big change to you?
Kirsty Young
Like a very big change. It felt like a really big change. And it felt like a very positive change because we'd Sterling is a beautiful place and it's very, very different from East Cool Bright. So it was it was a great move and I went to a much, much nicer school and with a great headmaster and it was a very positive thing for me.
Presenter
So tell me about school. What would we have read on your report?
Kirsty Young
I didn't particularly enjoy high school, apart from the things that I was reasonable at. So I I enjoyed art. Mr Carberry was my art teacher and he was brilliant. We had a really strong English department there. I loved English. I liked writing essays. I was asked to write for the school newspaper and I was in the debating team. But apart from the things that I liked, I was really average, average to medium crap as everything else. And also I kept encountering teachers who'd say,
Kirsty Young
So you're Laura Laura Young's sister? Because Laura was effortlessly academic, which was sickening if you were meant to be. And puzzling if you were a teacher. I did. I fell in her shadow. So I had to find my own things.
Speaker 2
And puzzle.
Speaker 1
Uh
Speaker 2
Yeah.
Kirsty Young
Yeah, I did I did feel in her shadow and I felt, yeah, I'm well, no, I'm not I'm not as not as academic as her, but I'm something else. You know, in a way it's you know, in in families it's it's good. I think that's why it's good to have siblings, because you define yourself not just in relation to your inner thoughts, but externally to them too, and and to a degree I think I proluded that.
Presenter
Absolutely. It's interesting though, that there do seem to have been clues there that you had a a voice that you wanted to use. I mean, Debating Society, the school newspaper.
Kirsty Young
If only somebody, including me, had put two and two together. If I can call them those sorts of jobs.
Kirsty Young
weren't even something in my consideration. You know, I had I had uncles who worked in the newspapers in Glasgow.
Kirsty Young
They worked in the print rooms and they didn't we didn't know people who were journalists, we didn't know certainly didn't know people in broadcasting. So it was very other. I didn't perceive myself as that sort of person, but of course, absolutely the clues were there as to what I got. And I remember being asked to do some public speaking at primary school. They asked me to do a vote of thanks, and I just got up and did it. And everybody kind of looked and went, Oh shoot.
Kirsty Young
She can actually do that. And it didn't bother me to do it, to stand up and speak in front of people. And I was probably only about nine, I think.
Presenter
Not to be flippant, Kirsty, but even in those days did people say her voice has a real gravity has a certain because when did that kick in? When did the voice happen?
Kirsty Young
Yeah.
Kirsty Young
I got chucked out of the the school choir when I was at high school. I remember the music teacher. It was sort of self-selecting, you just went along. It was like a club, an after-school club.
Speaker 2
Discover.
Kirsty Young
And he said, Hey, hey, Old Man River, out out
Kirsty Young
I know. I've always and even now, if I'm staying in a hotel and I order room service, they say it'll be with you, sir, in 40 minutes. Yeah, I know I've got a slightly, it is, it's a deep voice, but it was it's good later. It was good later.
Presenter
Good luck.
Kirsty Young
Yeah.
Presenter
Let's go to the music. It's time for your third selection today. What are we going to hear and why?
Kirsty Young
Well, why wouldn't we hear Joni Mitchell? I worshipped at the shrine of Joni Mitchell for decades.
Presenter
Well
Kirsty Young
I sometimes feel on her behalf a sense of resentment that I know people revere her, but Bob Dylan, Joni Mitchell, I'm thinking they're exactly the same. She is an absolute poet. The fact that she wrote this when she was, I think, twenty five bamboozles me, because really
Kirsty Young
It's the song of a maybe a fifty five year old woman. It is extraordinary, it's beautiful. And my brother used to shout as I played it on my cassette recorder, Get that screaming witch off. He did not like Joni Mitchell so much, so this is for Ian, actually.
Speaker 2
Rows and flows of angel hair, And ice cream castles in the air, And feather canyons everywhere And I've looked at clouds that weave
Speaker 2
But now they only block the sun They rain and snow on everyone
Presenter
Joni Mitchell and Both Sides Now. So Kirstie Young, tell me a little bit more about this potential that you had, this latent urge to use your voice at school. You mentioned that you wrote for the school paper, you're in the Debating Society. I think you also attended summer drama schools at the the Scottish Youth Theatre.
Kirsty Young
Yeah, I do.
Presenter
Th those were residential courses, weren't they?
Kirsty Young
They were and I did get very, very homesick. I don't want to overstate the fact that I I was unhappy at school, but I didn't really love it. And when I was in those environments I really loved it and I thought, Yeah, these are my people and it was a bit more exotic and more varied and it was m more fun. I feel sorry for my parents, you know, that they had to traipse to see
Presenter
Yeah.
Speaker 2
The ma
Kirsty Young
Ibsen's Peer Gynt, when you see that sort of performed by a little bit of
Kirsty Young
fourteen year olds, I can't imagine that was the best night of their life, you know, but they they supported me and they encouraged me and it it made me, I I suppose, just aware that the world's a big place and there are all sorts of choices and it's not just about passing exams and sitting in French class.
