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Desert Island Discs
Presented by Sue Lawley
Actor who won an Oscar as the village idiot in Ryan's Daughter and starred in Great Expectations, In Which We Serve, and Ice Cold in Alex.
Eight records
I'd really like to play uh a number from Mr Cinders called Spin a Little Happiness which lovely star called Binnie Hale sang.
One of my very great heroes was Fred Astair. And when I did a musical later on, I was told by Johnny Mercer who wrote the lyrics, that he was not really accepted as a great singer, but he was a wonderful singer, Fred.
The theme music from The Way to the Stars, which turned out to be a very, very good film directed by a very great friend of mine called Puffin Asquith, Anthony Asquith. And I remember it well for the music and for a lovely poem which John Pudney wrote.
All the Things You AreFavourite
Chick Henderson with Harry Roy and His Band
This talking about Mary is a terrific number for both of us. And when she hears this, I'm sure she'll reach for the Klendex box.
My sister Annette, who was a wonderful exhibition dancer, then was smashed up badly in the war, entertaining the troops, who was in a bad crash, and then she wrote numbers. And she wrote two numbers, two of two were hits, especially Adolph, which the boys loved.
Piano Concerto No. 2 in C minor
André Watts with the New York Philharmonic, conducted by Seiji Ozawa
I've chosen the C minor Rachmaninoff because it was a great favourite of Mary's and mine, and I have it's very grand, emotional, sweeping music and uh there are two or three themes in it which are absolute knockouts
This may sound rather conceited, but the last one is a a a r a number called Ever the Best of Friends. Um I sang it in uh a musical Great Expectations and I played Joe Garjery.
The keepsakes
The book
Anthony Trollope
I love his writing and I read it time and time again, [Barchester Towers] and The Warden. I think maybe I take that.
The luxury
Not recorded.
In conversation
Presenter asks
Does performing still excite you as much as ever it did?
Yes, I I am a lucky man, very lucky indeed, touchwood D V, because I am able to go on doing what I really love doing, and that's walking onto the stage.
Presenter asks
What is it that is exciting for you? Is it the desire to please, or do you want to be admired?
Uh is to do with… having the luck to know at the age of five or six that I had to be an actor. I just knew I had to be one of the actors.
Presenter asks
Tell me about the three Musketeers [David Niven, Laurence Olivier, and yourself]. Who were they?
The recording
Timestamps play the recording from that turn
Speaker 1
Hello, I'm Kirsty Young, and this is a podcast from the Desert Island Discs archive. For rights reasons, we've had to shorten the music.
Speaker 1
The programme was originally broadcast in the year two thousand, and the presenter was Sue Lawley.
Presenter
My castaway this week is an actor. The fact that he's always been convinced that he didn't look a day over thirty probably explains why he's still going strong at the age of ninety two. Charm, durability, and above all an effortless talent have made him one of the great British stars of the century. It was fifty five years ago that he first came to fame in David Lean's film Great Expectations. After that, in a series of roles that seemed to embody Englishness, his stiff upper lip was admired by millions. In Which We Serve, Ice Cold in Alex, Oh, What a Lovely War, and Young Winston were just a few of them. But just in case we thought he was typecast, he carried off an Oscar as the village idiot in Ryan's Daughter. He's still doing one man shows because, as he says, none of my life has been work. It's my hobby. He is Sir John Mills. What a lucky man you are, Sir John. Does performing still excite you as much as ever it did?
Sir John Mills
Yes, I I am a lucky man, very lucky indeed, touchwood D V, because I am able to go on doing what I really love doing, and that's walking onto the stage.
Presenter
But what is it that is exciting for you? Is it the desire to please, or do you want to be admired? Or
Sir John Mills
Uh is to do with
Sir John Mills
Having the luck to know at the age of five or six that I had to be an actor. I just knew I had to be one of the actors.
Presenter
How did you know? Why did you know?
