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Desert Island Discs
Presented by Sue Lawley
British Labour MEP who achieved the largest majority in Europe, former wife of a Labour leader and now a politician in her own right.
Eight records
Dafydd y Garreg Wen (David of the White Rock)
Disc 2 selected by the castaway at [421].
Love Duet (from Madama Butterfly, Act 1)
Renata Scotto and Carlo Bergonzi
Disc 4 selected by the castaway at [939].
Ode to Joy (from Symphony No. 9 in D minor)
Chicago Symphony Orchestra and Chorus
Disc 5 selected by the castaway at [1234].
Violin Concerto in D major, Op. 77 (third movement)
Disc 7 selected by the castaway at [1707].
Disc 8 selected by the castaway at [1879].
The keepsakes
The book
The Open University Third World Atlas
Open University
I'd like an atlas. I thought the Peter's Projection Atlas, but I've just come across a wonderful third world atlas which the Open University has produced, and it's full of detail, and I shall so enjoy studying all the graphs and the maps and the history that it contains.
The luxury
If I can't have that [cat], then I would like a nice bag with barrier creams and so on, so that when I do re-emerge from this awful castaway existence, then at least I will have protected my skin from the effects of the sun.
In conversation
Presenter asks
Is it a case of at last, Glenys? I mean, is it something of a relief to have your own political voice?
Ah, yes, I think it has been a pleasure to be able to speak out about things that I care about and to be I mean, it's still a surprise when you said a politician now. I'm still brought up short by the idea that I can be described as one. But I I am enjoying it.
Presenter asks
What did you feel passionate about as a girl?
I think because of where I lived, I lived in Hollyhead and a lot of the people that I knew had travelled wild widely, including my father, who'd been a merchant seaman. … I remember John Cole saying that people who live on the coast have broad horizons. They look out and they they tend to look out beyond the place where they live. … And my father, I remember in nineteen fifty six, the Suez Crisis said to me, This is their canal. You must remember that this belongs to people and this is Africa and it doesn't belong to us. And those kind of things were very formative and important.
The recording
Timestamps play the recording from that turn
Speaker 1
Hello, I'm Kirsty Young, and this is a podcast from the Desert Island Discs Archive. For rights reasons, we've had to shorten the music.
Speaker 1
The programme was originally broadcast in nineteen ninety four, and the presenter was Sue Lawley.
Presenter
My Castaway this week is a politician. For most of her life, however, she's been a politician's wife, albeit an extremely high profile and independent one.
Presenter
She was brought up in North Wales, and at the age of twenty two married a man who was to become leader of the Labour Party. She supported him loyally and effectively, but when he stood down she took up the political cudgels herself, and was returned as a British MEP with the biggest majority in Europe.
Presenter
Six years ago I interviewed her husband as a castaway on this programme. Today it's her turn. At the age of fifty she's at last a politician in her own right. She is Glennys Kinnock. Is it a case of at last, Glenys? I mean, is it something of a relief to have your own political voice?
Glenys Kinnock
Ah, yes, I think it has been a pleasure to be able to speak out about things that I care about and to be I mean, it's still a surprise when you said a politician now. I'm still brought up short by the idea that I can be described as one. But I I am enjoying it.
Presenter
But nevertheless, very strange having uh now to be the main player, you to be the one who's got the appointments, who's got the secretary, who's got to be somewhere. I mean, it must be a very odd transition.
Glenys Kinnock
It is odd, but of course I have been familiar with that kind of setup through Neal, I suppose, but also as part of a team that went out campaigning in elections and so on. I was quite familiar with how things were.
Presenter
But I read somewhere that you turned up at at at s at your own campaign, sort of thinking, Where's the candidate?
