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Desert Island Discs
Presented by Sue Lawley
Actor known for roles in Mel Brooks films including The Producers and Blazing Saddles, and for directing and starring in his own films.
Eight records
Impromptu in E-flat major, D. 899 No. 2
I play this all the time because I can't be sad or depressed when I listen to this music. It just lifts my spirit.
I was in love at one time in my life, a long time ago, with a French girl in France, and because of the circumstances of my life, there was nothing I could do about it. But I became in love with things French from then on.
There is a fifth [thing] I found, and I found it in this song of something that great musicians do, jazz musicians and great actors do when they improvise. That the scene something has taken over and things are coming out of you that you don't even know are coming out... When I heard this I said, he's not only brilliant, but he's also an actor, Otis Redding.
I heard this song by Hurricane Smith called O Babe, What Would You Say? And it made me laugh so much, and I told it to my then wife, Gilda Radner, before she died, when she was studying dance, and she surprised me one day. She had worked on it for four weeks with a choreographer and I came home, she put on the record and she did her dance routine to this song.
Piano Trio No. 1 in B-flat major, D. 898
After Gilda had died. I heard this piece by Schubert and I had such turmoil going on in me at the time... And I heard this and it was so calm. So loving, so tranquil. made me feel peaceful for A few minutes of the day.
Don't ExplainFavourite
This is perhaps the The Saddest Song And most compassionate. Song that I've ever heard. It's like. A dagger made of tears that sticks in my heart.
Piano Concerto No. 1 in E minor, Op. 11
I paint and a piece that I love to play when I paint. is Chopin's concerto number one in E minor.
We went to see the Gershwin musical called Crazy for You. After this one particular number, I had a hard time staying in my seat, it gives me a goose and I want to jump up and do things.
The keepsakes
The book
The Notebooks of Captain Georges
Jean Renoir
It's so simple and romantic. And uh such a beautiful story.
The luxury
In conversation
Presenter asks
Why was doing the show [Something Wilder] for NBC hell?
Because of the interference artistically from the networks, the interest that they have is in selling soap or raisins or cream cheese. And if it's selling well, then you're a success. And if it isn't selling well, then you're not.
Presenter asks
Why did Mel Brooks choose you [for The Producers]?
I was miscast in a play called Mother Courage and Her Children by Bertolt Brecht on Broadway... and the leading lady was Anne Bancroft. Her boyfriend at the time was Mel Brookes, and one day he said to me, Would you like to come to Fire Island... and I'll read to you and Annie the first thirty pages of this screenplay I'm writing called Springtime for Hitler. And we did, and that changed my life.
The recording
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Speaker 1
Hello, I'm Kirsty Young, and this is a podcast from the Desert Island Discs Archive. For rights reasons we've had to shorten the music. The programme was originally broadcast in nineteen ninety seven, and the presenter was Sue Lawley.
Presenter
My castaway this week is an actor. A Jewish boy from Milwaukee. He was an awkward, self-conscious child prone to being bullied. The thing he enjoyed most was entertaining his sick mother, and this led to acting first on the stage and then in films. In the late 60s, he appeared in Mel Brooks' film The Producers, a wonderfully balmy story about a Broadway impresario who tries to produce a flop. It led to a string of highly successful appearances in films such as Everything You Wanted to Know About Sex But Were Afraid to Ask, and perhaps most famous of all, Blazing Saddles. He's also directed and starred in several of his own films. Now he's come back to two of his early loves, The Stage and England. Currently playing the lead in the West End production of Neil Simon's Laughter on the Twenty-third Floor, he is Gene Wilder. Jean, the play is about a television comedian and his troupe of gag writers, a situation which I think you've experienced in real life because you did a show not long ago for NBC, didn't you?
Gene Wilder
Yes, a few years ago. And uh
Gene Wilder
I did it because I I had this illusion or delusion.
Gene Wilder
That it would be something akin to what Sid Caesar and Mel Brooks and Neil Simon went through and.
Gene Wilder
And when I was asked to do
Gene Wilder
what eventually was called something wilder.
Gene Wilder
I thought, well, it'll be a lot of fun. And it wasn't, it was hell. Why?
Presenter
Yeah.
Gene Wilder
Because of the interference artistically from the networks, the interest that they have is in selling soap or raisins or cream cheese. And if it's selling well, then you're a success. And if it isn't selling well, then you're not.