Sir John Mills
I don't know.
Sir John Mills
My sister, of course, Annie, was a great influence in my life, and she was much older, so she became a sort of heroine, and she started off being a wonderful ballet dancer. And then she took up exhibition dancing when it was very popular. And there were three couples. There were the Astairs, Sealandvilles, and the Castles. And of course, I did get up from the schoolhouse once to see her dance.
Presenter
She was C. Ellen Mills. And she, of course I should remind everybody, was Annette Mills, whom my generation knew as uh on the BBC with Muffin the Mule of
Sir John Mills
Pins
Sir John Mills
Yes.
Presenter
But you were very specific just now about the age of six, you say. Did you actually perform at the age of six?
Sir John Mills
Yes, I'm afraid I did.
Presenter
What did you do?
Sir John Mills
I went to the schoo village school hall with my sister Annie and she taught me the sailor's hornpipe and my mother made me the costume and I loved every minute of it and I wasn't bad in it at all and at the end of it I got an enormous laugh and I thought that's rather strange and and I looked out and my flap had dropped down. You know, sailors have flaps instead of buttons.
Sir John Mills
And I think I forgot to put my shorts on.
Presenter
Oh no, and you've never forgotten it.
Presenter
But of course, you know, you can never have known that you were going to go on to act with some of the great names of the twentieth century, and indeed to be friends with some of the great names of British cinema in the twentieth century. Tell me about the three Musketeers. Who were they?
Sir John Mills
Well, there was Niven, David Niven, and Larry Olivia, and me. And I suppose we got that tag because we were all in the services at the same time, and we met on leaves, and it was all rather quite hilarious. I mean, I had a small cottage in Denver Village called Misma Cottage at the time I opened the door one day. There was a soldier standing under gas mask in full equipment, and it was Niven underneath it all. It was those sort of things that happened, you know, voice through the gas mask. And Larry was in the Freed Air Arm, and I was in the Army. So it was it was rather fun.
Presenter
And why have you always said, because you have, that Larry Olivier was the funniest man I ever met? Because he was.
Sir John Mills
Because he was. I mean, he was.
Sir John Mills
I think funnier than the comics, and he was witty and amusing and.
Sir John Mills
He was uh physically funny. I mean, because when he when Larry played the comedy parts, there was nobody like him, was there? He was everybody remembers his great tragic acting, but his comedy acting was abs superb, you know, Arms and the Man and things. A very very, very funny man.
Presenter
Let's begin to find out about your desert island discs. Tell me about the first one.
Sir John Mills
Ah yes. Well, that's important because uh no
Sir John Mills
It started me off in in in the in the theatre.
Presenter
No card.
Sir John Mills
And uh I got a job touring with a company which under the illustrious name of The Queens.
Sir John Mills
In the Far East, and I'd been out there about a year. And our advanced manager came along and said, You better get your skates on. Noah Coward's coming in front tonight. And I said, What? He said, Noah Coward is coming in front. I said, So is God. But he was. And he gave me seats for private lives.
Sir John Mills
And I went to see it.
Speaker 4
There I find you, moonlight behind you, true to the dream I am dreaming.
Speaker 4
As I draw near you, you'll smile a little smile For a little while We shall stand hand in hand I'll leave you now
Presenter
Okay.
Speaker 4
Oh, love you forever.
Presenter
Noel Coward singing Some day I'll find you from Private Lives. So with Olivier as your best friend and Noel Coward as your mentor, you can't it's no wonder you didn't go far wrong, really.
Sir John Mills
Well I was very lucky wasn't I was Noah was an enormous help and he became a very very close friend of the family. He was Juliet's godfather and was always terrific and was he guided me the right way. I mean when I was in Cavalcade he I had a pot for fifteen pounds a week.
Presenter
But he actually wrote that for you, didn't he, Joe Marriott?