Speaker 1
There are also
Kirsty Young
I think words, actually. I think that was the thing that I fell in love with. I think when I was a teenager.
Speaker 2
I think
Kirsty Young
Yeah, I've never thought of it.
Kirsty Young
Here we go. Desert Island the magic of Desert Island discs. Who knew? I would say, you know, whether it was the words of Joni Mitchell or whether it was Shakespeare, I was kind of falling in love with words, actually. Conversation or lyrics or books are really my my thing.
Speaker 2
Desert Island the magic of desert.
Presenter
Actually.
Presenter
He didn't go see universes
Kirsty Young
You didn't
Presenter
You didn't do you think it was because you thought you I'm not the academic one so I'm not not going to or?
Kirsty Young
I wanted to get an A, B, and a C, I think, in my A-level equivalents. In Scotland, they're called hires. So that was okay. I mean, my results were fine.
Kirsty Young
I think I had a slightly restless quality and and I you know, as long as I was earning after I finished my exams, my parents were fine with that. And so I I I left school and took up a a job working, sort of washing glasses and working in a restaurant and saved up to go abroad. I'd never been on a plane, so I thought I'd quite like to do that.
Presenter
So you're seventeen and you went to the window being OPEF?
Kirsty Young
I was seventeen and I went
Kirsty Young
I went to be a nau peer.
Presenter
That's very adventurous.
Kirsty Young
A bit adventurous.
Presenter
'Cause you were quite far away. Barcelona, Switzerland?
Kirsty Young
Barcelona and Switzerland, yeah. Um always listen to to radio in my teens in my bedroom.
Kirsty Young
But I developed an abiding love of radio when I was in OPER because I listened to the World Service for at least three hours a day when I did the ironing.
Presenter
So you came home after that adventure and and you took a job in a pub I think.
Kirsty Young
Yeah, I was going to get ready. I wanted to do English literature A-level and the only way you could do that, I wanted to just be more specific. And so I was going to go to college and I was working over the summer in a bar and I was serving a pint to a very nice guy one evening and he was a freelance camera operator and his runner had gone sick and he did sports. And I thought, well, next weekend, rather than working here, maybe I can lift those camera cases. And so that was, I worked as they used to call it a runner. And so that was my summer job. I started to work on motorsport shoots and football shoots, neither of which I'm interested in. But it didn't matter. Didn't you? Because really. I can see on your face that you were doing.
Presenter
Be more s
Presenter
Mm-hmm.
Presenter
Did you really
Kirsty Young
I loved it because it was this whole hidden world and well hidden to me and yeah, and I thought, oh, look at all these people doing jobs that they really love, which is the that's the great gift of our sorts of jobs and broadcasting, is there are an awful lot of people doing jobs they really love and that is a great privilege. And I saw all these people doing jobs they loved and I thought maybe and and so I said to my parents.
Speaker 1
Yeah.
Kirsty Young
I might not go to college to do the A levels and upgrade.
Kirsty Young
My exam results, I might do this. And they said, Well, and I said, Because I'm working with runners who've got degrees, who've done four years, and they're four years older than me, and now they've got a job as a runner. And they said, and again, to their great credit, they said, Right, well, that's fine then. As long as you keep working and you do that, then you carry on. It's such a
Kirsty Young
Brilliant attitude, I think, as a parent to think, Well, find your thing.
Presenter
Mm-hmm.
Kirsty Young
Your sister's thing's not your thing. What's your thing? And they completely allowed me to do that as long as I was, you know, earning money and paying my way.
Presenter
Well, we'll find out what happened next in a minute. First, though, I think we'd better hear your fourth choice today, Kirsty. What have you gone for?
Kirsty Young
Mr. Day Cross
Kirsty Young
Oh crikey, get the tissues out.
Kirsty Young
This is for my mum and dad, and it's also a love letter to Scotland by Doogie Maclean. It is really for all the people who've ever gone away. As I said to you, I'm a words person, and the lyrics of this, of course, I know we can't listen to all of it, but if people like, I would urge them to listen to all of it, because it is a beautiful love letter to Scotland by somebody who has left. And yet, their Scottishness is at the very core of who they are and kind of defines everything they do. But that need to leave, to propel yourself away, and then later to understand why you're sad that you've gone. This is exquisite. This is Doogie MacLean and Caledonia.
Speaker 2
I have kissed the ladies and left them crying Stolen dreams, yes, there's no denying I have travelled hard, sometimes with conscience flying Somewhere with the wind
Speaker 2
Let me tell you that I love you.
Speaker 2
But I think about you all the time
Speaker 2
Caledonia, you called me, now I'm going.
Presenter
Douglas McLean and Caledonia. So you were loving working as a runner in T V, you'd done that for a couple of years, then a researcher and you beat 700 applicants to a job that you applied for. It was as trainees, news and continuity announcer for BBC Radio Scotland. You were just 21 and you got it out of all of those people. What do you think they saw in you?
Speaker 2
And T
Speaker 1
Feed and
Kirsty Young
I think they were trying to lower the mean age of the department.
Kirsty Young
I don't know that I mean, timing in a career is everything.
Speaker 1
Yeah.
