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Desert Island Discs
Presented by Sue Lawley
Country musician known for her voice, she evolved from hippie chick to country diva and developed Gram Parsons' country rock.
Eight records
And it's about loss and longing, but I think it's also about celeb the celebration of isn't it better to have felt something even if it brings you pain?
when they s sing together, it is a sound. one of the most righteous, beautiful sounds that has ever been created. And yet there's an incredible simplicity to their records.
I just love this track. It it it makes me happy.
Talk to Me of MendocinoFavourite
from the first time I heard their voices and their first record, they moved me in a way that. I just never heard anything quite as lovely and dark and light at the same time.
Neil Young has always been uh an artist that I just I can just close my eyes and pick almost any of his records when I want to listen to something.
I just love the the uh imagery that this this conjures up.
this is a extraordinary song and and I think the production on it is is really brilliant. And very soul-stirring.
The Bulgarian State Television Female Vocal Choir
The sound of these women's voices, I don't know what they're saying, but it keeps me down to earth and brings me close to heaven.
The keepsakes
The luxury
In conversation
Presenter asks
Is that what it is for, country music? Is it a kind of licence to wallow in emotion, Emmylou?
It's a good thing to wallow in the emotions, to visit those emotions. I mean, what else is there if we don't feel? Good music, um a good song, uh good words. I think brings you in touch with things that you were feeling. It connects you. with yourself and and with everyone else who is experiencing those things.
Presenter asks
But there's not very often any joy in it, I suppose, is what one feels about it. It is always the sorrows, the worries, the longing, the loss, isn't it?
Well, yes, but you're not going to get away from those issues. And I think it's better to just face up to it. And sing about it because it is a kind of form of prayer in a way. It is a celebration, even if you are singing about dark things, at least you have the ability to sing.
The recording
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Speaker 1
Hello, I'm Kirsty Young, and this is a podcast from the Desert Island Discs Archive. For rights reasons, we've had to shorten the music.
Speaker 1
The programme was originally broadcast in two thousand and three, and the presenter was Sue Lawley.
Presenter
My castaway this week is a musician. Over the past thirty years she's matured from hippie chick through cowboy booted country diva to mature Southern Belle, and throughout it all, her semi acoustic guitar strapped around her, her voice has captured the infinite sadness that all great country singers evoke.
Presenter
She was born in Birmingham, Alabama, dropped out of drama school, got married, had a child, and, very grown up at twenty four, teamed up with the singer Graham Parsons. Two years and two successful albums later, Parsons was dead. But she became the custodian of his legacy, developing his brand of country rock into her own unique contribution.
Presenter
Many awards and successful collaborations later, with Johnny Cash, Dolly Parton and Bob Dylan, to name only three, she says, The songs speak of timeless issues. There's nothing really clever about them. It's just life laid out on a plate for you. She is Emmelou Harris. It it has to touch people. Is that what it is for, country music? Is it a kind of licence to wallow in emotion, Emmelou?
Emmylou Harris
It's a good thing to wallow in the emotions, to visit those emotions.
Emmylou Harris
I mean, what else is there if we don't feel?
Emmylou Harris
Good music, um a good song, uh good words.
Emmylou Harris
I think brings you in touch with things that you were feeling.
Emmylou Harris
It connects you.
Emmylou Harris
with yourself and and with everyone else who is
Emmylou Harris
experiencing those things.
Presenter
There's a kind of universality about it.
Emmylou Harris
Especially in country music, you deal with very simple stories and very simple, direct approach to the emotions.
Presenter
I suppose that's how it began, really, isn't it? People sitting on the back porch and the different songs singing to each other about their drama.
Emmylou Harris
Yeah, well I think singing to each other. You know the the folk songs from the I think country probably comes from the traditions of the English, Irish, Scottish folk songs where the people came and and settled in the United States and um in the hills, you know, and a lot of that that music uh came from being kind of isolated. And uh then it it met up with the black culture, the blues.
Emmylou Harris
All those different combinations come to came to make a a a pretty unique form of music, I think.
Presenter
But there's not very often any joy in it, I suppose, is what one feels about it. It is always the sorrows, the worries, the longing, the loss, isn't it?
Emmylou Harris
Uh
Presenter
Death
Emmylou Harris
Well, yes, but you're not going to get away from those issues.
Emmylou Harris
And I think it's better to just face up to it.
Emmylou Harris
And sing about it because it is a kind of form of prayer in a way. It is a celebration, even if you are singing about dark things, at least you have the ability to sing. And myself as a because I am a singer, but I am a music fan, music nourishes me and
Emmylou Harris
and gives me strength.