Sir John Mills
But he actually
Sir John Mills
Did you Joe Marriott? And uh after about a year I was offered the part in the film of Cavalcade for £150 a week and a contract for five years. And of course it was very, very tempting.
Speaker 1
Uh
Sir John Mills
And uh no we had supper one night. It went on for hours.
Sir John Mills
And at the end of it he persuaded me not to not to take the contract. And it was the best thing it ever done. He said, you know, I think you have potential, and I think you can become a very great good actor indeed. And I think you can play big things. And if you do that, you'll be a success. You'll be a sort of good
Presenter
I hope
Speaker 1
Uh
Sir John Mills
John Jimmy Cagney or somebody, but you won't be playing the classics and good things, and so learn your job first.
Presenter
So he thought you should learn it on the stage first.
Presenter
But of course, eventually he wrote Shorty Blake for you, didn't he? In the film In Which We We Serve. Great part.
Sir John Mills
In the film in which we s we serve.
Presenter
Great part. That was again a very English part, one of those parts I was referring to earlier, wasn't it?
Sir John Mills
And I'd been in the army and I'd come out and I was broke and Noah rang up and said, I've I've written a nice part for you, dear. It's shortly bleak in which we serve.
Presenter
But tell me about that character, because he w he of course he wasn't an officer. You played so m we all remember you as playing the officer.
Sir John Mills
But tell me
Sir John Mills
Yes, I paid an awful lot of lower decks too.
Presenter
Drive it.
Presenter
Here, he was very oily rag, wasn't he, Shorty?
Sir John Mills
Wasn't the shortest. At that time, we were making very good movies, and we had great directors like David Lean. That was his first film. And having been in the services, I knew what it was all about. And I felt at least I could try and put the boys up there as they were. I mean, if I played a submarine captain during the war, I used to dive in the submarines, and I did four or five dives. So when I did get to the periscope, at least I was real.
Presenter
You knew what you were doing.
Sir John Mills
I knew what I was up to, so that was a a blessing.
Presenter
Because you'd been in the army, but you'd have to.
Sir John Mills
I've been in the army, right?
Presenter
You were invalided out.
Sir John Mills
I assume we needed that, yes.
Presenter
That's really why you started making films, wasn't it?
Sir John Mills
Well, uh yeah, I had to.
Presenter
Yeah.
Sir John Mills
But
Presenter
But but also they were being made then in the very early field.
Sir John Mills
Yes, they were. I failed when I came out and Mary nursed me back to health and put me on a mildest diet called a hay diet and uh within two and a half months I was actually in front of the camera and they didn't think I had an earthly chance and so that's how I got started again and of course Noel did start me again with Shorty Blake.
Presenter
Tell me about your second record.
Sir John Mills
I'd really like to play uh a number from Mr Cinders called Spin a Little Happiness which lovely star called Binnie Hale sang.
Speaker 4
Although the North is crowned in the sky, when things go wrong, you mustn't
Speaker 1
On the darkest crowd or in the sky On Wednesday
Speaker 4
And a little happiness of you
Speaker 1
Peaceful heaven
Speaker 4
Don't fire, just try.
Speaker 4
What's the use of worrying or feeling blue? When things go wrong, keep on smiling.
Presenter
Worrying of me.
Presenter
Binnie Hale singing spread a little happiness from the musical mister Cinders. But you might, Sir John, as I understand it, have been a Norfolk seed merchant if your father had had his way.
Sir John Mills
A Norfolk seed merchant, yes, I suppose I could have been. I I um was living in Felix, though, and I got a job. I had to get a job in a large office of R and W Paul Limited. They were corn merchants and uh my family decided I should be a corn merchant. And I stuck that in the office for about two and a half years and hated every second. I was terribly bad at it. And finally saved up, I think it was about twelve pounds, to go to the wicked city and and kind of get myself launched and within
Presenter
With Annette's help.
Sir John Mills
Help I broke it off.
Presenter
But you ended up, I think, selling disinfectant instead of corn in the middle.