Kirsty Young
And I think obviously they thought they could train me up and I'd be reasonable at the job and that's great, but I think also the timing of
Kirsty Young
Maybe a younger voice in their department, maybe a young female. I mean, there were wonderful females in the department, and I worked with a brilliant team, and it was the best training.
Kirsty Young
Ever have had. What did they see in me? I you know, I don't know. A little bit of potential, probably, I guess.
Presenter
You almost didn't apply though, why not?
Kirsty Young
Well, I didn't have the nerve. It was the BBC, Lauren. I was working as a researcher at a small independent. It was at the time when 25% of all TV production had been decreed that it should be independent production, and therefore there was a great sort of miniature explosion in Glasgow with these little independent production companies. So I was researching documentaries and pitching ideas. It was a really interesting job. And somebody who worked with me said, you should apply for this. What I didn't know was that the company was close to going down the Swanney at the time. And I was like, I love my job. Plus, I'd never get that one. And on the final day before it was closing, my work colleague said, no, you really should apply for this. So I feel that he literally drove me to the reception and watched me hand it in. So that was a very kind thing for them to do. I lacked a wee bit of nerve, I think. Even at that point, by the time I was researching, I'd worked up enough nerve at the interview for that job.
Speaker 1
Yeah.
Kirsty Young
the researcher's job to say, you know, maybe one day I could be a reporter. But even saying it, I felt like a fraud. I felt like the person's going to start laughing. They didn't start laughing, and that probably gave me the confidence came quite incrementally, I think.
Presenter
Gradually. Well, with with that in mind, since you s you were a bit more nervous, I mean, how was it going on air for the first time?
Kirsty Young
I had that sort of tension where I definitely want this was a proper job. I was getting incredible training by brilliant professionals that I was surrounded with.
Kirsty Young
And it also terrified me. And I think it's how quickly you lose the terror. I lost the terror very quickly. And I love being in a radio studio. And I love being in a T V studio. Now, but in the beginning, I mean, I
Presenter
Hmm.
Speaker 1
Bye.
Kirsty Young
Before I did my first live news bullet, and I did go and throw up in the talk I mean I did, really. Yeah, I did. The nerves were churning.
Presenter
Didn't I?
Presenter
Kirstie, it's time for some more music. Your fifth choice. What have you gone for and why?
Kirsty Young
Well, this is all about New York. I think it's actually probably the best song written about New York, and it's maybe not the one people think it is, written by Cole Porter. I have a never-ending, like so many people, a never-ending love affair with New York. I've been going there for 30 years, and it just absolutely never, ever disappoints. And whenever I step into the middle of Manhattan, I always somehow feel like I'm a background actor in a movie, and I love that. And I remember the first time I was with my sister when I went to New York and worked up the nerve to order a martini. I didn't even know what was in a martini, but I remember sitting at a bar in New York drinking a martini. There's a particular hotel in New York that I've been lucky enough to sometimes stay in, and this was recorded live at that hotel. They have this beautiful little lounge, sort of jazz lounge, with lamps on the table and delicious food. And it's wonderful. And now I have a great reason to visit New York because two of our kids are currently based there. One's working there and the other one's studying there. So this is a Cole Porter song and it was recorded live at Cafe Carlisle. And it's Bobby Short singing I Happen to Like New York.
Speaker 2
I happen to like this bird, I happen to like this towel.
Speaker 2
And when I have to give the world my last farewell And the undertaker starts to ring my funeral bell I don't wanna go to heaven, don't wanna go to hell, I happen to like New York
Speaker 2
I happen to lie.
Speaker 2
Here we are.
Presenter
Bobby Short and I happen to like New York. You can taste the martini, can you? I wish I could taste the martini. Absolutely. Kirsty, in 1997 you joined Channel 5. You were there at its launch hosting the news and you won many awards for your work there. Your style was also hugely influential on the way the news was presented. Obviously there was the famous perch on the desk rather than being sat behind it, but also this kind of a certain directness and informality to the
Speaker 2
What's up?
Kirsty Young
It's the Martin.
Speaker 2
Yeah.
Speaker 1
Hello.
Speaker 2
Uh
Kirsty Young
The way you covered the news, the way you handle the stories. It's lovely being at the start of something because everybody's kind of.
Kirsty Young
You know, you're all in the mess together and it's very sort of binding and bonding in that way. And I think people were kind of ready to find it hilarious. You know, people were ready to look at the mess and actually it wasn't. And within two or three weeks of being on air, we got a wonderful front page in a section of a broadsheet. What it said is why this woman is changing the face of television news. I wasn't. The editors and the producers and the people who'd formatted the programme were, to be clear. I just happened to be the person at the front doing that. But I'm the one they got the picture of, so that's what they say. You know, people did start to loosen up a bit. We came out from behind the desk. It was during the 1997 election campaign, and there was this massive interest as to whether Tony Blair was going to cut through. And the first programme we did, I had him on and interviewed him. And I remember saying we were talking to Alastair Campbell, and he said, where does he sit? Yeah, yeah, yeah. And where does he sit? And it's like, well, we don't have chairs, so we'll perch. And he's like, sorry, he'll do what? And then we had this big discussion about will Tony Blair perch? And Tony Blair was happy to perch. Alastair wasn't so happy to have him perch and sort of stood l glaring at me through the.