Presenter
Yeah.
Emmylou Harris
Yeah.
Presenter
Also.
Emmylou Harris
Yeah.
Presenter
But if, by definition, if it if it's about suffering in life, then the older you get, the better you get at seeing about it, because the more you've suffered, I presume.
Emmylou Harris
Well, if your voice holds up.
Emmylou Harris
Uh, you have more to sing about. But, you know, the whole premise of the show is, you know, what what eight albums, not what eight books or eight movies or eight paintings. So obviously music is
Emmylou Harris
Right up there with food and water, I think, for people. I think it touches them in a place that is very primal.
Emmylou Harris
Let's hear your first record then. What's it to be? Well, it's an album called Dreaming My Dreams by Wayland Jennings. And it's about loss and longing, but I think it's also about celeb the celebration of isn't it better to have felt something even if it brings you pain?
Emmylou Harris
Isn't it the fact that we've actually connected with someone or many people that isn't that what makes us alive and makes us who we are?
Speaker 3
To those that I
Speaker 3
This daughter
Speaker 3
Today I'll get old.
Speaker 3
Um
Speaker 3
Leve to see it all.
Speaker 3
But I'll always please
Speaker 3
Dreaming my
Presenter
Dreaming Mind
Speaker 3
Yeah.
Presenter
Sweet Uh
Presenter
Whelon Jennings Dreaming My Dreams. That's put us in deathly mode, has it yet?
Presenter
It's a wonderful sound though.
Emmylou Harris
Oh yeah, what a voice, wonderful voice. No one, no one ever sounded like Wayland, nobody even comes close.
Presenter
You didn't start out as a country singer though, did you? No, you sang folk. I mean, that was your first love.
Emmylou Harris
No, you sang
Emmylou Harris
Yeah. Yeah. I s I discovered music really in my teens. I was about sixteen.
Emmylou Harris
And there was a resurgence of folk music that happened in the United States. There was this song, you know, A Blowing in the Wind, and I thought, Who is this guy, Bob Dylan? and
Speaker 1
The method
Emmylou Harris
And of course I discovered him and discovered uh Joan Baez and for a long time I just wanted to be Joan Baez. I got a guitar for my sixteenth Christmas, I think, and um
Emmylou Harris
That my grandfather bought in a pawn shop for thirty dollars in Birmingham, Alabama. Oh, yes. I had nobody nobody in my family was musical and I didn't really have any
Speaker 1
Bye.
Presenter
We're making MLM.
Emmylou Harris
Friends who are into music or making music. I had a f a book called Uh Introduction to Folk Music Part Volumes One and Two.
Emmylou Harris
And I would listen to the records and just as long as it was three chords and maybe a minor, I could kind of figure it out.
Speaker 3
Hmm.
Emmylou Harris
Yeah.
Presenter
So that was that was the fashion. That was why you went to. But there was a deeper reason, wasn't there, for not uh liking country. There was something.
Emmylou Harris
Oh well
Presenter
Yeah.
Emmylou Harris
Somehow it was a politically incorrect. It was like anti-integration, it was anti-all the things that kind of folk music.
Emmylou Harris
represented, which was kind of odd because really when you think about the South and the and the unions and the poverty and all that stuff, there if you go back to like Woody Guthrie and stuff, it it's all about
Emmylou Harris
But somehow
Presenter
But somehow country music was connected, wasn't it, with that very conservative deep south? Yeah, it was racial prejudice really, as well as the
Emmylou Harris
Conservative deep south. That was associated with it. And plus I just didn't get it. It sounded hokey to me. When Joan Byers was singing these chillingly beautiful crystalline songs, you know, about
Emmylou Harris
I don't know, murder and it's a youthful
Presenter
What country music was kind of Hicksville, did you yeah.
Emmylou Harris
Yeah, and and it didn't interest me at all. And obviously there was that
Emmylou Harris
stigma, because we were right in the throes of a huge change in the United States, you know, in racial relations.
Presenter
But you were born, as we said, in Birmingham, Alabama. You must have seen that kind of racial prejudice of the world. Well, it's interesting.
Emmylou Harris
Yeah.
Emmylou Harris
Yeah
Emmylou Harris
Well, it's interesting. I I left Birmingham when I was six. My father was in the Marine Corps and we were transferred out and even though we still lived in the south in North Carolina
Emmylou Harris
And we lived in off base housing. It was o off base housing for people from all over. So it was a cultureless kind of existence. So there was integration, it really? Yeah, there was and there wasn't. I mean, I'm sure there was still a lot of prejudice, but basically, at least on the surface, there was integration.