Sir John Mills
Well I had to get a job and so I got a job as a travelling assailant for the Sanitas Company, which is a splendid company. What was that lavatory paper? Well they make everything for the lavatory and of course their great number was the toilet paper and I I went out selling that and I I wasn't terribly good at it. My heart wasn't in it and I I must say I found the demonstrations rather embarrassing. I just wasn't very good so I got the sack.
Presenter
What was that lavender paper?
Presenter
But you used to take tap dancing lessons in the afternoon.
Sir John Mills
Yes, well that's what I did, you see, is I sold as much of the wretched stuff as I could in the morning and then in the afternoon I'd go to Zelia Ray's Dancing Academy, who's a friend of my sister and in in the West A and I'd learned to tap dance. And uh my sister said he hasn't got any money, so I agreed to give Zelia ten percent of my first salary.
Presenter
And what was your depth?
Sir John Mills
T teachers adept. I got I there I got a job in the chorus, I got four pounds. So I went along to Z D and said, Here, here's eight shillings for you and uh I paid uh uh ten percent to my agent, ten percent to see, so she wouldn't take it. Even though it would have been sixteen shillings off off four pounds.
Presenter
Even though
Presenter
Next record.
Sir John Mills
One of my very great heroes was Fred Astair. And when I did a musical later on, I was told by Johnny Mercer who wrote the lyrics, that he was not really accepted as a great singer, but he was a wonderful singer, Fred. And he was very popular with Co-Porter and people, because when they wrote tempo, Fred sang it. He didn't muck about with it too much, and he he has a charming voice and sang quite beautifully. And I'm so thrilled that later on in life we became quite close friends. So I'd love to hear Fred Astaire singing. I think I've chosen Night and Day, haven't I? Yes.
Speaker 4
Why is it so?
Speaker 4
That this longing for you
Speaker 4
Follows wherever I go.
Speaker 4
In the roaring traffics boom
Speaker 4
In the silence of my lonely room
Speaker 4
I'd think of you.
Presenter
Night and day
Presenter
Fred Estaire and co-porters Knight and Terrific.
Sir John Mills
Terrific singing.
Presenter
Wonderful, isn't it? I see what you mean. Absolutely on tempered.
Sir John Mills
Say
Presenter
We're talking about Noel Coward saying you should do stage. Of course, you did do a lot of stage before the war. You were the old Vic under Tyron Guthrie.
Sir John Mills
Well
Sir John Mills
Yeah.
Sir John Mills
But there was only stage really, you see, and uh that was my first love and all
Presenter
Yeah.
Presenter
But all those great names, whether Peggy Ashcroft, Ralph Richardson, Alec Guinness,
Sir John Mills
Alexander.
Presenter
So were your ambitions actually Shakespearean at that stage?
Sir John Mills
My ambition really was to try and be a properly good actor, and I wanted to act all sorts of various things, and I've only had one deep disappointment in my life, which was Hamlet.
Sir John Mills
Because I play I went to the Vic with a brilliant director called Ty Guthrie, Tyrone Guthrie, and I did Soups to Conquer and Puck in the Midst of Valentine with the Vic. And I'd arranged to go back in'forty and play Hamlet, Hotspur and one other. And uh of course Mr Hitler decided we'd run another war and I never went back and when I came out of the army, uh Beerharder, I had to earn a living and I was delighted that some films came along and so my life from that on time onwards went much towards movies and theatre.
Presenter
And of course, as I said in the introduction, Great Expectations was the one that gave you an international name, wasn't it?
Sir John Mills
Yeah, that's basically the
Presenter
That was what, about forty six, I think.
Sir John Mills
Yeah.
Presenter
Yes, yes. Um wonderful reputation it gave you. And we all remember that wonderful scene in which you rescue the convict Magwitch from from the the water, from the
Sir John Mills
The door.
Presenter
Again, you doing your own stunts, and that must have been a pretty tough one.