Presenter
But what it comes down to is, I mean, there is an analogy here with Loft on the Twenty-third Floor, isn't there? Oh, yeah.
Gene Wilder
Oh yeah.
Presenter
That in fact you've got people who run television stations telling writers and comedians how to do comedy.
Gene Wilder
That's right. In nineteen fifty three, when our play uh starts, uh it had won every award on the air. But they wanted to go out to Indiana, Kentucky, Nebraska, Ohio, Wisconsin, make more and more money, sell more and more soap. So the studio watered down all the scripts. It broke Sid Caesar's heart. It crushed him. That the the control he had was slowly taken away from him until he couldn't do anything anymore.
Presenter
But the most amazing thing is the calibre of writers he had around him, which is what Neil Simon is writing about.
Gene Wilder
He had the best writers in America.
Gene Wilder
Mel Brooks was they dragged him along because Sid Caesar said, I want this guy, give him fifty bucks a week and he he s he insisted on having Mel there, who ended up head writer. Woody Allen was one of the writers later on. Yeah.
Presenter
Yeah.
Speaker 2
Hmm.
Speaker 2
Later on.
Speaker 1
Yeah.
Gene Wilder
Louise Callan was the only woman writer. They had great writers, and at first they had full freedom, and then the network, NBC, just kept interfering.
Presenter
Hmm.
Presenter
Potentially.
Presenter
The bosses thought they knew better. Um'twas ever thus. Um, I take it you prefer stage to television then?
Gene Wilder
It's not that I prefer it. I I won't do television. I can't stand it. I mean, I'm not talking about doing something on the BBC.
Gene Wilder
But network television, CBS, NBC, ABC, never again.
Presenter
Forget it. Here's a new one. On this programme you get to go to a desert island all by yourself with just eight records to play. Tell me about the first one.
Gene Wilder
It's Schubert's impromptu in E-flat major. And I I play this all the time because I can't be sad or depressed when I listen to this music. It just lifts my spirit.
Presenter
Yenayondo playing part of Schubert's impromptu in E-flat major.
Presenter
The world, I think, divides itself when you say the name Gene Wilder into those who immediately say blazing saddles and those who say the producers. Are you uh you don't like that. Are you any more proud of one than the other?
Gene Wilder
Well, Producers was my first with Mel Brooks.
Presenter
1967, isn't it?
Gene Wilder
Yeah, isn't it a great thrill for you?
Presenter
Why did he choose you?
Gene Wilder
Well
Gene Wilder
I was miscast in a play called Mother Courage and Her Children by Bertolt Brecht on Broadway, directed by Jerome Robbins.
Presenter
But
Gene Wilder
and the leading lady was Anne Bancroft. Her boyfriend at the time was Mel Brookes, and one day he said to me, Would you like to come to Fire Island, little island off of Long Island in New York?
Gene Wilder
One weekend, and I'll read to you and Annie the first thirty pages of this screenplay I'm writing called Springtime for Hitler.
Gene Wilder
And we did, and that changed my life.
Presenter
It it was his first film, wasn't it, too? His first film.
Gene Wilder
His first film, yes.
Presenter
We should just say, for anybody listening who doesn't know the plot, as I say, it is balmier. It is about people putting on this play called Springtime for Hitler, which is.
Gene Wilder
Yeah.
Presenter
A gloriously tasteless piece of Nazi propaganda, really. And they're trying to.
Gene Wilder
They're trying to they're hoping that it'll be a big bomb because they've oversubscribed. Everyone has invested like 250%. If it's a hit, they're going to have to pay off. But if it's a a failure and closes in one night, they can keep all the money.
Presenter
And you bloom the accountant have worked all this out. And it doesn't work, needless to say.
Gene Wilder
Yeah.
Gene Wilder
Well, it h ends up being a big hit.
Presenter
What was it like working with Brooks?
Gene Wilder
Well, it was it was heaven on a stick for me and working with Zero Mistel at the same time because Zero
Gene Wilder
For those of you who remember him from
Gene Wilder
Well, a funny thing happened on the way to the forum and um the front he did it but on stage he was enormous. And he protected me like a mother hen. He watched over me and
Presenter
Yeah.
Speaker 1
Uh
Gene Wilder
We spent all our lunch hours together. We had a wonderful time.