Emmylou Harris
And it was only when I would go back and visit my relatives in the in the Deep South and I would see the water fountains that would say col you know, colored and the w the restrooms and the restaurants. And I would think to myself, That's very odd. Tell me about your second record. I chose the staple singers, and when they s sing together, it is a sound.
Emmylou Harris
one of the most righteous, beautiful sounds that has ever been created. And yet there's an incredible simplicity to their records. So this is a very popular gospel song, but their arrangement I think is pretty extraordinary. It's called Uncloudy Day.
Speaker 3
Win on.
Speaker 1
Win.
Speaker 3
God in day. Well
Speaker 3
Well, yes, so yes, they tell me.
Presenter
The staple singers, an uncloudy day. Um we mentioned, Emma Lou Harris, that um hardship informs the work of folk and indeed of cut country music. You had in fact uh quite an eventful childhood. Your father was a prisoner of war at one point, wasn't he?
Emmylou Harris
Yes, my father was in the Korean conflict, as they call it, and uh he left when I was five, but he was shot down and there was a
Emmylou Harris
A period of time when we did not know.
Emmylou Harris
Whether he was dead or alive, he was, as they call, missing in action. One of my clearest memories is standing next to my mother when she got the phone call.
Emmylou Harris
And it's in the days, you know, when they had the one telephone and it was in a hallway with a little telephone table.
Emmylou Harris
And I don't know why I was standing next to her when she got that uh call.
Emmylou Harris
But I could tell something was wrong and I said, You know, what is it? and she said,
Emmylou Harris
Uh your father isn't missing in action.
Emmylou Harris
And of course I
Emmylou Harris
I didn't know what that meant, but I knew that I might never see him again.
Emmylou Harris
And so it was um it was imprinted on me like a brand.
Presenter
Hm. How long was he gone anyway?
Emmylou Harris
I I think it was a total of sixteen months. I'm a bit hazy on the details.
Emmylou Harris
But because he was a senior officer in the camp, they had put him in in the l the box.
Emmylou Harris
for to torture him, to get him to to talk and give information.
Emmylou Harris
And it was a a small box where you couldn't stand up, and he was in total isolation.
Emmylou Harris
And uh for a a long time. I think he went down to about a hundred and twenty pounds. And uh he was a tall man. But he apparently had a little square of cloth about the size of a quarter of a handkerchief. And I guess he must have h had a needle and a thread. And he did needlework.
Emmylou Harris
on this piece of cloth, and he told me that it really kept him.
Emmylou Harris
you know, kept him from you know, helped him a lot.
Emmylou Harris
In that complete isolation. And after mine, you're going to be out there. There was no, he didn't know whether he was going to be killed. And I think also not knowing what what your breaking point is. So you think your desert island's gonna be a bit like that, do you? Oh.
Presenter
Yeah.
Emmylou Harris
Of course.
Presenter
Thanks.
Emmylou Harris
So
Presenter
Uh
Presenter
I do have the impression that that you kind of kept yourself to yourself, rather, that even though you were quite a beauty, I really are quite a beauty.
Emmylou Harris
Died.
Emmylou Harris
Well, I
Emmylou Harris
Thank you. We're on radio, so I won't deny.
Presenter
We're in radios.
Presenter
But th there you were, you know, quite a looker, could have, you know, had all kinds of guidelines.
Emmylou Harris
I never could navigate those waters. I never could.
Emmylou Harris
Understand the social strata of high school. I had some good friends.
Emmylou Harris
Audling of one of them was like the most popular girl in school.
Emmylou Harris
She was a beauty queen and she was very sought after and she lived down the street from me and we were very close. And so I was the w girl that guys would call to find out how they could get in good with Carol. And I would say, Forget it, you've already blown it.
Emmylou Harris
So you need to
Presenter
I think so. Uh
Emmylou Harris
Needy.
Presenter
You sat home playing your guitar or listening to your radio. But in the middle of all of this, you wrote to Pete Seeger. I don't know if you can. Yeah, I wrote to Pete Seeger. See, I.
Emmylou Harris
Yeah, I wrote a pet sigma.
Emmylou Harris
I also have a lot of money.
Presenter
I want to do it.
Emmylou Harris
I mean, how did you know that's what you wanted to do? Well, the more I got into music, the more it seemed to.