Glenys Kinnock
I know. I as I went around canvassing and campaigning, I'd often say, because you're always told that you must make sure that the candidate gets into the photograph with whoever is the person from the party there giving them support on that particular day. And I would quite often find myself saying, Well, where's the candidate then? You know, why isn't she or he here to stand with me while we turn on this thing or reveal the plaque or something? So it it has been quite a surprise for me, even on those occasions, and I still do pinch myself and
Glenys Kinnock
I I think I have a sense of having to prove myself too, which perhaps others don't have to the same degree as I have. To prove yourself to yourself? To myself and also to others, to prove that I'm not there as Neil's wife, but I'm there in my own right. And I don't think I necessarily have to do that, but it's something I find very difficult to avoid feeling that.
Presenter
To myself and also
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Uh
Presenter
Well, for years of course have written about you as as the Labour Leader's Wife and then the former Labour Leader's Wife. Aren't they now, now that Neil's been made a European Commissioner, going to say wife of the British Commissioner?
Glenys Kinnock
That's right. They probably put it all together and need a side of A four to do it. I think it does take some time to describe my role. I hope that the day will arrive when I will be Gleniskinnock MEP, and that's quite sufficient, I think, now.
Presenter
Well, we're here to take you away from all of that to a desert island full of your favorite music, so tell me about your first record.
Glenys Kinnock
It's not really, I don't think, even my favourite music. It's very difficult to choose. I've had about dozens of stabs at it, as everyone, I'm sure. But my first one would be Paul Simon singing It Was a Sunny Day, because that will remind me of time spent in the car when the children were little. We played a lot of Simon and Garfunkel. This one with just Paul Simon would remind me of a little yellow mini that I had, and the children strapped in the back, and we used to sing it, and it was always very happy, even when it wasn't a sunny day.
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Was a sunny day.
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Not a cloud was in the sky
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Not a negative word was heard.
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From the peoples passing by
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Was a sunny day?
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Got a cloud was in the sky.
Presenter
Paul Simon, and was a sunny day. So your political success, Glynnis, really, in becoming an MEP, was born of Neal's failure to become Prime Minister. He wouldn't have done the one if he'd achieved the other.
Glenys Kinnock
That's right. Uh and of course it would have been
Glenys Kinnock
Better to have won the election and have had Neil as Prime Minister. But as things turned out, there was a vacant seat for the European constituency of South East Wales. And I thought after a lot of people had asked me to do it, and I'd said, No, no, no, I can't do that. Why should I do that? I've never done that. And women friends particularly said, Well, you're always asking women to stand for election. What put your money where your mouth is? And suddenly well we were driving along to see Rachel in Bristol and I asked Neil who was going for this seat and he said, Well, I don't know, it's a few people. And I just said, Well, I think I'll have a go for it. And he nearly drove the car off the road. He was so shocked because I had never discussed it with him.
Glenys Kinnock
But it occurred to me that I should have a go. And he didn't mind. He's been a little bit more. He was delighted. He was absolutely thrilled because he does think that being a member of the European Parliament is an important job.
Presenter
He was delighted.
Speaker 1
Uh
Glenys Kinnock
I've certainly found that as a backbencher in the European Parliament I can achieve far more than I've observed backbenchers in Westminster are able to achieve.
Glenys Kinnock
Well, you're the majority party, right? We're the majority party and uh I mean I've had a responsibility for the development budget as a backbencher and you can't imagine that ever happening in Westminster.
Presenter
Building.
Presenter
But it is portrayed nevertheless the European Parliament as being really rather ungainly and a bit of a talking shop and and really a bit boring, is it?
Glenys Kinnock
I don't think it's boring at all, and I've been quite surprised at how exhilarating it's been working there. Obviously, it's difficult to watch because of the problem of translation. When people are funny and it takes some time for that joke to come through, then obviously it's lost. So people tend to to speak in a very concise way and get their message through, and you often have very short times to speak in.
Glenys Kinnock
That does make it less exciting. But on the other hand, because we have a less confrontational system, it means that we actually get on with working towards the objectives that we have. And that suits many of us, particularly I think women, and it's a much happier, more relaxed place to work in. But what would happen, Glenny? If a second If Labour seat. was offered to you. for the next election.