Presenter
And it was a marvellous beginning, as you say. And what's more, you got nominated for an Oscar. You'd have been thirty two years old. I I've I've read that you you willed the judges not to vote for you'cause you'd be terrified to go up on stage to receive it.
Gene Wilder
Oh God, I was sitting there and my Mel and I went to a a a tuxedo rental shop.
Gene Wilder
And he said, How much to rent a shirt?
Gene Wilder
And they said $18, $18, I'm not spending $18 to rent a shirt. I'll wear my own my button-down shirt and I'll take off the buttons. So we rented ties, I rented a tuxedo, and we went there, and all I could think of was, oh, please, God, don't have me win. But then Mel did something that I've never seen before. When he got up to accept for best original screenplay, he said,
Gene Wilder
And I want to thank Gene Wilder.
Gene Wilder
And Jean Wilder,
Gene Wilder
And Jean Wilder.
Gene Wilder
And they all applauded and I said, Okay, I got mine, so I don't need any more than that.
Presenter
And you cried.
Gene Wilder
Inside I was crying, yeah.
Presenter
Tell me about your second record.
Gene Wilder
Well
Gene Wilder
This is a little more difficult to explain.
Gene Wilder
It's by Jacques Brel, it's called La Chanson de Vues Amand.
Gene Wilder
I was in love at one time in my life, a long time ago, with a French girl in France, and because of the circumstances of my life, there was nothing I could do about it.
Gene Wilder
But I became in love with things French from then on. I mean, when I say in love, it's probably more aware.
Gene Wilder
of a French sensibility. I was aware of architecture and I was never aware of that before. In Manhattan straight lines, rectangles, and I became aware of curves. I became aware of wine. I'd never taken much interest in wine before. And I became aware of
Gene Wilder
of songs.
Speaker 2
Bien sur mous desorges, Ventent de mour, c'est la mour fall.
Speaker 2
Mill le foie tu porit tun bagange.
Speaker 2
Mill le foie ze prime non form
Speaker 2
And cha que marble se souvien, dans cétus chambo sans ver sau desi colla
Presenter
That was Jacques Brel and La Chanson de Vieux Amon.
Presenter
Tell me then, G. Marjorie, about this difficult childhood of yours. Milwaukee in the late thirties and forties, awkward, self-conscious, and fat. I cannot imagine the latter.
Gene Wilder
Well, let's say if it'll help you any not fat, but delightfully plump, chubby enough so that I could be made fun of hey, fatso, hey, fatty, if someone wanted to be cruel to me.
Presenter
But you've n not been fat ever since we've known you, since you've been in the public. I mean, you are incredibly not to say thin, perhaps.
Gene Wilder
I mean you are incredibly
Gene Wilder
I was ele I was nine, ten, eleven years old, but
Presenter
And he saw
Gene Wilder
If children want to be cruel they'll find a way.
Gene Wilder
Your size is the easiest one.
Presenter
But you were apparently b bullied or not liked. There are all sorts of phrases you've said about yourself. You were the most unpopular kid in the school. You weren't accepted by the others.
Gene Wilder
Well, part of that time was when I was at Military Academy, and I was the only Jewish boy in the school.
Gene Wilder
I got beaten up or insulted or whatever. But, um
Gene Wilder
I got my own back later on, just by
Gene Wilder
Them being able to say, Didn't I know that guy? Look at Oh, isn't he wonderful? The guy who I used to pound silly until he was black and blue. Oh, yeah, I was friends with him.
Presenter
And your mother was lively and energetic and all those things one.
Presenter
Hopes a mother will be until she had a heart attack. And that not only changed her life, but it seems to have changed yours too.
Gene Wilder
We changed mine. I you know, it's scary to to think, I don't know what I would be doing now.
Gene Wilder
Uh but
Gene Wilder
She had a heart attack, the doctor said.
Gene Wilder
You must never get angry with her, or you you could kill her.
Gene Wilder
Which was a horrible thing to say to a child. And the other thing he said was try to make her laugh. And I did.
Gene Wilder
For the first time in my life, I consciously tried to make someone laugh. And I was successful. And you know, when you're successful with your mom.
Gene Wilder
You get a confidence that nothing else can give you.
Presenter
But whenever you got angry, you got frightened.
Gene Wilder
Oh, I I had a difficult time and it led me into psychoanalysis for a long while, years later, uh when I realized that
Gene Wilder
Maybe my troubles are simply that I'm sick and uh
Gene Wilder
And I need help, but I could not express the anger, the physical aggression, hostility.