Emmylou Harris
It seemed to resonate for me, but I thought, how can I? I have no experience. I've never had any hardship.
Emmylou Harris
I've never had anybody make me, you know, get out of a seat and move to the back of the bus, you know. I've so I thought, Well, I don't have any credibility. I don't understand any of that.
Presenter
So was it a long letter you wrote?
Emmylou Harris
Oh, it was long, front and back, handwritten.
Emmylou Harris
Just so just pouring my heart out to him.
Presenter
And did he reply?
Emmylou Harris
He did reply. Yes, he did. God bless him. I met him years later. He remembered the letter.
Emmylou Harris
Thanks.
Presenter
That's pretty young.
Emmylou Harris
Uh
Presenter
Yeah. Big.
Emmylou Harris
And uh he was basically said
Presenter
And uh he was basically
Emmylou Harris
that life was gonna come to me whether I wanted it to or not. Just gave me a few little things, I think, just to keep me busy.
Emmylou Harris
We better do something with this girl before she implodes.
Emmylou Harris
Record number three. All right. I picked the band by the band and uh I just love this track. It it it makes me happy. It's called Up on Cripple Creek.
Speaker 3
I fke up all of my winnings and I gave my little Bessie hay.
Speaker 3
And she tore it up and threw it in my face, but just for a lag.
Speaker 3
There's one thing in the whole wide world I sure would like to see.
Speaker 3
That's when I get in love with mine. Dips a no nut in my tea.
Speaker 3
I'm on crypt.
Presenter
That's the band and up on Cripple Creek. So, Emilou Harris, you went to drama school, but you dropped out and you headed as the kind of folk singing wannabe that you were to where else but to Greenwich Village.
Presenter
You were about twenty by then and you got a break'cause you went to see a record company, didn't you? And and you talked their kind of audition.
Presenter
What did they
Emmylou Harris
So, uh they gave me some uh records of uh one of their artists, uh, a a very young, pretty uh singer who was had some popularity at the time. But I couldn't follow that formula and once again I was s
Emmylou Harris
blissfully ignorant and really felt that I could follow my own path.
Emmylou Harris
Yeah.
Presenter
But at that point it just seemed to be slipping away, didn't it? And you you mean you were still singing, but you you you got married, you
Emmylou Harris
Well, it it did. At that point, as Pete Seeger said, life came.
Presenter
Well, it it did at that
Emmylou Harris
tracked me down and I found myself pretty soon a single mother.
Emmylou Harris
So, I think it felt a little bit more.
Presenter
It must have felt a bit like the end of the world. It did. It did. It was like my last.
Emmylou Harris
It did. It did. It was like, my life is over. I'm 23, and my life is over. I've had my shot.
Presenter
Over, I'm twenty-three.
Emmylou Harris
And now I have to hunker down, raise my child and give up singing because obviously I can't make a living at it.
Emmylou Harris
But oddly enough, Washington DC was a very good area area for
Emmylou Harris
people to do their own music and plus I had
Emmylou Harris
these wonderful two people with in my parents that were twenty five miles away that were
Emmylou Harris
were there as kind of surrogate parents to my daughter.
Emmylou Harris
My big break really came.
Emmylou Harris
with meeting Graham Parsons.
Emmylou Harris
But I would have never hooked up with Graham Parsons if it hadn't been.
Emmylou Harris
For my daughter.
Emmylou Harris
Because I was working in a club in DC
Emmylou Harris
and some people that were in a group called the Flying Burrito Brothers.
Emmylou Harris
came in and heard me.
Emmylou Harris
and they went off to do a show in the next town about fifty miles away.
Emmylou Harris
at which Graham Parsons, who had been an original member of that band, showed up just to to hang out and visit.
Emmylou Harris
He told them I'm gonna do a solo record and I'm looking for a girl to sing.
Emmylou Harris
duets with him. They said, Well, we just heard this girl in DC, but she's fifty miles back up the river. Yeah, but we don't we don't know how to get in touch with her.
Presenter
Do miles back up the river.
Emmylou Harris
My
Emmylou Harris
Babysitter was a big music fan and she went to all the big rock shows and she always got backstage. She overheard the conversation.
Emmylou Harris
This is a true story.
Emmylou Harris
And she went up to them.
Emmylou Harris
She says, I know how to get in touch with her. I have her phone number. And the next day I got a call from Graham Parsons and the rest is history.
Presenter
This is history. I want to hear some more of the history, but let's pause for record number four. What's that?