Presenter
I do it.
Glenys Kinnock
Would you be tempted? No, I would not, because since Maastricht and in the years ahead, I think that we'll have a lot more power and we will be translating the things that we do, I hope, into more accessible English, more understandable English, less of the gobbledygook, and we will explain what we're doing and people will feel that we have more relevance. Record number two.
Glenys Kinnock
Record number two is David the Garregwen, which is a very sombre, typically Welsh but beautiful song about death and dying and angels of death and so on. It reminds me of my childhood, not because that was dull and sombre and grim at all, but because I did a lot of singing as a child in chapel. My grandfather was a deacon and he entered me for lots of singing competitions and I represented the chapel that I attended. And this is just one of the songs that I used to sing and it's still my party piece, I have to say, that I'm often asked to sing David the Garretwen. It's a very beautiful song.
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Are you
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Feel the daub is
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One.
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I see all the king of
Presenter
Dava the Garra Gwen, David of the White Rock, sung by Thomas L. Thomas. So your family, Glenniskinnick, was Welsh speaking, chapel going Labour, and your dad was a railway signalman and a union official. I have this this vision of you shut up in the signal box with him learning politics at his knee. Is that right?
Glenys Kinnock
I did, and I can remember when I was about fourteen finding out that not everybody did that and had their house full of Labour Party election material and so on. I thought everyone was the same.
Glenys Kinnock
But my dad was very involved politically and claims that in the nineteen forty five election that my pram was filled with election literature when I was a year old and distributed. So it was very much part of my life. What did you feel passionate about then as a girl?
Glenys Kinnock
I think because of where I lived, I lived in Hollyhead and a lot of the people that I knew had travelled wild widely, including my father, who'd been a merchant seaman.
Glenys Kinnock
So I was very interested and very concerned even then about the rest of the world.
Glenys Kinnock
I remember John Cole saying that people who live
Glenys Kinnock
on the coast have broad horizons. They look out and they they tend to look out beyond the place where they live.
Glenys Kinnock
And I think I always did that. And my father, I remember in nineteen fifty six, the Suez Crisis said to me, This is their canal. You must remember that this belongs to people and this is Africa and it doesn't belong to us. And those kind of things were very formative and important.
Presenter
And you felt strongly about capital punishment, animal rights, women's rights.
Glenys Kinnock
I just had this very strong sense of justice, I think, more than anything, a sense that people had rights to common justice and rights to freedoms and liberty. And I suppose, although there they were only half-formed thoughts at that age, that really was where my politics came from. And it certainly wasn't based on reading Karl Marx and so on. It was much more a response that came from feeling that people were not getting their fair share.
Presenter
But you weren't a a a rebel. You were a golden girl, a good daughter, a good pupil, you were a head girl. Your report said you were bright I quote bright, mature, and intelligent. Uh what did you think you were going to do with your life? I was
Glenys Kinnock
Yeah.
Presenter
Don't
Glenys Kinnock
A good girl. The head the head of the school made me head girl because I had been so naughty and then turned out to be quite good in the end.
Presenter
It's good tactic.
Glenys Kinnock
Because my main problem was that I didn't stop talking and I was always campaigning and and doing things on capital punishment and so on. So it was a bit of a nuisance at school. But when I he quite liked that, I think.
Presenter
But all of that description and you were obviously quite confident and as you said just now you you used to sing on Eye Steadford platforms and that sort of thing seems to be contradicted. I see Neil told a newspaper recently that you you lacked confidence at university. He says I had to try all my arts of persuasion to get her to run for student office. How do you explain that?
Glenys Kinnock
So, what happened? Because at school I was very confident and I did involve myself in drama and debates and so on. But when I went to university, I did lose my confidence. I did feel.