Gene Wilder
To a woman, to someone I loved, and it would poison my relationships.
Gene Wilder
Cause
Gene Wilder
A woman would say to me, Don't you
Gene Wilder
Respect me enough to get angry with me.
Gene Wilder
which was devastating and devastatingly true.
Presenter
Tell me about record number three.
Gene Wilder
Well, I was taught by um a famous songwriter once that there's only three things in a song as far as the music is concerned.
Gene Wilder
Uh melody.
Gene Wilder
Harmony and rhythm. That's all there is. And then, if you want to add the fourth, the lyrics.
Gene Wilder
There is a fifth I found, and I found it in this song of something that great musicians do, jazz musicians and great actors do when they improvise. That the scene something has taken over and things are coming out of you that you don't
Gene Wilder
even know are coming out, or you didn't plan on them coming out, but they're right and they're coming out. When I heard this I said, he's not only brilliant, but he's also an actor, Otis Redding.
Gene Wilder
You'll see.
Speaker 2
You know she's waiting.
Gene Wilder
Uh
Speaker 2
And just
Gene Wilder
Hating
Speaker 2
Uh
Gene Wilder
For things that you never, never, never, never possess yet.
Speaker 2
Uh
Speaker 2
Wow, she's there waiting.
Speaker 2
And without them
Speaker 2
Trying to get away from the map.
Speaker 2
Our little tender lamb.
Presenter
Otis Redding and try a little tenderness. What was your first stage appearance then, Jean?
Gene Wilder
My first part was as Balthazar, Romeo's man servant, in Romeo and Juliet. The second appearance was as the messenger in Much Ado About Nothing.
Presenter
How old were you when you were doing this was school, was it?
Gene Wilder
No, this was community theater. This was big time in Milwaukee. I was uh fifteen.
Presenter
The physicality of your acting is important. I mean there is that sort of
Presenter
Your body movements, there's a slapstick element to it, isn't there?
Gene Wilder
Yes, I know you mean it as a compliment. I do. I know.
Presenter
I do, I do.
Gene Wilder
I try, I try, I try to tell the story. My teacher used to say, What would happen if you cut the sound?
Gene Wilder
And no one could hear a word you're saying, on stage or in film.
Gene Wilder
Would the story go on physically?
Gene Wilder
Um, like a silent movie. Yeah.
Gene Wilder
So I always try to tell the story as much physically as I can when I'm acting, whether it's the stage or screen.
Presenter
You made it sound as if it all happened to you really quite easily. You know, becoming an actor, it didn't. It was a long, slow business. You didn't.
Gene Wilder
When people say to me in London, young actors come up and say, What do you have to do? Or what do you think? What do I say? Just be prepared for rejection, because that's your second name.
Gene Wilder
If you can't handle that, you're never going to make it.
Presenter
And if you're Gene Wilder, you can't get angry even when you're being rejected.
Gene Wilder
I can now.
Gene Wilder
Finally.
Presenter
Cost twenty-three thousand dollars, but I
Gene Wilder
Cost twenty-three thousand dollars, but I can now.
Presenter
Record number four.
Gene Wilder
Um
Gene Wilder
I heard this song by Hurricane Smith called O Babe, What Would You Say? And it made me laugh so much, and I told it to my then wife, Gilda Radner, before she died, when she was studying dance, and she surprised me one day.
Gene Wilder
She had worked on it for four weeks with a choreographer and I came home, she put on the record and she did her dance routine to this song. So it has very happy memories of when she was healthy and bursting with energy.
Gene Wilder
I could be so improved.
Gene Wilder
With you.
Speaker 2
And I know that I could make you love me too.
Speaker 2
And if I could only hear you say you do
Speaker 2
But anyway
Gene Wilder
Ah! Uh
Gene Wilder
What would he say?
Presenter
Hurricane Smith and Oh, Babe, what would you say?
Presenter
You met Gilda, Gilda Radner, in nineteen eighty one and you married her in'eighty four, and she died five years later of cancer. It was an event which in many ways, again, something that changed the whole direction of your life, didn't it? You became Wilder the activist.
Gene Wilder
I became wilder the
Gene Wilder
The uh impassioned
Gene Wilder
hopeful um dreamer, I suppose, that
Gene Wilder
I could help other people.