Emmylou Harris
Record number four is by two women who
Emmylou Harris
From the first time I heard their voices and their first record, they moved me in a way that.
Emmylou Harris
I just never heard anything quite as lovely and dark and light at the same time. It is absolutely
Emmylou Harris
so stunning in its beauty of melody and lyric.
Emmylou Harris
that I just wanted to share it with your listeners.
Speaker 3
Never had the blues from whence I came But in my heart stayed a car
Speaker 3
Talk to me of mendic my eyes, I hear the sea.
Speaker 3
Dieway.
Presenter
Uh
Speaker 3
Must I fall?
Presenter
That's Kate and Anna McGarrigal and talk to me of Mendocino and that's gonna kill you on your desert island.
Emmylou Harris
Yes, it is. I'm still recovering.
Emmylou Harris
Every time I hear it it sort of melts me down to nothing.
Presenter
So Graham Parsons, Graham Parsons, came into your life. I mean, recognised today as the the progenitor of of of country rock, he'd sung with the birds and the flying burrito brothers and so on. You said he gave me voice. I mean
Presenter
How can you characterize his influence in your career? It's everything, isn't it?
Emmylou Harris
Well, it is. I mean, I had a pretty voice. I could sing songs by a lot of different women singers. But I think there was just something missing. Uh uh the only word I can think of is maybe a focus.
Emmylou Harris
Somehow singing along with Graham seasoned my voice.
Presenter
Boys and honed it.
Emmylou Harris
Hmm.
Presenter
But he was trying to create something different, wasn't he? He was trying to create country rock without a kind of fusion, without hurting either one.
Emmylou Harris
Is a kind of fusion
Emmylou Harris
He didn't like that term, although I don't know what else you would know. He didn't like that term. It implied something that w that was that was a fusion that was lesser down.
Presenter
That it would reduce one or the other. And he wanted both to be as strong.
Emmylou Harris
Being. And I think it had to do with his lyrics as much as anything. You have to read between the lines, and you can also kind of put your own.
Emmylou Harris
meaning into it, which is different from traditional country music where it basically says, You broke my heart and I'm gonna go sit at this bar until I and completely everyone can y we can relate that to it also.
Presenter
But on the other
Presenter
But it brought you to country music, if we can call that then as shorthand. Because obviously it's a different kind of country music.
Emmylou Harris
Oh yes, it's a different kind of country. But no, he also brought me to the real stuff. The the hundred proof Merle Haggard, the Leuven Brothers, the great harmonies of the Leuven Brothers. All of a sudden one day I was listening to George Jones record and then all of a sudden I heard
Emmylou Harris
What the man was doing with his voice, the simplicity of it, the sound in his voice.
Presenter
Why do you think it did that for you? I mean, again, we go back to your roots. I wonder if it wasn't touching something in you that instinctively you reacted to.
Emmylou Harris
We go back to the
Emmylou Harris
Yeah.
Emmylou Harris
Possibly. It could be just just a uh I was just an incredibly late bloomer.
Emmylou Harris
But the point is that it really did happen. I wasn't just mimicking. All of a sudden it happened for me, and it was as real as one of those spiritual awakenings as people when they feel like they've seen
Emmylou Harris
you know, God has appeared to them. I mean, it was that
Emmylou Harris
It was that dramatic for me. All of a sudden I heard with different ears.
Presenter
Make code number five.
Emmylou Harris
All right. Well, Neil Young has always been uh an artist that I just I can just close my eyes and pick almost any of his records when I want to listen to something.
Emmylou Harris
And this is who knows why, but it's called The Emperor of Wyoming.
Presenter
Neil Young and Emperor of Wyoming.
Presenter
Graham Parsons, Graham Parsons was from the from the South, wasn't he? From a very well-heeled family, and he'd he developed a taste for the high life. I mean, he'd he'd done the drugs big drugs.
Emmylou Harris
Well, I I think that he unfortunately is one of these people who had um ten had had money every year. His father killed himself when um Graham was ten, I believe. I might be a little off on my facts. I mean, Graham never talked about this. I really learned about it m a lot about Graham after his death and then his his mother
Emmylou Harris
uh, sort of drank herself to death when he was in his teens.
Emmylou Harris
I I think that it was a difficult thing for him and he was extraordinarily sane uh considering what he had gone through.
Presenter
Juice
Presenter
Didn't you by the time you were singing with him that that he was clean, that he'd got to be a little bit more.