Glenys Kinnock
that every one else was m much cleverer and much better able to get up and speak.
Glenys Kinnock
I was very homesick and took a long time to adjust to being a long way away from my parents. I missed them very much. And I think that's really m what affected me. Record number three.
Glenys Kinnock
Record number three was I thought I'd put this in because I do like country and western, I have to say, but Tammy Wynnette singing Stand By Your Man I thought might avoid you asking some of the questions that you might naturally want to ask.
Speaker 4
Cause after all
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It is just a man.
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Stand by it, friend.
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Get them to arm the coincidence.
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And something warm to come too.
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When nights are cold and lonely
Presenter
Tammy Wynnette and Stand By Your Man. So how much did it pain you both, when Neil was leader of the Labour Party, that you were represented as the power behind the throne, that that it would be said and written that you were more intelligent than Neil?
Glenys Kinnock
Obviously it all of that was was painful and difficult to take day after day. It was relentless. The description of me as being very manipulative and always undermining Neil, either doing that or developing policies for the Labour Party, all completely untrue. But
Presenter
But did you understand perhaps why people might say that? Probably because Neil was publicly very flamboyant and impulsive, whereas you always appeared very controlled and dignified, and perhaps people had the impression that you were saying to him, Look, don't do that. You know, do it like this. Calm down. Don't lose your temper.
Glenys Kinnock
Mm.
Glenys Kinnock
Well, I th I think that that was something, quite honestly, that the press in this country saw as a way of of getting at Neal.
Glenys Kinnock
And it's a very effective way of implying that in some way he was weak because he had what they described as a strong wife. With Dennis Thatcher and Maggie Thatcher, they did the opposite, of course. It was the hen pecking which was to give her the strength. So we we were in a no-win situation. And it's still the same because when Neil was leader, they said that I was telling him what to do, and now that I'm an MEP, they say he's telling me what to do. So whatever we do, we don't seem to be able to win.
Presenter
I suppose the other excuse the press might put forward is that that you um were and are uh a very active person. You went to Greenham Common, you went to miners' rallies during the strike. I think Neil once described you as his eminence rouge, which was perhaps a mistake. That they felt you had political views and had to be delivering them over the meal tables at home.
Glenys Kinnock
I yes, and I never understood why they did that and and the things that I did, the issues and campaigns that I got involved with, because that was the only way for me to operate really and one that was naturally what I enjoyed doing. And I never felt I had to apologise to anyone for it, and never at any time did Neil feel that it was inappropriate or for me to do it or that I shouldn't do it, and nobody ever told me that I shouldn't.
Presenter
So is is the sad truth of being the wife of a leading politician that if you are willing to be modest and self-effacing, the press will leave you alone. They'll just
Presenter
Do you over a couple of times for your fashion sense or lack of it. But if you're if you're viva vivacious and articulate Then
Glenys Kinnock
And you're going to be pillowed. It did get less towards the end of Neil's leadership the last few years. They did lay off quite a bit. What advice have you given to Cherie Blair about how to deal with all of this? None at all, because we're very good friends. I'm extremely fond of both of them, and I'm sure that they'll both find their own way to manage the press and the interference in their personal lives, because that's the major problem, is protecting your children. And I know that Tony and Cherie feel that is the most important thing for them to do, and they've spoken to us about that. And Tony, I know, has often said that he takes heart from the fact that Neil was leader for many years during the time when his children were adolescents, and that Stephen and Rachel have turned out very well. So I think he and Cherie take heart from that.
Glenys Kinnock
Next piece of music. The next piece of music is the love duet from the first act of Madam Butterfly. I'm not a great opera lover, but Madam Butterfly I love very much, and this is such a passionate, romantic piece of music. It makes the hair stand up on the back of your neck. It's absolutely wonderful.
Presenter
Renato Scotto and Carlo Bergonzi singing part of the love duet from the first act of Puccini's Madam Butterfly, with the orchestra of the Rome Opera, conducted by Sir John Barbaroli. I can see the hairs standing on the back of your neck.