Gene Wilder
So they wouldn't have to go through what she went through to save other gildas.
Gene Wilder
She had a cancer therapist in California named Joanna Bull.
Gene Wilder
And there was a place in California, in Santa Monica, California, where she could be with other people who were in the same boat she was in, where she could scream and yell and laugh.
Gene Wilder
tell all the things she was afraid of, share all the things she was feeling guilty about, and have the rapport with others in the same room telling about their lives with their husbands, their lovers, their children.
Gene Wilder
with a therapist there to give social support, emotional support. We got to Connecticut, thought she was cured, she wasn't. It lasted for two months, uh the remission, and
Gene Wilder
There was no place in the East for her to go to like that.
Gene Wilder
And so
Gene Wilder
It was sort of an unspoken
Gene Wilder
promised to her that there would be such a place one day. I called Joanna Bull.
Gene Wilder
To come East, we talked, and after four and a half years, finally.
Gene Wilder
Really difficult times raising the money, finding a place, getting the help. And now the doors are open. It's a happy, cheerful, colorful place for anyone with cancer and their families, free of charge.
Presenter
And is it true you want to set some up over here, or you've talked about it?
Gene Wilder
I'm not involved now except to give uh moral support, but there will be a Gildas Club in London, and I expect quite soon.
Presenter
And that was all born as well, I i if I read it aright, of your kind of sense of guilt, because you're not guilt.
Gene Wilder
Not guilt, not guilt. Um
Presenter
But you felt, didn't you, that you should have done more, that you you kept telling her she wasn't going to die and in
Gene Wilder
Yeah.
Gene Wilder
I I was the I I had I had two
Presenter
You are.
Gene Wilder
Great.
Gene Wilder
I had one great virtue and one great fault during that time. The great fault was that I believed up until three weeks before she died that she was going to make it.
Gene Wilder
The great virtue was that I believed up until three weeks before she died that she was going to make it.
Gene Wilder
So every day
Gene Wilder
Every single day when she said
Gene Wilder
What do you think? What do you really think? And I would say, I wish I could trade life spans with you. He said, Really? Do you really mean it? And I really meant it.
Gene Wilder
I was so dumb that they they should have put me out to pasture.
Gene Wilder
But
Gene Wilder
It helped her.
Presenter
Record number five.
Gene Wilder
Um now, tell you something happy. After Gilda had died.
Gene Wilder
I heard this piece by Schubert and
Gene Wilder
I had such turmoil going on in me at the time
Gene Wilder
when she was dying and then after she died. And I heard this and it was so calm.
Gene Wilder
So loving, so tranquil.
Gene Wilder
made me feel peaceful for
Gene Wilder
A few minutes of the day.
Gene Wilder
And
Gene Wilder
After she died.
Gene Wilder
And I thought, well, my life I think is probably
Gene Wilder
basically over as far as romance is concerned.
Gene Wilder
And I met someone at the New York League for the Hard of Hearing, someone who was working there as a speech therapist, and I was doing research on a film.
Gene Wilder
and I helped her. Her name was Miss Webb now her name is Karen Wilder. But uh I started to associate that music with her face.
Presenter
The Beaux Art Trio playing part of Schubert's piano trio in B flat opus ninety nine D eight nine eight.
Presenter
So in the end, Gene, you fulfilled, as you say, your unspoken promise to Gilda and and you went back to work. Although you you you did a a film with Richard Pryor, I think, didn't you, in uh in ninety one? Uh uh as a sort of follow-up to Silver Streak and Stir Crazy, it was called Another You. Apparently you had this very special relationship with Richard Pryor that you you you had a kind of mysterious rapport, right, from the word go, didn't you?
Gene Wilder
Yeah, I did.
Gene Wilder
From the very first day, first take.
Gene Wilder
Oh, the first film we did, Silverstreak, we started improvising. We we we would know maybe how the scene would start, but not how it was gonna finish. Or we n we knew how it was gonna finish, but not how it was gonna start.
Gene Wilder
It was magic. It was some chemical thing that happened between us.
Presenter
But undoubtedly the the biggest single influence on your career has been Mel Brooks, really, hasn't it? Do do you ever think he's been too much of an influence?
Gene Wilder
Too much from what perspective?
Presenter
Well, I'm thinking about um Frank Rich, the the infamous critic, I think, who
Gene Wilder
I don't read critics.
Gene Wilder
When they can write a movie.