Emmylou Harris
Well, he was. I mean, uh he I know that he had stopped doing drugs, but he was drinking. I was very naive about all that stuff, and uh he seemed to be
Emmylou Harris
doing really well. He'd even stopped kind of uh drinking.
Emmylou Harris
Because a a lot of it was to do we just sang all the time.
Emmylou Harris
And there was work and and I think work is the great balm.
Speaker 3
Hmm.
Emmylou Harris
And you made two very successful albums, did you? You were really yeah, well they were successful on a on a I think an artistic level.
Speaker 3
Yeah.
Emmylou Harris
And I think he could have gone on to do a lot more, but it was just not to be.
Speaker 3
And then I think he could
Presenter
Uh
Emmylou Harris
I really only knew Graham for it was actually a short period of time, probably like a year.
Presenter
It's just a terrible, terrible thing, because there it is beginning to happen, and then the next minute he's dead. It was an overdose, wasn't it? It was an overdose, yeah. Yeah. I mean.
Emmylou Harris
Yeah.
Presenter
Yeah.
Presenter
Yeah.
Emmylou Harris
You must uh you must have been devastated for that. It was. It was like uh having your arm amputated.
Emmylou Harris
It was so sudden. And I really
Emmylou Harris
Perhaps this was naïve, but I really thought that Graham was out of the woods. I didn't know enough about
Emmylou Harris
drug and alcohol abuse to realize what uh a dangerous place he was in. His body just gave out.
Presenter
Yeah.
Emmylou Harris
So having
Presenter
You thought suddenly you were set fair for this great singing career that you really wanted to do. Exactly. Then it's all disappeared.
Emmylou Harris
Oh yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1
Yeah.
Presenter
Fans have asked ever since, of course, whether you loved him. I mean, I'm sure you did love him in a way, but were you in love with him? I mean, would something have happened?
Emmylou Harris
No way.
Emmylou Harris
Oh, well something has happened. We were not lovers. I mean, I've said this countless times, of course, people still prefer the other story.
Emmylou Harris
I think that if he had lived we probably would have had a relationship.
Emmylou Harris
Uh, but it just the timing was all wrong.
Emmylou Harris
And so so there was that too, this situation where I think I was at that point I was just at the point where I was realizing just how much he meant to me and then he was gone.
Presenter
And he was
Emmylou Harris
It's even
Presenter
It's an amazing thought. Actually, he's been dead longer than he lived, hasn't he?
Emmylou Harris
I know.
Emmylou Harris
Believe me, I you think about that sometimes when you get to a certain age and you think
Emmylou Harris
Yeah, that's very strange to have lived uh as long as you have when you know
Emmylou Harris
Yeah.
Presenter
So much of the music that you recorded after he died, the music you've even recorded in recent years, has been influenced by him, hasn't it? Well
Emmylou Harris
Well, of course it
Emmylou Harris
Everything is influenced when you have a very powerful influence.
Emmylou Harris
It's obviously going to color everything you do. I think that he'll always be a part of me. Just like anything that's happened to you or someone who's meant a lot to you, you always carry that with you. How could you ever discard that? It becomes a part of who you are. Next piece of music, no mistake.
Emmylou Harris
Mm.
Emmylou Harris
Bruce Springsteen album. And I just love the the uh imagery that this this conjures up. So this is called Mansion on the Hill by Bruce Springsteen.
Speaker 3
At night my daddy take me and we ran
Speaker 3
Through the streets of a town
Speaker 3
So silent and still
Speaker 3
Park on a back rule
Speaker 3
Highway side.
Speaker 3
Be good man.
Speaker 3
Imagine all
Presenter
Mansion on the Hill from Bruce Springsteen, one of the many collaborators you've performed with over the past three decades, Emmelou Harris. But what you've done in that time is you've brought together those two sections of the audience that Graham Parsons wanted to bring together, haven't you? The the rock and the country, and they're kind of fused. You know, you can't tell the one from the other now. I mean, is that your great achievement, do you think?
Emmylou Harris
You can't tell the one
Emmylou Harris
I I think I've been very fortunate that I've got, uh, fans who
Emmylou Harris
Don't think about categories. It seems like there are more and more people whose record collections are, what do you call it, C D collections.
Emmylou Harris
you will find that they listen to a great deal of different kinds of
Presenter
Yeah.
Emmylou Harris
Uh
Speaker 3
Is it
Emmylou Harris
Yeah.
Emmylou Harris
Yeah.
Presenter
But but your local radio in Nashville and so on, I gather that the sort of stuff they play, their definition of country, has shifted, hasn't it? They moved away from you in the nineties and started playing other kind of stuff.