Glenys Kinnock
Oh, isn't it?
Presenter
Mm-hmm.
Glenys Kinnock
Ava Ha ha.
Presenter
So let's talk about the night of the great defeat, um, april nineteen ninety two, obviously a turning point in your lives, as we've said. Had you contemplated defeat beforehand during the campaign, or did it come as a total surprise?
Glenys Kinnock
During the last week of the campaign, I went up to Norwich and the constituencies in in that part of the country, and I had a sense then that things were slipping away very badly from us.
Presenter
Did you and Neil talk about it? I mean, did you sit and face each other, I'm sure you did, and said, Look, what's gonna happen if we don't get it after all this?
Glenys Kinnock
Uh
Glenys Kinnock
We didn't talk about what was going to happen if we didn't get it. I always knew that if we didn't win, Neil would immediately resign. He'd always said that, that uh if this time it didn't work out, then he would feel that it was
Glenys Kinnock
Time for someone else to lead the party, that he had done everything that he could. At what point was it on the night that you knew, that Neil knew, that's it? I think during the day, results were coming in from the regions, and people in our party were in touch throughout the day. We were in Isla in the constituency, we'd voted in the morning, and we were just hearing that the responses, that people were turning out very slowly, and so on. And there was just a nervousness that crept in that although we knew that we weren't going to have a decent majority, there was always perhaps the chance that it would be a hung parliament, that those were the circumstances that he and his office would have to deal with. But as the day went on, there was more and more a sense that it was slipping very badly indeed, and that the likelihood was that we wouldn't win. And certainly by the evening, of course, that was very clear. And even though exit polls were giving contrary evidence, we actually knew and we were preparing ourselves for dealing with the defeat.
Presenter
And
Glenys Kinnock
Then when
Presenter
In that that famous result that Basildon, the key marginal that y you had to win, came in and it was a Tory hole. That was just after eleven o'clock.
Presenter
Is it true that Neil then said that's it?
Glenys Kinnock
Yes, he did. And he's you know, people had been saying, Oh, it could be okay, it it might just swing, you can't be certain. But at that point, Neil said, Right, that's it. We've got to now prepare for how we deal with the next few hours. And we we had to go, of course, to his count and he had a magnificent result, a huge majority and great support. But when we got um to the count, of course, uh there were hundreds and hundreds of people outside, lots of people crying. Um it was very emotional. And you cried, you cried a lot, didn't you? I almost want to cry describing it to you now. It's very um strange.
Glenys Kinnock
Uh yes, because um we had hoped for such a lot and you just felt people had been let down.
Glenys Kinnock
And some people said you were more upset than Neil.
Glenys Kinnock
Well, I I grieved really and showed what I felt more than more than Neil did. Niels was contained, I think, which perhaps wasn't such a good thing. I felt absolutely desolate, and I I suppose because he was so dignified and so strong, it I felt ashamed that I wasn't able to do that, but I genuinely was incapable of responding in any other way than
Glenys Kinnock
to grieve for him and also for the people of of the country, because I have believed very much that they had made a very, very serious mistake.
Glenys Kinnock
More music.
Glenys Kinnock
The next piece of music is Ode to Joy. Because it is the European anthem, it's it's lovely because it's orchestral music combined with choral music, which I like very much. And also it reminded me of the European elections because all the Labour candidates were given a take.
Glenys Kinnock
Which we recorded our own voices after a piece of this music. So I have many memories of the South Wales valleys with great renderings of Ode to Joy reverberating around the hills, and people in the constituency say, Oh, God, there she goes again with that music, but I'd very much like to have that on the island.
Speaker 4
The sober middle leader must be
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In their service there, I must find us by design.
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Billy Lord and Simon Road!
Presenter
The Ode to Joy from Beethoven's Symphony No. Nine in D minor with the Chicago Symphony Orchestra and Chorus conducted by Sir George Schulte.