Gene Wilder
When they can direct a movie, when they can act a movie,
Gene Wilder
And they've done it.
Gene Wilder
Then I'll listen to them.
Gene Wilder
If they can say why
Gene Wilder
It was good.
Gene Wilder
Why it was bad, but have at the heart
Gene Wilder
Of their criticism.
Gene Wilder
How can I help this artist to do better? Not how can I make a name for myself and get more money for my column, for my T V show, for my radio show, but how can I help the artist do better work next time by showing him why I think he went astray this time? Then I would read all of them.
Presenter
But I wonder in any case, really, whether nobody likes to have any kind of flop, but I wonder if you mind as much as some. You strike me as being somebody yes, of course you care very much about what you do, but the actual show biz element of it doesn't seem to me to matter so much to you.
Gene Wilder
I hate show business. Yeah, I try to eradicate it like a cancer from my life.
Presenter
Yeah.
Presenter
Why?
Gene Wilder
Because it has nothing to do with art.
Gene Wilder
It's the selling of the art. It's necessary. I understand that.
Gene Wilder
But it has nothing to do with the artistic process.
Presenter
Record number six.
Gene Wilder
This is perhaps the
Gene Wilder
The Saddest Song
Gene Wilder
And most compassionate.
Gene Wilder
Song that I've ever heard. It's like.
Gene Wilder
A dagger made of tears that sticks in my heart.
Presenter
Don't explain
Gene Wilder
Uh
Presenter
There is nothing to gain
Speaker 1
Skip that lips
Gene Wilder
Still
Gene Wilder
Don't explain
Presenter
Nina Simone and don't explain. It's it's incredibly romantic, incredibly sad.
Presenter
You in fact did something incredibly romantic from a from a public platform not very long ago. Some might say in the best traditions of American showbiz, it has to be said. You made a a a very special award to your wife Karen.
Gene Wilder
Um
Gene Wilder
Karen Wilder.
Gene Wilder
Had been through four and a half years of listening to Gilda.
Gene Wilder
Cancer.
Gene Wilder
Cancer and Gilda.
Gene Wilder
And never once.
Gene Wilder
Said one word about
Gene Wilder
I think that's enough, darling.
Gene Wilder
I think I can't take it any more.
Gene Wilder
So at one huge benefit that we had, not that long ago.
Gene Wilder
I said and now I would like to give
Gene Wilder
The Gene Wilder Unconditional Love for the Rest of My Life Award.
Gene Wilder
To Karen Wilder
Gene Wilder
And
Gene Wilder
There was applause like you couldn't believe, because everyone had been feeling this, who knew her.
Gene Wilder
and couldn't say it, because they were afraid of saying the wrong thing, but I was saying it for them.
Gene Wilder
And she got up, with the tears flowing out of her eyes, and
Gene Wilder
I gave her a kiss that was the award. But unconditional love I've never given to any woman.
Gene Wilder
But I gave it to her.
Presenter
And um the love of a good woman in Gene Wilder's terms then is is worth more than anything, isn't it? Worth more than all that public acclaim and
Gene Wilder
Oh yeah, because the reason that you go into acting in the first place.
Gene Wilder
is to get love that you think
Gene Wilder
Is missing in your life, even if you're too young to understand why. But you keep craving it, and when you hear that first applause, you think this is it.
Gene Wilder
And then thirty or forty years later you realize that isn't it.
Gene Wilder
It's not the same as being loved.
Gene Wilder
Truly loved by someone.
Speaker 1
Seven trick on.
Gene Wilder
I said I paint and a piece that I love to play when I paint.
Gene Wilder
is Chopin's concerto number one in E minor.
Presenter
Arto Rubinstein playing part of Chopin's piano concerto No. One in E minor, with the new Symphony Orchestra of London, conducted by Stanislav Skrovchewski.
Presenter
Oh, what next then do you like the way I said a scroll cheese?
Gene Wilder
I couldn't have said it.
Presenter
What next? You're sixty one. You're back in harness, working hard. What what do you want to tackle? More projects or?
Gene Wilder
Well?
Gene Wilder
Um what I learned from Gilda's death.
Gene Wilder
Is
Gene Wilder
How to be happy
Gene Wilder
And also that I may not be alive next week.
Gene Wilder
So I don't plan too far ahead?