Presenter
Oh yeah
Emmylou Harris
Yeah, I'm not played on country radio at all unless it's an oldie. They they consider they they don't know whether figure I either died or I moved away.
Emmylou Harris
Where I got abducted. I mean, I I tried to play the uh the good Girl Scout there for a while and I thought it w for a while I thought it was my fault.
Emmylou Harris
That I wasn't making good records and that I maybe had to work a little harder. And we consciously tried to make some songs that were good country songs.
Emmylou Harris
that we thought would have a chance on the radio. And didn't we do the trick to the rules?
Presenter
Uh no, in fact
Emmylou Harris
And so I went
Emmylou Harris
Right. Okay. Well, you know, I don't need this. And and I actually the record company was very good. They said, Look,
Emmylou Harris
We've we don't know what to do. We've tried everything, and it's not you. So, you know what?
Emmylou Harris
You do whatever you want, work with whoever you want to work with, and we'll we'll we'll do the best we can.
Emmylou Harris
And I said, Well, I actually, if it were possible, I would love to do a record with Daniel Lynwaf.
Emmylou Harris
Lo and behold, as it turned out,
Emmylou Harris
Once again the higher pyro than myself was at work.
Emmylou Harris
And decided that that's what should happen. So this was the wrecking ball. This was wrecking ball.
Presenter
And this was the wrecking book.
Presenter
Yeah.
Emmylou Harris
Yeah.
Presenter
And so that
Emmylou Harris
And so that brought me into a whole other world of sounds and rhythms.
Presenter
This is m much written by yourself, a completely different kind of sound from anything you'd ever recall.
Emmylou Harris
Oh yeah, completely different but and yet
Presenter
Oh yeah, complete
Emmylou Harris
Songs that were not alien to me, but done in a different landscape.
Emmylou Harris
and brought out different things in my voice.
Emmylou Harris
just took me to a different place. But I wo I didn't have to become a different singer. I just discovered a different gear. And did that do the trick? Did the audience come back for you? Oh, my audience never really left me. Radio left me. But
Presenter
Hmm.
Emmylou Harris
I had an audience that always zigged and zagged with me.
Emmylou Harris
I'm living proof that you can be
Emmylou Harris
an artist without radio, that ultimately it's the people that can't.
Emmylou Harris
Number seven.
Presenter
Ah, here's the man.
Emmylou Harris
Yeah, well, actually, this is I didn't mean for this to be such a wonderful segue, but it is.
Emmylou Harris
Because this is a cut from this album, uh this is a extraordinary song and and I think the production on it is is really brilliant.
Emmylou Harris
And very soul-stirring.
Emmylou Harris
And so this is The Maker by Daniel Enmore.
Emmylou Harris
Mm-hmm.
Speaker 3
Cool.
Speaker 3
Like the night
Speaker 3
I stand with arms wide open
Speaker 3
I've run a twisted line
Speaker 3
I'm a stranger.
Presenter
Uh
Speaker 3
Him we eyes
Presenter
Of the Maker.
Presenter
Daniel Lanois and the Maker. So, Emilou, you have two daughters. You've had three husbands, but now you live with now you live with your mother. She's your best friend in all of this, obviously.
Emmylou Harris
She is. She's just an extraordinary person. And my my father died very suddenly ten years ago and, um
Emmylou Harris
Gradually she came, you know, to live live with me and uh she has a way of nurturing and being around and taking care of things without interfering.
Emmylou Harris
I think it's a quality that not a lot of people have.
Presenter
And you work with a lot of men, but you've had enough of marrying them, you said.
Emmylou Harris
Um
Emmylou Harris
Well, for now, I think.
Presenter
I think
Presenter
But if we said, Okay, look, you've you've had your chances, I mean, you've had uh your heartaches, but as you said, you've also had a lot of good fortune, and now it's time to to leave it all and cast you away on a desert island, only your memories for company. I mean h ha has your country music
Emmylou Harris
Okay.
Presenter
Taught you to be philosophical about life. I mean, could you cope through your music?
Presenter
Yeah.
Emmylou Harris
Whatever the situation, I think you have to make the best of it.
Emmylou Harris
And uh if that's the situation, then uh I hope that I would be able to deal with it. That's the family stoicism.
Presenter
It's his family story.
Emmylou Harris
I have a family tradition to keep up. I mean, my
Presenter
But it wouldn't stop you swimming for it, I'm
Emmylou Harris
Sure.