Presenter
You've always said, Lenis, that you and Neil were equals. You've always argued strongly for women's rights, but at the same time
Presenter
If you look at your life, you've subjugated your career until now to to Neil's political career. You went back to part-time teaching. You believed you'd got to be there, hold the family together, be there when the children came home from school.
Glenys Kinnock
I did and I don't regret that for one moment because I think they only have one life and I felt that it was important that somebody was there after school and helping with assignments all the Neil did a lot of that, but it did mean that I was able to be with them for quite a lot of the time. But I I think that it's very important that women do have opportunities to develop careers and and to have professional satisfaction and so on. But that's the conundrum, isn't it? That feminism
Presenter
But that's the
Presenter
Feminism hasn't really answered that it's very difficult for a woman to follow her own professional ambitions if she also believes in fundamentally in that family.
Glenys Kinnock
That is very
Glenys Kinnock
It is, and a lot of women that I know who have pursued their careers feel guilty and miserable and they don't get enough support, and the systems that we have don't have enough flexibility, enough acknowledgement of the importance of family life, because it's important that you do have opportunities to do both of those things, and it shouldn't be beyond the wit of man and woman to find ways of ensuring that it that you can go to work, you can maintain your position on the ladder of whatever career you're involved with, and also feel that you are a responsible parent.
Presenter
Yeah. How much of a sense of frustration did you have then when the children were small? I mean, did you ever stop and think, Look, I could be head of a comprehensive school by now, instead of knocking up spaghetti bolognese in Ely?
Glenys Kinnock
Uh
Glenys Kinnock
I suppose there were moments when I'd be dishonest if I didn't feel, as any one would, that sometimes you feel very claustrophobic or those hours that you spend at the swings with the children on cold winter afternoons. But on the other hand, the compensations were enormous and I wouldn't change any of it or any of the decisions that I made, because if now I had two children who hadn't achieved what mine have, who I felt somehow to blame for anything that had maybe gone wrong in their lives, then I couldn't live with that. As it is, I've been very lucky.
Glenys Kinnock
that I have done what I've done. I've enjoyed teaching very much. I've r written a few books and at fifty I start a new career. It is fortunate for me and I hope that in some small way I can be a role model for others. It's fortunate you've got a lot of energy, you must rise. More than ever. Right, next record. The next record is Dorry Previn. I think she's such a underrated and forgotten singer. Sh she has a wonderful voice and her
Glenys Kinnock
Songs are pure poetry and this one is Mythical Kings and Iguanas.
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Mythical Kings.
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Sure that everything of worth
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Is in the sky and not the earth And I never learned to make my way
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Down, down, down.
Presenter
Where the iguanas play Dorry Previn and Mythical Kings and Iguanas. When does Neil take up his job in Brussels then?
Glenys Kinnock
Since the Maastricht Treaty, it's the case that the Commission has to be approved by the European Parliament. So it is with he has to sit in front of all of us as MEPs.
Presenter
You have to approve him.
Glenys Kinnock
We all have to approve. We approve the Commission as a whole, but they will all have to be part of a question and answer session. But I th there is a delay because of the enlargement of the community. It's taken longer than was anticipated. So
Presenter
It'll be about February. So he comes over in February to Brussels. So at last life begins to make some kind of logical sense again.
Glenys Kinnock
Yes, we're very lucky and people keep coming to us in his constituency and other places say, Oh, isn't it lovely you're going to be together? Well, you have rather been apart, haven't you? Yes, more apart than you've ever been.
Glenys Kinnock
Well, I yes, for the length of time, although there's never been a regularity to our lives that other people have had, there's always been a lot of coming and going. But certainly since um July it has meant that I've spent a lot of time three or four days a week out of the country and uh so it will be very nice if we spend breakfast time together again.