Speaker 1
Singing that
Presenter
To view the
Presenter
Then
Speaker 1
Yeah.
Presenter
Alistair
Kirsty Young
to the whole interview by the side of the camera just out of shot.
Presenter
Did you get more flack because you were a a woman in those days? This is, you know, twenty-five years ago, I guess.
Kirsty Young
and they met on occasion.
Kirsty Young
With a nice little dash of snobbery and misogyny, but that's not unique to me. But I definitely did. I remember being at a launch.
Kirsty Young
The launch party actually for the whole channel and I was chatting away to an English female film producer who'd produced something for the channel. We had a nice conversation and then towards the the end of the conversation I said, It was so nice to talk to you and and she said J just one just one thing, the the the news and I said yeah She said, Are you going to do it in that voice?
Kirsty Young
Well, it's the only one I've got. I was absolutely astonished by that. You know, but that was clearly she meant a I think she meant accent. I think she was talking about my accent. And I remembered Michael Heseltine saying at Tory party conference before we'd gone on air and we went to the party conferences to sort of tell them about what we were doing and try to schmooze the politicians. And you know, Michael Heseltine turns to me and saying, I'm not having some little smart allegonous skirt to try to get the better of me.
Speaker 1
I think it's just talking.
Kirsty Young
I thought, right, well it's trouser suits from here on in there. You meet little things like that. They're not even bumps in the road, but they are indicative.
Presenter
Hmm.
Kirsty Young
of certain attitudes and certain perspectives.
Presenter
You were moved to ITV for a while to present the news over there. I did. And you were on air on september the eleventh, two thousand one. It was supposed to be just an ordinary day, but obviously it it wasn't. You ended up being on air for over five hours. I did.
Kirsty Young
That is
Kirsty Young
Two cents.
Kirsty Young
Stit.
Presenter
What were your memories of it?
Kirsty Young
I'd gone back to work after having one of my daughters, so I'd only been back at work for maybe about six weeks, I think. And my husband called me on the way into work and said he was in New York and he said there's been a plane crash and it wasn't long after John Kennedy Jr. had crashed his small plane on his way out to I think Martha's Vineyard and I am he said it went into the World Trade Towers obviously I knew what the buildings were and I thought maybe it was a little biplane or
Speaker 2
Mm-hmm.
Kirsty Young
I had no sense of it. And I said, God, that's extraordinary. He said, Yeah, it really is extraordinary. And I rang off and I went into the newsroom.
Kirsty Young
That day I was doing the evening news, and it was kind of vibrating. I'd never felt anything like it. It was extraordinary atmosphere.
Kirsty Young
And I went to the news editor, the input editor, and he said, we're going to do a flash on this. And I said, really? He said, yeah, it was a passenger plane. And I said, my husband's in New York. And I said, he's with a guy who saw it, because he'd gone out into the street, because he'd heard the noise. And it was a road sweeper who'd said to him, a plane just went in. And he was only like five or six blocks from the Twin Towers site.
Kirsty Young
By the time I went downstairs, I didn't even have time to go into makeup, and I thought I was just going to do a news flash. I literally had not even 20 seconds worth of script. But by the time I got into the studio and I was getting rigged up with a mic, they said it's happened again, a second one's gone in. So it was very clear there was some moving story, and from the back of the gallery, I heard in my earpiece, we're going open-ended, which basically means we're going on air, we don't know when we're coming off, and we came off.
Kirsty Young
Yeah, five just over it was over five hours later. It was a very, very intense experience, a terrifying time for the world, and not least for those extraordinary New Yorkers. Yeah, it was extraordinary.
Presenter
Did you surprise yourself that you stayed so calm in in that kind of moment? Because you you can't have been through anything comparable to that before.
Kirsty Young
But before
Presenter
But that
Kirsty Young
That was a unique event. I used to used to say, well, I've got a lot of, you know, rather than air miles on air miles, you know, I've got a lot of live, and I think that really comes into its own when you, when I, I mean, I was relatively.
Kirsty Young
Relatively young. I was in my early thirties, but old enough to be good at my job. That's the point. The point is you hold it together. Yes.
Presenter
Let's have some more music, Kirstie. It's your sixth choice today. What are we going to hear?
Kirsty Young
I was very lucky to uh to interview Christine McVeigh on Desert Island Discs back in twenty seventeen and I think she wrote the perfect love song, Christine McVie, and I think this is the perfect love song, and it's so exquisite.
Kirsty Young
And simple and yet profound. And this is from my husband, Nick.
Speaker 2
Cause I feel that when I'm with
Speaker 2
It's all right.
Speaker 2
I know it's right.
Speaker 2
And the songbirds are singing.
Speaker 2
We know the score of it.
Speaker 2
And I love you, I love you.
Speaker 2
Like never before.
Presenter
Christine McVie from Fleetwood Mac with Songbird.
Presenter
Kirstie, in two thousand six, you became the fourth presenter of Desert Island Discs, and you cast away nearly five hundred people over twelve years. Looking back, what do you take away from that experience?