Sir John Mills
Well it was it was a tough one. Um it meant jumping in by the paddle wheel. But the the hero of course was Fidnikuri, who was eighty.
Sir John Mills
and flung himself in and then I had to dive uh after him, but uh uh he got an enormous round of applause. He was a wonderful old man and uh uh a brilliant actor. I thought his magwitz was fantastic.
Presenter
It was. But w what about talking about your own stunts, what about the famous quicksand scene in Ice Cold in Alex and you and Anthony Quayle sort of splattering about up to your noses?
Sir John Mills
Yeah.
Sir John Mills
Yes, that wasn't funny. Uh it it was quite grim actually. And uh Tony Quail had quite a bad time. But we knew we were safe'cause we had lots of chaps round us.
Presenter
Frightening though.
Sir John Mills
Was it ever
Sir John Mills
Yes, yes, yes, a couple. Early on I I used to do everything because I you know I thought it was the right thing to do and I had one occasion when i in a small picture I was driving an old bullnose Morris to the to the cliff and I had to jump out and let the car go over the cliff and they said there's quite a we put a railway sleeper about uh twenty-five yards before the cliff when that bumps over that's when you jump out. So it bumped over the railway sort of thing and as I jumped out I caught my sleeve on the door handle and it was dragging me along and it dragged me within two yards of the cliff, which happened to be Dover. So I wouldn't be here there talking to you if I hadn't torn my sleeve free.
Sir John Mills
I think I cut down my stance after that a little bit.
Presenter
Record number four.
Sir John Mills
The theme music from The Way to the Stars, which turned out to be a very, very good film directed by a very great friend of mine called Puffin Asquith, Anthony Asquith. And I remember it well for the music and for a lovely poem which John Pudney wrote. It was called For Johnny, and sometimes I do it. It's a nice poem. It says it goes, Do not despair for Johnny Head in Air.
Sir John Mills
He sleeps as sound As Johnny underground.
Sir John Mills
Fetch out no shroud for Johnny in the cloud
Sir John Mills
But keep your cheers for him.
Sir John Mills
in after years.
Sir John Mills
Better by far.
Sir John Mills
For Johnny, the bright star, to keep your head.
Sir John Mills
And see his children fed.
Sir John Mills
We were shooting the that poem that day and he said I'd like to shoot that in one and start back and come in close to the end of it when you may be able to find a bit of emotion from somewhere. So he did this and he sat on front of the camera on a little platform, a very, very hot day at Pinewood, and I started off and did for Johnny and finished. And nobody said cut.
Sir John Mills
I looked down and Puffin was fast asleep.
Presenter
The theme tune from the film The Way to the Stars played by the Two Cities Symphony Orchestra conducted by Charles Williams. That was a Terence Rattigan play, in fact, wasn't it? That is it was a a kind of tribute to Anglo-American relations, I think, in the war.
Speaker 4
Yes.
Speaker 4
Yeah.
Speaker 4
Yes.
Presenter
But enough of films for the moment, Sir John, because um by this time you you'd met and married and begun to have babies um with a very special lady, hadn't she, Mary Haley Bell. Where and how did you first meet?
Speaker 1
Uh
Sir John Mills
Yes.
Sir John Mills
Well
Sir John Mills
I keep on saying I'm lucky, but thank God I am lucky, Touchwood. And I was touring in the Far East, as you know, and I went to Tinsin and I was playing a poppura play Journey's Inn, Hamlet, Mr. Sinders, and So This Is Love, and there was a gentleman in Tin Sin who was quite remarkable, a marvellous man who I got to know later, called Colonel Haley Bell. And he was absolutely mad about the theatre, and he brought his little brood to see me in Journey's Inn.
Sir John Mills
And we were invited back to lunch.
Sir John Mills
at a large house and I asked if I could play tennis and he said, Yes, you can play with that little girl with the red hair.