Presenter
But you still have a large house in Ealing'cause you moved just after the election, and you have a father and two constituencies between you in Wales.
Presenter
Uh logistically your life must be hell. Uh you must always have clothes in the wrong place or nobody to feed the cats or
Glenys Kinnock
And my cats have gone to Bristol. It's terrible, it's awful. I've had to relinquish my cats. But I I manage that quite well, I think. And once Neil has somewhere in Brussels, then it will mean that my toothbrush will be in one place and not moving over the Channel once a week and back again. But your son's in Brussels as well. Yes, Stephen is a researcher in the European Parliament, yes. So three members of the kinetic family of that.
Speaker 1
Uh
Presenter
So three members of the kinetic family of that makes a bit more sense.
Glenys Kinnock
It does. And often even there, we were talking earlier about the additions to my name. There I'm often referred to as Stephen's mother.
Presenter
So you're obviously a very organised person if you can manage all of that and have been managing all of that. So you'll be a good castaway, will you? You'll get this island sort of thing.
Glenys Kinnock
Four fifty.
Glenys Kinnock
I would absolutely hate it. I don't like being on my own at all. I'd be very, very lonely and I'd be frightened and I'd hate being there in the dark by myself and thinking that I'd never be rescued. I would really hate it.
Presenter
You'd expire of panic, would you?
Glenys Kinnock
I would Tonight.
Presenter
Especially if I understand a mouse or a rat comes along as the end of Glenniskin.
Glenys Kinnock
I have a phobia about mice and rats. I never ever have been able to overcome the absolute terror that I'm filled with when I see them. So I I don't know what I'd do. I'd have to sit up a tree or something. But it might be even rodenty things up there as well.
Presenter
You never know what you might have to do.
Glenys Kinnock
Yeah.
Glenys Kinnock
Record number seven. Record number seven is the Brahms violin concerto in D, and it has to be played by Nigel Kennedy, please, because it's so full of vivacity and life, and he adds a very special something to it.
Presenter
Part of the third movement of Brahm's violin concerto in D played by Nigel Kennedy, with the London Philharmonic conducted by Klaus Tinstedt.
Presenter
There's a certain irony, isn't there, Glennis, that Europe, which you were so much against at one point, I mean both you and Neil voted against it in the referendum in the mid seventies, has now provided a whole new future for the Kinnock family.
Glenys Kinnock
That's right, and of course we voted against a market, not against the kind of European idea that now exists, and there's no escaping the future that we have within Europe.
Glenys Kinnock
So I don't really see an irony, I just see that things have developed and moved on, and we've been pragmatic enough to do that.
Presenter
And if in two or three years' time Tony and Cherie Blair walk through the door of number ten, I'm sure you'll feel triumphant for the Labour Party and you'll feel that this is right for the country. But will you also have a an enormous sense, or a small sense, of regret that it wasn't you?
Glenys Kinnock
No, I won't, because you have to face up to the reality and we've both done that. And I couldn't be happier that it's Tony Blair. And Cherie he'll be doing that, because I think he's a fine man and a man of great integrity and decency and has all the values that I think are important. And I should be delighted for both of them when that moment comes, as I feel sure it will.
Presenter
And Neil, do you think he'll have a sense of regret?
Glenys Kinnock
I don't think he will. Um I think he feels uh very protective and very affectionate towards Tony and will be
Glenys Kinnock
there won't be anything, any resentment. I know people might think that that's untrue and perhaps dishonest, but it isn't. It's it's it's genuinely the case that we'll be delighted and I just don't really envy the problems that then they'll face because that's that's really when the the difficult work will begin.
Glenys Kinnock
Last record.
Glenys Kinnock
The last record has to reflect my enormous love of Africa and my delight and joy at what has happened in South Africa. The institutionalized racism that afflicted that country for so long, for decades, has ended. And this great song, Cozy Sikhalele, encapsulates the hope that they always had that that moment would arrive.