Kirsty Young
Very, very early on in my career I was given great advice by somebody which is
Kirsty Young
You know?
Kirsty Young
Listen to the answer. It's all very well to think of your kind of smarty Knickers' questions. Listen to the answer. And so I got to listen. I got to listen to brilliant, high achieving, contradictory, infuriating, marvellous, funny, talented people.
Speaker 1
Uh
Speaker 2
Mm-hmm.
Kirsty Young
I really love the long-form nature of it. I love that there was room for people to breathe and talk, and there was room to give the f to ask the follow-up question. And you know, that that's the great thing.
Kirsty Young
There's so many great things about the job, but you know, all all of those things.
Presenter
Kirsty, you did have to step away from broadcasting. You took a four-year break in august twenty eighteen. You'd become ill with fibromyalgia and rheumatoid arthritis. You also had to step down from your role as President of UNICEF UK. Now you had always worked ever since leaving school at seventeen.
Presenter
It must have been a a huge change. What was it like being told that you had
Kirsty Young
I had been around the houses with my health for about a year, seeing different specialists trying to work out what was going on and it was a little bit of a complex picture and the pain was increasing and I was feeling really, really ropey, really ropey. And I eventually was fortunate enough to get in front of a brilliant man, a brilliant professor of rheumatology, who took time. and not every physician does, but really took time to understand what was going on and presented me with the facts. And along with giving me a diagnosis, which made complete sense to me, he said, you know, this is how I believe you can get better. And if you want to get better, you've got to take this seriously because it's going nowhere if you don't.
Speaker 1
Good.
Speaker 1
Mm-hmm.
Kirsty Young
And one of the things he said was, Is there a way of doing your work where you sort of reduce it or you do it? And I said, Well, you either do it or you don't. That's the kind of job I've I've got. You know, I can't do that part time and I can't do those things. They're not those sort of commitments. And he said, Well,
Speaker 2
Mm.
Kirsty Young
Part of getting better is we can introduce all sorts of drugs, we can monitor you, we can do this and we can do but you have to reduce the stress in your life and you have to take this seriously and you can't just keep shoveling painkillers down your neck which don't work anyway and feel shocking. If you want to get better, this is how to do it. So it was it was very real. It was said i with extreme kindness, much better than I've just preceded it. But it was just a moment of absolute reality and clarity. And I remember I pulled my car.
Kirsty Young
Over and just had a good old, well, to use a good Scottish short, good old greet about it. And I thought, right, well.
Speaker 1
And I thought
Kirsty Young
Them's the facts, and you're really going to have to think about this. And I'm very aware in talking about this. People sit opposite physicians and get diagnoses that are much more serious than the one I got. But it's a very painful thing, and I was in pain, and a chronic long-term pain condition is an absolute pain, literally, and metaphorically to deal with. It grinds you away, you lose your personality, you lose your sense of humour, you lose your sense of self. There's all sorts of things that go with it. It's awful.
Speaker 2
Yeah.
Presenter
Yeah.
Kirsty Young
Yeah. And so I had to take it seriously if I was going to get better. So I did.
Presenter
Can I pick up on that idea of a sense of self? Because that's one of the key things, isn't it? Particularly when you.
Kirsty Young
Because
Speaker 1
Nepplin.
Presenter
Change your daily routine, you change your job, you're changing your identity really to step away. How did you handle that?
Kirsty Young
Really?
Kirsty Young
I felt very shaky about it because as you say, I'd I'd worked and I had a job that I absolutely loved and intended to do until they sort of chucked me out the door really. And I
Kirsty Young
Yeah, I thought if I'm not that.
Kirsty Young
What am I now? What's what am I for? What's a Kirstie for? I did, I f I did feel that, and that was ridiculous, obviously, because given that
Speaker 1
Kill the
Kirsty Young
To use that well-worn phrase, the cracks are where the light gets in. All sorts of other things happened that were good things. But at that moment, you kind of do lose yourself.
Presenter
Yeah.
Kirsty Young
in when you're in chronic daily pain, you sort of lose yourself anyway. So it's a ki you know, there's a lot going on. There's a lot going on. And actually the the mo the the thing I wanted most was to try to figure out how to get on top of this thing.
Speaker 1
Yeah.
Presenter
You know that
Speaker 1
Yeah.
Speaker 1
Uh
Presenter
There's a lot going on.
Presenter
And happily you are so much better now. So much better. Able to come back to front the BBC's coverage of this year's Platinum Jubilee earlier this summer. And then of course, just a few months later, you presented coverage of Queen Elizabeth II's funeral from Windsor.
Kirsty Young
So much better.
Presenter
Now your closing tribute, Kirsty, as I'm sure you know, went viral, and many thought that you summed up her life magnificently, while
Presenter
Just about managing to to hold it together, could see and and hear the the emotion in in your voice. What do you think the twenty one year old Kirsty, starting out as that nervous announcer, would have made of that?
Kirsty Young
Oh, goodness knows.
Presenter
articulate in a moment in in history, in our collective history.