Sir John Mills
Actually, about sixteen. Now I'd had several gin slings and I lost six knots, six knots. You know, um
Sir John Mills
I'm not a very clever man, but uh
Sir John Mills
Twelve years later I did a very clever thing. I married the colonel's daughter and since that time she's
Sir John Mills
Provided me with three productions still running with Juliet, JD, Hayley and Jonathan. And she's written lots of lovely books and including Whistled.
Presenter
Including Whistle Down the Wind, of course.
Sir John Mills
She came to Bristol and three plays for me, which I did in the West End. And uh she has been a remarkable lady and uh I'm very very lucky indeed.
Presenter
And it's always been a very romantic relationship, you've made sure of that.
Sir John Mills
Well, we decided that marriage was something to be worked at, and we both decided to make it so. And we have always been very romantic. And I at any public dinner, we were never sitting together, so I always sent down a note in the middle of dinner and said, Darling, did I remember to tell you that I loved you?
Sir John Mills
And we had a at lunch not long ago, and I I said to the waiter, Would you take this note down to that very pretty lady with the red hair? And I looked up and saw him handing it to Princess Diana.
Sir John Mills
But
Sir John Mills
He didn't quite get there, dropped a plate and stopped it.
Presenter
Because the question that comes to mind when you tell that kind of story, and yours has been such a long lasting marriage, is how did you manage it while at the same time cavorting with all those womanizers, you know, all the the Rex Harrison, Stuart Granger, and so on? You know.
Sir John Mills
Why? Um well, I don't know. Um
Sir John Mills
I don't know, it's a silly thing to say, but I
Sir John Mills
I really wasn't tempted. I mean, she was such a staggering lady, and madly attractive, that I'd have been crazy if I'd gone off the rails.
Presenter
Tell me about your next record.
Sir John Mills
This talking about Mary is a terrific number for both of us. And when she hears this, I'm sure she'll reach for the Klendex box. It's called All the Things You Are. And it was at the time that I was a sergeant in the army with a large red moustache, and Mary was in the theatre. And I don't think they weren't married at the time, and she decided to go to New York and do a play to prove that we were mad about each other. And so she took off, was chased by a submarine, spent the entire journey.
Sir John Mills
Life jacket, and the number that we both played, one on each side of the Atlantic, was all the things you are. So that's what I want, and uh it it means um a a a very, very great deal to us. After she'd been in New York uh in the play about six weeks, I had a a telegram and it said, Darling,
Sir John Mills
Glorious news, play complete flop coming home I love you, Mary.
Speaker 4
All the things you are mine.
Presenter
Chick Henderson with Harry Roy and his band playing All the Things You Are
Presenter
You've made so many memorable films, Sir John won many awards, but only one Oscar, and interestingly, that was for the non speaking role of Michael Day, the village idiot, in Ryan's Daughter, David Lean's great film. An incredibly powerful character, that, with not a word to say.
Sir John Mills
Yes, it was. It was a wonderfully written character by Robert Bird, and.
Sir John Mills
It was great fun to do. It was a strange experience. I was very lucky. I had a great friend called Bernard Miles, later Lord Miles, and he knew some doctors well and they treated pe people with brain damage on the left-hand side and he showed me a lot of film. And so Michael was at least real. I mean I wasn't just pulling faces and I think probably that's that's why it worked. It was a lot of work before the film started and when I started filming it was a piece of cake and I had no dialogue so I was drinking draft guinea in the pubs and they were all sweating their lungs.
Presenter
This was in the west coast of Ireland, of course. How do you agree that?
Sir John Mills
Yeah, but the strange thing about it was that I'm not a method actor. I don't like the method, but with Michael I couldn't just sit in front of the camera and do it. I had to go and sit on a rock for a good two or three minutes because uh he they think uh very slowly and then intuition comes in a flash and you see the eyes completely light up and become bright and normal and that wasn't uh an easy thing to do uh and that's the only way I could do that was to train my rather ridiculously quick way of thinking and talking slowly and I think that's probably why it worked.