Speaker 4
Getousi si de la
Speaker 4
Oh sing, sing their day.
Presenter
In Cozy Sicale Afrika, God Bless Africa from the film Cry Freedom, if you could only take one of those records, Glennis.
Glenys Kinnock
I think it would have to be the first one. I thought very long and hard about this. I thought in cosy sicalele, but I'm going to be so miserable that it was a sunny day. I might have to have to tr cheer myself up and uh
Glenys Kinnock
Hope that I can escape.
Presenter
What about your
Glenys Kinnock
Book
Glenys Kinnock
I'd like um an atlas. I thought the Peter's Projection Atlas, but I've just come across a wonderful third world atlas which the Open University has produced, and it's full of detail, and I shall so enjoy studying all the graphs and the maps and the history that it contains. There speaks the school teacher. Yes. And your luxury.
Glenys Kinnock
Well, I was going to ask for a cat because the ship is bound to have had a cat on it and I would you know rescue the cat with not allowed. No, you're not allowed. I'm shaking my head. The cat would be my answer to the mice and also a little bit of company and something furry to stroke, because I wouldn't be wanting to stroke the mice. But if if I can't have that, then I would like a nice bag with barrier creams and so on, so that when I do re-emerge from this awful castaway existence, then at least I will have protected my skin from the effects of the sun.
Presenter
No, you're not at all.
Presenter
Glennis Kinnock, MEP, thank you very much indeed for letting us hear your desert island discs. Thank you, it was a pleasure.
Speaker 1
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Presenter asks
How much did it pain you both, when Neil was leader of the Labour Party, that you were represented as the power behind the throne?
Obviously it all of that was was painful and difficult to take day after day. It was relentless. The description of me as being very manipulative and always undermining Neil, either doing that or developing policies for the Labour Party, all completely untrue. … With Dennis Thatcher and Maggie Thatcher, they did the opposite, of course. It was the hen pecking which was to give her the strength. So we we were in a no-win situation. And it's still the same because when Neil was leader, they said that I was telling him what to do, and now that I'm an MEP, they say he's telling me what to do. So whatever we do, we don't seem to be able to win.
Presenter asks
Had you contemplated defeat beforehand during the [1992] campaign, or did it come as a total surprise?
During the last week of the campaign, I went up to Norwich and the constituencies in in that part of the country, and I had a sense then that things were slipping away very badly from us.
Presenter asks
How much of a sense of frustration did you have when the children were small? Did you ever think: 'I could be head of a comprehensive school by now'?
I suppose there were moments when I'd be dishonest if I didn't feel, as any one would, that sometimes you feel very claustrophobic or those hours that you spend at the swings with the children on cold winter afternoons. But on the other hand, the compensations were enormous and I wouldn't change any of it or any of the decisions that I made…
Presenter asks
If Tony and Cherie Blair walk through the door of Number Ten, will you also have an enormous sense, or a small sense, of regret that it wasn't you [and Neil]?
No, I won't, because you have to face up to the reality and we've both done that. And I couldn't be happier that it's Tony Blair. And Cherie he'll be doing that, because I think he's a fine man and a man of great integrity and decency and has all the values that I think are important.
“It is odd, but of course I have been familiar with that kind of setup through Neal, I suppose, but also as part of a team that went out campaigning in elections and so on. I was quite familiar with how things were.”
“I do pinch myself and I I think I have a sense of having to prove myself too, which perhaps others don't have to the same degree as I have.”
“I grieved really and showed what I felt more than more than Neil did. Niels was contained, I think, which perhaps wasn't such a good thing. I felt absolutely desolate… I genuinely was incapable of responding in any other way than to grieve for him and also for the people of of the country, because I have believed very much that they had made a very, very serious mistake.”
“I would absolutely hate it. I don't like being on my own at all. I'd be very, very lonely and I'd be frightened and I'd hate being there in the dark by myself and thinking that I'd never be rescued. I would really hate it.”