Kirsty Young
Particularly in a moment in
Kirsty Young
Well, it's communication, isn't it? In the end, that sort of
Kirsty Young
the job that I'm supposed to be able to do. That's it in a nutshell, is communicating with people. And I'm not I don't work in news anymore. I don't need to have the clinical eye of on this hand that and on that hand the other. It was really in those final moments, it was really
Kirsty Young
what just happened? What have we all collectively and I absolutely appreciate that people may not be interested in the royals and may have no feelings on the Queen, but for the people who were watching and for the people who'd bothered to watch and the people who had watched those you know, that period, that remarkable eleven days of mourning.
Kirsty Young
What was it that we were thinking? And in the end, the day that I worked was just the funeral day.
Kirsty Young
And so I think it was helpful for me that I'd been one of those people also watching.
Speaker 2
Mm.
Kirsty Young
As I was writing it,
Kirsty Young
And because I'd had the four days of doing the platinum coverage, you know, I'd read a lot and I'd been thinking a lot about the Queen because that was my first thing back at work this year. And so I was just really trying as honestly as possible without any, what would I say, without any sort of cynicism or attempting to be beyond, I thought we are all in this moment, and I am and you are and we've all been in it. And what's it been about? Why has this moment happened the way it's happened? That's what I was trying to sum up. I haven't watched that either actually because I've yeah. You should, it's very good. I'm definitely not going to do that, but thank you for being kind as I can.
Presenter
And under pressure, the kind of pressure that you must have been under on a day like that.
Kirsty Young
I did nearly have a bit of a moment. It was it was emotional. I mean, I felt emotional. It was uh and we were sitting right at the heart of it in Windsor and the pipes, that didn't help, the mast pipes coming down in front.
Presenter
Was it
Kirsty Young
We were absolutely in this kind of surround sound and visual situation, and that's the point of the job, isn't it? The point is to try to have some clarity at the centre of something. I think that's the point, is to try to see.
Speaker 1
I think
Kirsty Young
What is this? And if you can get hold of something that sometimes even feels a bit intangible, and of course, the queen.
Kirsty Young
Meant very different things to different people, but it was actually the experience of what we'd gone through.
Presenter
I think it's the collective nature of that moment and the historic nature of that moment and that we were all in it together.
Kirsty Young
Nature of that
Kirsty Young
Together. And also to humanise it, you know. And I thought, well, how do you find a way of talking about the Paddington moment?
Kirsty Young
Using the words Paddington Bear, because they sound a little bit flippant in the middle of the so there was a way of kind of working it that that made it appropriate to the situation, I hope, and I'm I'm glad that some people felt it was.
Presenter
Absolutely, it was. Kirstie, we've got to make some time for the music. Disc number seven. What are we going to hear next?
Kirsty Young
Disc ma
Presenter
Yeah.
Kirsty Young
I am not not particularly a devotee of organised religion, but organised choral singing moves me to my very core, and I absolutely love the sound of the unaccompanied human voice.
Kirsty Young
On my island, I will need the company. So, one of the reasons that I've chosen this particular track is the company of voices that I feel would almost sort of surround me like a comfort blanket. I also am, I'm not proud of this, I'm a Christmas nut, and I'm not even ironic about it. I mean, I literally just love it. Start thinking about Christmas when I put away my swimming cosie at the end of August. I'm like, Christmas is coming. So, I also love that time of year, and so this is a beautiful, well, I'm to me anyway, a very, very beautiful piece of choral music that just encapsulates the beauty of the human voice, what it's capable of, and also just that beautiful festive time of year that is my favourite. So, this is O Magnum Mysterium.
Speaker 2
So come in.
Speaker 2
His side of her own.
Speaker 2
Let the Rabbi Satan.
Presenter
O Magna Mysterium by Thomas Louis de Victoria and The Voices of Ascension Choir directed by Dennis Keane.
Presenter
So, Kirsty Young, let me ask you a bit about Christmas, since you're a Christmas nut. How do you spend the big day? Is there a fixed routine?
Kirsty Young
Yes, there very much is. There's almost a time sheet of there's an absolute schedule, a time schedule.
Presenter
Okay.
Kirsty Young
There isn't really, but notionally in our heads there is. It's got to be at home. We're not allowed to be anywhere else but at home, as decreed by our four kids. So it's at home.
Speaker 1
We're not
Kirsty Young
Is it a shameful thing? I think it might be. This year I have actually bought Christmas pajamas for everyone.
Presenter
Everyone is matching.
Kirsty Young
Apparently, that's a thing now. Yes, it's a thing. It is a thing. We've never done it for you. You're not on social media, Christian. Is that why? Yeah.
Presenter
Yes.
Presenter
And you not on
Presenter
It's a thing that people do. They post the selfies. I mean, I haven't done it, but I see.
Kirsty Young
Uh
Kirsty Young
Okay, quite wrong.
Presenter
Can't lie, I too have the pajamas.
Kirsty Young
There. Yes. Right, okay. So this is a new thing, this Christmas. So it starts with as many people as we can fit in the house. We'll be there always. A couple of days before, I own one of our kids who is a first rate baker. We bake a Christmas Bunt Village.
Kirsty Young
You heard me right. So if you do five or six of them at different things, then you put them together and you put the icing sugar on top, you've got Christmas Village. That's very satisfying.