Presenter
And David Lean understood.
Sir John Mills
And David Dean was of course magnificent and I had a great make-up artist who did a great makeup. It took 16 minutes in the chair in the morning. People won't believe it, but it's true. He made a cast of my own teeth and clipped them on. And they had a bulge one side. So it distorted your mouth.
Presenter
So it distorted your mouth.
Presenter
Did not
Sir John Mills
It was I always say the teeth were on the Oscar. I mean it was a piece of cake.
Presenter
And did you know you were going to get that, Oscar?
Sir John Mills
No, no, and and that's the funny thing about David. He had great foresight and he I was watching The Rushes with David one day, I was the only actor who did, and uh uh in the middle of the scene on remember on the beach with the crab, uh he suddenly said to me, Nob, I know he called me Nob, I don't know why he said, Nob, uh have you ever ever had an Oscar?
Sir John Mills
I said no.
Sir John Mills
Nine months later I got it.
Presenter
Tell me about your next record.
Sir John Mills
But my next number is very dear to me. My sister Annette, who was a wonderful exhibition dancer, then was smashed up badly in the war, entertaining the troops, who was in a bad crash, and then she wrote numbers. And she wrote two numbers, two of two were hits, especially Adolph, which the boys loved. And I sang when I was in the army, I said, This is called Adolph, You've Bitten Off Much More Than You Can Chew.
Speaker 4
And oh, you've been off much more than you can chew.
Speaker 4
Come on, hold your hand out.
Speaker 4
Well all fed up with you, good lily and off You toddle off And all your nances too Or you may get something to remind you Of the old red, white and blue
Presenter
Arthur Askey, singing Adolph, which was written by my castaway sister, Annette Mills. Apart from your one-man show, which you do still from time to time, Sir John, as I've said, you have another current success at the moment on video as Gus the Theatre Cat in the show Cats, of course, a part which required you to put on a few years, I think, didn't it?
Sir John Mills
Well that was lovely. Out of the blue Andrew Roy Weber also feel like to do it and uh I said I'd love it if it was another musical and so I did it and uh I was made up and uh took about two hours and they said go down on the stage and let the director have a look at you So I went down and he said that is terrific he said Monova Begab He said take him upstairs and age him up a bit.
Sir John Mills
Have too young.
Presenter
But I sense you rather you rather enjoy your great age, don't you? Isn't there a sort of sort of sense of liberation?
Sir John Mills
Well
Sir John Mills
I think that you have to make ninety two, Sue.
Sir John Mills
There's something extraordinary about being ninety. Uh
Sir John Mills
It touched but it has r really been quite wonderful and uh I found myself getting rather sentimental and able to say things that I couldn't say when I was sixty. And I don't g embarrass myself, and I hope I don't embarrass other people, but uh uh I had such a wonderful time. And when I did the one man show,
Sir John Mills
uh which I do from time to time. I come on and there's such
Sir John Mills
warmth and such.
Sir John Mills
affection and I can even say love coming across the footlights, that it's just a tonic. It has been just wonderful.
Presenter
Next piece of music.
Sir John Mills
I've chosen the C minor Rachmaninoff because it was a great favourite of Mary's and mine, and I have it's very grand, emotional, sweeping music and uh there are two or three themes in it which are absolute knockouts, so I thought I had to have a lot of serious music in. So here's a piece of Rachmaninoff's C minor.
Presenter
Andrei Watts playing part of Rachmaninoff's piano concerto number two in C minor with the New York Philharmonic conducted by Sejai Azawa. So time to cast you adrift towards this desert island, Sir John. Not not a happy prospect for you, huh?
Sir John Mills
There's not really. I can't think of it. I'm too fond of people.
Presenter
And you have so many memories to look back across.
Presenter
The Hamlet you never played, perhaps your greatest regret. But what do you feel as you look back across it? What was your finest hour in films?