Gene Wilder
Um
Gene Wilder
I think
Gene Wilder
I think Tolstoy said
Gene Wilder
that happiness was the most difficult thing to achieve in life and
Gene Wilder
Since I feel blessed.
Gene Wilder
to feel happy, um I don't worry now about what will I do next as far as my career is concerned, because when the right thing happens,
Gene Wilder
It'll come along. I don't have to worry about it.
Presenter
Unless it's an offer from NBC to do a sitcom.
Gene Wilder
You can be sure that I won't accept that.
Presenter
What about a desert island? I mean, are you going to be able to look after yourself there? Are you going to be able to snare a rabbit?
Gene Wilder
What do I write to my wife, or what do I do there?
Presenter
If you've got paper and pencil, but it may not be there, you see. You've got to look after yourself. You are all on your own, mister Wilder.
Gene Wilder
Yeah.
Presenter
And what, apart from your wife, would you miss most? Would you miss the telephone or ice cream or or melt?
Presenter
What would you miss?
Gene Wilder
Oh, the Checco pasta, maybe.
Presenter
The what?
Gene Wilder
Dicheco is a brand of pasta.
Presenter
Tell me about your last record.
Gene Wilder
Um
Gene Wilder
We went to see the Gershwin musical called Crazy for You.
Gene Wilder
After this one particular number, I had a hard time staying in my seat, it gives me a goose and I want to jump up and do things.
Speaker 2
Uh
Presenter
I can't be bothered now from Gershwin's musical Crazy for You. You were out of breath already with Harry Gurner and Bobby Ch uh that was Harry Grerner, I'm trying to say, as Bobby Child. Now if you could only take one of those eight records, Jean.
Speaker 1
Yeah.
Gene Wilder
Well
Gene Wilder
If I could only take one, I tell you I don't want to make you sad, but.
Presenter
Mm-hmm.
Gene Wilder
I would probably take Nina Simone.
Presenter
I thought you were gonna say that. Nina Simone and don't explain.
Presenter
And you can take an extra book. We give you the Bible, and we give you the complete works of Shakespeare.
Presenter
So you can have one other book of your own choosing.
Gene Wilder
Yeah.
Gene Wilder
It's a novel that I don't know if you've ever heard of. It was written by Jean Renoir, the film director. The only novel he wrote.
Gene Wilder
Called The Notebooks of Captain George.
Gene Wilder
It's so simple and romantic.
Gene Wilder
And uh
Gene Wilder
Such a beautiful story.
Gene Wilder
Either that or the complete works of Sigmund Freud.
Gene Wilder
Uh
Presenter
One of the
Gene Wilder
One or the other. They're both very romantic.
Presenter
They're they both
Presenter
And a luxury.
Gene Wilder
A luxury.
Presenter
Uh-huh.
Gene Wilder
A huge can of Twining's Earl Grey tea.
Presenter
You shall have it. Jean Wilder, thank you very much indeed for letting us hear your desert island diss.
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Presenter asks
What was it like working with Brooks?
Well, it was it was heaven on a stick for me and working with Zero Mistel at the same time because Zero... protected me like a mother hen. He watched over me and... We spent all our lunch hours together. We had a wonderful time.
Presenter asks
How did your mother's heart attack change your life?
She had a heart attack, the doctor said. You must never get angry with her, or you you could kill her. Which was a horrible thing to say to a child. And the other thing he said was try to make her laugh. And I did. For the first time in my life, I consciously tried to make someone laugh. And I was successful. And you know, when you're successful with your mom. You get a confidence that nothing else can give you.
Presenter asks
Did Gilda Radner's death change the direction of your life?
I became wilder the... impassioned hopeful um dreamer, I suppose, that I could help other people. So they wouldn't have to go through what she went through to save other gildas.
Presenter asks
Why do you hate show business?
Because it has nothing to do with art. It's the selling of the art. It's necessary. I understand that. But it has nothing to do with the artistic process.
“If children want to be cruel they'll find a way. Your size is the easiest one.”
“Just be prepared for rejection, because that's your second name. If you can't handle that, you're never going to make it.”
“I hate show business. Yeah, I try to eradicate it like a cancer from my life.”
“the reason that you go into acting in the first place. is to get love that you think Is missing in your life, even if you're too young to understand why. But you keep craving it, and when you hear that first applause, you think this is it. And then thirty or forty years later you realize that isn't it. It's not the same as being loved. Truly loved by someone.”