Speaker 1
That's
Kirsty Young
We obviously do all the food thing completely over the top. You know, my husband is never happier than when he's catering for four times the amount of people that he needs to be catering for, and he's really, he is the king of the Sunday roast. I'm on.
Kirsty Young
Stuffing, bread sauce, sprouts, and sausages. Okay. And he's on everything else.
Presenter
Okay.
Presenter
Okay, so you're kind of accoutrement.
Kirsty Young
I am. I am. That's exactly what I'm doing. And he's doing the hard stuff.
Kirsty Young
And um well, we did watch the Queen's speech before we ate, and this year we'll watch the King's speech, which will be remarkable and interesting.
Presenter
Kirst, do you know what happens next? We're preparing to cast you away. Now you've heard so many different versions of islands described to you. Yes. I wonder what island you imagine for yourself in this moment?
Kirsty Young
Yeah.
Kirsty Young
Uh
Kirsty Young
I if I was suitably attired, I'd like a tiny, beautiful Scottish island, actually. I used to go walking with my dearest group of girlfriends, Scottish girlfriends, and I had to give it up for a few years and that made me quite miserable. But I'm back walking again, and uh we went this year to uh Kerraraild, a tiny little exquisite in fact I shouldn't have said it now, because other people, too many people, go walking there, but it's very, very beautiful.
Kirsty Young
uh little island which is um near open off the coast there. I wouldn't mind being stuck on Kerra. Let me choose that one, but I'd need to have a nice big puffer and some proper walking boots on.
Presenter
I wonder about talking about the the building, the the practicalities of surviving on your desert island. Would you be able to start a fire, build a shelter? You said your dad was very handy.
Kirsty Young
Yeah, I can't take him, can I?
Presenter
The Clean
Kirsty Young
No, no, so uh no, I mean I'm not obviously useless at all.
Presenter
All of that. He didn't pass on his skills when you were looking at it.
Kirsty Young
No, not really. I can do a fire as long as I've got fire lighters.
Kirsty Young
It would be a tragic weeping mess by hour four, I imagine.
Presenter
And what about the solitude? How would you handle that? Not too bad, I think.
Kirsty Young
Because I've got a vibrant inner dialogue, sometimes too vibrant. I don't mind my own company. I mean, it's easy to say that, isn't it?
Kirsty Young
How long would I last? I'd probably go kind of crackers after three days, but I'm not bad with my own company. I quite like it.
Presenter
And before you go, you know you're allowed one more disc. So I think we've better hear it. This is number eight. Kirsty, what's it going to be?
Kirsty Young
This is for our four fabulous children. It's a great privilege, isn't it? Parenthood. It's a great privilege.
Kirsty Young
In the same way that children help you think about things in different ways and examine yourself in ways and maybe question some of your attitudes as they grow up, they also introduce you to stuff that is brilliant and you would never have found it. And I would definitely never have listened to Kendrick Lamar unless my children had said, why do you not listen to Kendrick Lamar? You'd love it. You don't want a Pulitzer for nothing, do you? I mean the guy's got chops and I thought on the island I could learn the words to this. At least two of my children know all the words to this and that kind of impresses me. He's sort of their Joni Mitchell in the same way that I can sing every word of her songs. They seem to know his and it seems a lot more difficult to learn than Joni Mitchell. So maybe I could occupy some of my time on the island managing to learn this incredibly impressive and rather wonderful piece of music.
Speaker 1
One of these lives, I'ma make these right with the wrongs I done. That's when I unite with the father-son till then I fight. Rain on me, put the blame on me. Got guilt, got hurt, got shame on me. Got six magazines that's aimed at me. Done every magazine was fame to me. It's a game to me with a bedroom at. Sleep, I ain't never had a fairs with that. What's fair when the hearts and the words don't reach? What's fair when the money don't take things back? It's rare when somebody take your dreams back. I care too much, wanna share too much. In my head too much, I shut down too. I ain't there too much. I'm a complex soul. They layer me up, then broke me down. The morality's dust. I lacking trust. This time I'm
Presenter
Kendrick Lamar and Count Me Out. So, Kirsty Young, you know the deal. It's time for me to send you away to the island. I'll give you the Bible. True. The complete works of Shakespeare. You can also take one other book. What will it be?
Speaker 1
Yeah.
Kirsty Young
Bible
Kirsty Young
There you can also
Kirsty Young
Well, I was thinking a lot about what would I really, really want and what would I really, really miss. And I think, given that I've got the complete works of Shakespeare and the Bible, and I would read the Bible, I've never read the Bible, so I'm definitely going to do that. And what I would miss, I think, is the friendship of girlfriends, especially. And so I'm going to take with me the collected works of Nora Efron. It's called The Most of Nora Efron. And it's pretty substantial, it's over 500 pages. I haven't read all of her journalism.
Speaker 2
Uh
Kirsty Young
I recently reread for about the third or fourth time Heartburn and I had tears running down my face. Now I think that is really, really smart to be able to do that from the written word. So that's what I take because it is the voices of all the wonderful, smart, funny women I have been lucky enough to know and do know, sort of encapsulated into the works of Nora Efron. So that's what I'm going to take.