Sir John Mills
It's awfully difficult.
Sir John Mills
I think perhaps
Sir John Mills
Two themes I'm not ashamed of. Uh one is William Ossop in Hobson's Earth, and probably the other is
Sir John Mills
Great Expectations. It's Lean's greatest film. There's there's an awful few that I don't mind at all. Some I wish I could do all over again. I mean, I'm I'm never very
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Sir John Mills
happy with what I do. Um I think one of the loveliest stories I've heard of a very dear friend of mine, Ralphie Richardson, Sir Ralph and he'd been on a long time and he was playing in home
Sir John Mills
There met Johnny Gilgard, and somebody said to Sir Rafiro, Tell me about acting. How do you how do you feel about it at the moment? You're so wonderful in this place. Well, dear fellow, etc. I must say I think I'm beginning to get the hang of it.
Sir John Mills
And he's so right. I mean, you know, it's difficult to be happy about what you do.
Presenter
Tell me about your last record.
Sir John Mills
This may sound rather conceited, but the last one is a a a r a number called Ever the Best of Friends. Um I sang it in uh a musical Great Expectations and I played Joe Garjery.
Sir John Mills
They wouldn't let me play Pip, I can't think why, I was only about eighty, but um uh I I I sing it in this Joe Garza, and it's a very sweet little number, and I sing it to young Pip, and the words mean a lot to me now, and um thought we would have that one.
Sir John Mills
Whatever the road our lives may take
Sir John Mills
Wherever the rainbow ends I'll give you my hand for old time's sake.
Sir John Mills
Ever the best of friends, the ups and the downs.
Sir John Mills
The ins and outs, Whatever the good Lord sends Whatever we have, we won't have doubts, Ever the best of friends.
Presenter
My Castaway Sir John Mills, singing Ever the Best of Friends, from The Musical of Great Expectations.
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If you could only have one record on this item.
Sir John Mills
I think I'd have all the things you are.
Sir John Mills
It would remind me very much of Mary.
Presenter
And what about your book? As you know, you get the Bible and you get the complete works of Shakespeare. You get a book.
Sir John Mills
I'd have Anthony Trollope. Um I love his writing and I read it time and time again, uh Barcelona and The Warden. I think maybe I take that.
Presenter
Sir John Mills, thank you very much indeed for letting us hear your desert island discs.
Sir John Mills
Thank you very much, Sue.
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Well, there was Niven, David Niven, and Larry Olivia, and me. And I suppose we got that tag because we were all in the services at the same time, and we met on leaves, and it was all rather quite hilarious.
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Why have you always said that Larry Olivier was the funniest man you ever met?
Because he was. I mean, he was… I think funnier than the comics, and he was witty and amusing and… He was uh physically funny. I mean, because when he when Larry played the comedy parts, there was nobody like him, was there?
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Where and how did you first meet [your wife, Mary Hayley Bell]?
I was touring in the Far East, as you know, and I went to Tinsin… and there was a gentleman in Tin Sin who was quite remarkable… called Colonel Haley Bell… and he brought his little brood to see me in Journey's Inn. And we were invited back to lunch… and I asked if I could play tennis and he said, Yes, you can play with that little girl with the red hair… Twelve years later I did a very clever thing. I married the colonel's daughter
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How did you manage [a long-lasting marriage] while at the same time cavorting with all those womanizers?
I really wasn't tempted. I mean, she was such a staggering lady, and madly attractive, that I'd have been crazy if I'd gone off the rails.
“I had the luck to know at the age of five or six that I had to be an actor. I just knew I had to be one of the actors.”
“We decided that marriage was something to be worked at, and we both decided to make it so. And we have always been very romantic.”
“There's something extraordinary about being ninety. Uh… it has r really been quite wonderful and uh I found myself getting rather sentimental and able to say things that I couldn't say when I was sixty.”