Emmylou Harris
Oh, swimming for mm, well, I'm not much of a swimmer.
Emmylou Harris
Unfortunately, I think I'd have to try to build a raft.
Emmylou Harris
Or, who knows, the heavens have
Emmylou Harris
looked down on me with with such good fortune over my life.
Emmylou Harris
that it would be
Emmylou Harris
a bit mean of me and small of me to to just start pitching a fit then just because I didn't like where I found myself. Do you know what I mean?
Emmylou Harris
Didn't someone say, Character is what you do when no one's watching?
Emmylou Harris
Last piece of music.
Emmylou Harris
All right, well this is a record that um
Emmylou Harris
My my dear friend and uh Linda Ronstadt turned me on to
Emmylou Harris
uh back in I guess it was around nineteen seventy three.
Emmylou Harris
It's a women's chorus of folk music. It's called the Music of Bulgaria.
Emmylou Harris
And it's the original nineteen fifty-five recording.
Emmylou Harris
The sound of these women's voices, I don't know what they're saying, but it keeps me down to earth and brings me close to heaven. So um this is the musical Bulgaria.
Speaker 3
I'm a sample.
Speaker 3
Oro vetre ne doro tudoro se gali nai de da ve matu doro.
Presenter
I did a baby, his mama.
Presenter
That's Teodora is dozing, the music of Bulgaria, the original 1955 recording, true folk music to end on, isn't it?
Emmylou Harris
Boy, that is true folk music.
Presenter
Now, if you could only take one of those pieces of music we've played.
Emmylou Harris
Oh god.
Presenter
Uh
Emmylou Harris
Oh yeah. Well, now this is hard because I've fallen in love with all of them all over again.
Emmylou Harris
I think I'm gonna pick Kate Nana McGarrigo. Mm. And I'm probably just going on the fact that because I know them and they're my friends, I would feel like somehow they were there with me.
Emmylou Harris
And we could be smoking a cigarette together.
Presenter
Yeah.
Emmylou Harris
Yeah. And what about your book? We give you the Bible, and we give you complete works of Shakespeare. One more. Now, I've thought about this, and if I could combine the two things about the luxury item and the
Presenter
Yeah.
Emmylou Harris
And the book. Go and try me. Okay, this is what I'd like to do. For my luxury item, I would like to have an entire library.
Emmylou Harris
Because I think if I could read
Emmylou Harris
and continue reading.
Emmylou Harris
I could probably stay sane. And for the book.
Emmylou Harris
Uh I what?
Presenter
Like a blank book so that I could write. I d I you can't have a whole library. The nation will be up in arms if you have a
Emmylou Harris
Well, what about the whole entire Victorian Albert Museum?
Presenter
This is hideously against the rules, you know that.
Emmylou Harris
Uh Well, I it was cruel of me to have to pick only eight records, so so this is where I'm gonna stand firm. I want books.
Presenter
Emma Lou Harris, thanks very much indeed for letting me see your desert time.
Emmylou Harris
Well, thank you so much. I I really did enjoy it. Thank you.
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Presenter asks
Your father was a prisoner of war at one point, wasn't he?
Yes, my father was in the Korean conflict, as they call it, and uh he left when I was five, but he was shot down and there was a period of time when we did not know. Whether he was dead or alive, he was, as they call, missing in action. One of my clearest memories is standing next to my mother when she got the phone call. … I didn't know what that meant, but I knew that I might never see him again. And so it was um it was imprinted on me like a brand.
Presenter asks
How can you characterize [Gram Parsons's] influence in your career?
Well, it is. I mean, I had a pretty voice. I could sing songs by a lot of different women singers. But I think there was just something missing. Uh uh the only word I can think of is maybe a focus. Somehow singing along with Graham seasoned my voice. Boys and honed it.
Presenter asks
Fans have asked ever since, of course, whether you loved [Gram Parsons]. I mean, I'm sure you did love him in a way, but were you in love with him?
We were not lovers. I mean, I've said this countless times, of course, people still prefer the other story. I think that if he had lived we probably would have had a relationship. Uh, but it just the timing was all wrong. And so so there was that too, this situation where I think I was at that point I was just at the point where I was realizing just how much he meant to me and then he was gone.
“music is Right up there with food and water, I think, for people. I think it touches them in a place that is very primal.”
“I'm living proof that you can be an artist without radio, that ultimately it's the people that can't.”
“the heavens have looked down on me with with such good fortune over my life. that it would be a bit mean of me and small of me to to just start pitching a fit then just because I didn't like where I found myself.”