Presenter
Fabulous. You can have a luxury item too. What would you like?
Kirsty Young
I don't know how tough you are going to be on the table. I'm not going to be tough on you, Kirsty, it's you. Okay. So some flimsy idiot let Dustin Hoffman take the bar at the writs.
Presenter
No no.
Kirsty Young
Who was that? Oh, God only knows. Anyway, she did that. And so I sort of think, well, if Dustin Hoffman can take the bar at the rit I don't want the bar at the ritz. I I thought, right, I I'm gonna take m my bathroom from home and'cause I'd love the feeling of fresh water, but I'm not gonna take that.
Presenter
Okay.
Kirsty Young
I recently went to see Sam Mendez's brilliant new movie and it is set in an old cinema. I would like to take.
Kirsty Young
A cinema which has all of the films I've ever watched.
Presenter
Oh.
Kirsty Young
Can I take that?
Presenter
Uh
Kirsty Young
Can I I probably can't see that?
Presenter
I think you can take that, yes. I don't see why not.
Kirsty Young
I don't see why not. It only needs a single seat. I don't even need a popcorn machine.
Presenter
I can't not give you a popcorn machine, Kirsty. It's you, it's Kirsty.
Kirsty Young
See it's you, it's Kirsty. So that's what I would like. I would like an old cinema with all the movies I've ever watched available for me to view. And that way I'll have company and I'll have memories and I'll have stories and I'll have escapism.
Presenter
And we'll make sure the chair is incredibly comfy. Thank you for that. It is yours. And finally, if you could only save one of the tracks.
Kirsty Young
Thank you for that.
Kirsty Young
Yeah.
Presenter
Uh Which would it be?
Kirsty Young
Uh
Kirsty Young
Of course, this is impossibly difficult, and I really resent you for even asking me. But it's going to I think it's going to be the Bach, the cello suite, because everything is in there. To me, it is it's
Kirsty Young
It's what it is to be human in music there, and because I'm a words person, I've got.
Kirsty Young
I've forgotten all the Russian and French I ever learned, but I've got the lyrics to every song I ever enjoyed in my head, so actually I think it would be uh the Bach.
Presenter
Kirsty Jung, thank you very much for sharing your Desert Island discs with us. Yeah. True.
Kirsty Young
Such a pleasure. Thank you so much.
Presenter
Hello, it was lovely to chat to Kirsty and I hope she's very happy on her island watching her favourite films in her cinema.
Presenter
There are more than 2,000 programmes in our archive which you can listen to, including the programmes of former presenters of Desert Island Discs, Roy Plumley, Michael Parkinson and Sue Lawley. And you can also find the Desert Island Discs of the musicians who Kirstie chose to take to her own island, cellist Stephen Isilis and Fleetwood Mac member Christine McVie. You can find their programmes if you search through BBC Sounds or on our own Desert Island Discs website. The studio manager for today's programme was Jackie Marjoram, the assistant producer was Christine Pavlovsky and the producer was Sarah Taylor.
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I'd gone back to work after having one of my daughters, so I'd only been back at work for maybe about six weeks, I think. And my husband called me on the way into work and said he was in New York and he said there's been a plane crash … By the time I got into the studio and I was getting rigged up with a mic, they said it's happened again, a second one's gone in. So it was very clear there was some moving story, and from the back of the gallery, I heard in my earpiece, we're going open-ended, which basically means we're going on air, we don't know when we're coming off, and we came off … five just over it was over five hours later. It was a very, very intense experience, a terrifying time for the world, and not least for those extraordinary New Yorkers.
Presenter asks
Looking back on your twelve years presenting Desert Island Discs, what do you take away from that experience?
Very, very early on in my career I was given great advice by somebody which is: listen to the answer. It's all very well to think of your kind of smarty Knickers' questions. Listen to the answer. And so I got to listen. I got to listen to brilliant, high achieving, contradictory, infuriating, marvellous, funny, talented people. I really love the long-form nature of it. I love that there was room for people to breathe and talk, and there was room to give the f to ask the follow-up question.
Presenter asks
What was it like being told you had fibromyalgia and rheumatoid arthritis and that you needed to step away from work?
I had been around the houses with my health for about a year, seeing different specialists trying to work out what was going on and it was a little bit of a complex picture and the pain was increasing and I was feeling really, really ropey. … he said, you know, this is how I believe you can get better. And if you want to get better, you've got to take this seriously because it's going nowhere if you don't. … Part of getting better is we can introduce all sorts of drugs, we can monitor you, we can do this and we can do but you have to reduce the stress in your life and you have to take this seriously and you can't just keep shoveling painkillers down your neck which don't work anyway and feel shocking. If you want to get better, this is how to do it. … I remember I pulled my car over and just had a good old, well, to use a good Scottish short, good old greet about it. And I thought, right, well. Them's the facts, and you're really going to have to think about this.
“a dog doesn't go back and inspect its own mess”
“I felt like a fraud”
“I thought if I'm not that, what am I now? What's what am I for? What's a Kirstie for?”
“the cracks are where the light gets in”